I am a nurse. One early morning at work I was about to give shift report when a telephone call came in. The nurse receiving this call began to cry. She then related the content of the call and everyone sitting at that desk felt frozen in time, shocked by what we had just heard. One of the girls who was soon to deliver a new baby had just gotten the news that her husband stationed in Iraq had been killed in action. For me personally for the first time, the war in Iraq had just come home and landed right in front of me with the very real suffering and loss of life we become almost numb too after endless news reports of a death here and a death there always involving some poor person we have no connection to at all.
At that moment surrounded by tears I became connected in a new, intense and meaningful way.
Does it matter when a game makes light of any of this at all in way whatsoever? To me it sure does. There is nothing light about it. Zero. It is real. The horrific loss of life is real. This current conflict doesn't belong in a game at all. Not at all. If you saw and felt what I did that morning as I thought about a newborn baby who will never know her now dead young father I think you would view of all of this differently. To trivialize anything about a war we are presently in with our young men and women in peril daily and dying often, with scenes like I experienced played out just as often all over America, yes, it is damned offensive for any computer game to make light of it in any way at all. Not a little offensive but a lot.
Does the game deserve a good hard whack in the review for that little bit of indescretion? Yes it sure does. This is not about why Gamespot's staff or reviewer was so wrong. It is about why I have always chosen to come here first. If I want the juvenile take on life I can find that on Gamespy's pages and the like any time I want, which by the way is never.
I am sorry if that seems harsh but honestly, once you have been touched by the suffering firsthand it changes you. It takes away the numbness. The horror comes home. It makes you find a game that deals with it poorly when a game probably should not go there at all repugnant. On encountering that like I did with Vietcong I probably would have uninstalled frankly. So, should a review react to that and tell me? I think so. I am glad it did.
With all the quality entertainment out there I find giving a game that would cross that line even a fair review generous regardless of whether or not they hit every other note in creating a quality game well. They didn't have to blow it that way. Journalistic integrity even in game reviews is not about watering down what you think people might disagree with in large numbers even. On the contrary, it is all about having the guts to publish something knowing there is a good chance of such fallout because you feel you are doing the right thing and telling the truth as you see it.
My brother who is in his 40's and did not have to go at all volunteered to go over there for a year and just recently returned. He is a psychiatric nurse practitioner with a masters in his field as such. They were glad to have him. He gave up a year of the comforts of home to go help those young people who are suffering every single day after seeing and experiencing things most of us probably never will I hope. I have observed that my brother is not the same since his return. His face is not the same. He does not like to talk about it and I think it is because it is too painful. You see, he was the guy they go to see right after a best friend's body is mutilated and destroyed by gunfire or bombs. I will never know what he saw and heard exactly I don't think but I don't have to know. One look at the changed man he is tells me plenty. How can a game make even one reference to this in the current context and be ok? I don't know.
While some games such as the Call of Duty series or the Brothers in Arms series tend to give you some appreciation for what took place in the past and even can make you think about what those guys went though they are done tastefully and with respect for those men many of whom died to protect and preserve the well being and safety of others. It's too soon for a game that deals with what is going on and it is never right to be anything less than respectful of our men and women who put thier lives on the line for us.
This is not about the politics of the war. It's not about views regarding the President or whether we ought to be there or anything controversial. This is about a current conflict being in a game and references to that confict being inappropriate. The big question in my mind is how did so many other reviews fail to address this? Are they all numb to the reality? Maybe they are.
I think I will stop there on this subject but I just wanted to share that experience with you guys. The war however far away is real. The death and suffering and loss is real. The little girls who will grow up with no dad is real. Making offhand remarks of any sort that disrespect or trivialize a moment of what goes on over there is not cool at all. It's not just ok.
* Sorry for the edits, went in to fix some grammar (probably more is wrong) and added just a bit more.
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