Am I "Growing out" of gaming?

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#1 Imrahil1234
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Hi everyone, think I might be slowly, but surely ending my gaming habit/hobby (addiction?)

I've always played video games, My sister owned an NES and I played Mario and whatever else I could on it, My first system was a Sega Saturn, I played Iron Storm quite a bit, as well as all sorts of Sonic games (I actually recentley took out and dusted off my Saturn.) I more recentley bought a Wii, and an XBOX 360. The Wii, while I player it a lot, (Twilight Princess, Mario Galaxy mostly) is now in my sister's apartment, and is used mainly to play Gamecube games, and Guitar hero games. My XBOX was bought last December, and I love it, I don't have many games (NHL 09, Forza2, GTA4+DLC) and a few more, but i find myself playing games less and less, and watching more DVDs with my Xbox then games. I no longer read game forums, and read game news as much, I spend more time reading forums for movies, books, and real news and politcs. I've always got very good grades, but I spend more time at the campus library, studying and looking up stuff on my own........time i would have previously spent playing a MMO (Which I abandoned, and promised not to go back to after a few months on LOTRO). I find myself getting my Lord of the Rings fix by reading the books again, and watching the movies instead of buying LOTR Conquest. I have even contemplated selling my XBOX and putting the money towards going on a cruise with my friends this summer. I find myself looking at buying Older games and systems, and only those heavy on story and light on hyper run and gun and grind gameplay(PS2,Final Fantasy series games......other deeper RPGS)I rarely see a game worth $60 now a days.

Is it possible to just "grow" out of gaming? I am doing it at the age of 21?

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#2 SavageM2
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It is very possible. I would say just give it a break for a while. See if the urge to play comes back. I have felt this before. But for me, in a week or two I felt like playing all over again. If not then maybe it is just time for you to move on. :)
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#3 TechGuru89
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To some people it happens and some people stay here. I would say I'm kinda in, or atleast been in your shoes. I would say like 96ish to 2004ish. I was hardcore! Owned every system all the games and played 25/8 lol. Over time I just found better things to do with my time. It first started when I was having back and wrist problems already from gaming. That was a big scare so I picked up the gym I'm now bodybuilder and I'm at the gym 6 days a week. My second hobby if you will was mountain biking. I picked that up after I started working out late 05ish and alot of my time and money has gone into that. As you get older stuff and people around you change. I'll never forget the fun I had with video games, at the same time I'll never play or spend like I used to. I still play from time to time with friends/brothers, but nothing more than that. Go and do what you want to do, you only live once!
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#4 AustXilo
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My gaming addiction runs in cycles. I will do nothing but play games for a few months, then slow down my gaming, then stop all together for a few weeks or months, then pick it back up and eventually get back to the nothing-but-gaming habit.

When I was dating my now ex, my obsessions were one of the reason her and I broke up. Ha. Now I have a chick that plays games with me!

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#5 XIntoTheBlue
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It's possible to grow out of video gaming. As people's lives move on, they also change. People who used to do things they enjoyed in the past may find themselves not doing it so much in the future. People pick up new hobbies and drop old ones. Nothing too out of the ordinary.
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#6 sukraj
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I'm a gamer for life.
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#7 muthsera666
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My gaming addiction runs in cycles. I will do nothing but play games for a few months, then slow down my gaming, then stop all together for a few weeks or months, then pick it back up and eventually get back to the nothing-but-gaming habit.

AustXilo
I agree with this.
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#8 TriangleHard
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If you approach games as "games" then there are only certain amount you can take.

Eventually it will grow old and uninteresting.

It goes same for everything out there. Movies, cartoons, and whatever.

There is only certain amount of explosions you can be satisfied with in movies, and so many random evil things get beaten up in cartoons, etc.

But if you approach games as more than just games, but as art then you can enjoy it for a lifetime. Games with solid plot, progression, depth to it's story, character development, etc then those tends to keep your interest.

Then mix in those games that's more about being games technically like Street Fighter, then gaming becomes something you cannot be seperated from.

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#9 raahsnavj
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Seeming you have a level 2 profile with 2 posts, along with a X360 that you only play a EA yearly title, the popular racer, and the blockbuster of last year, and you let other people take your systems... I don't think you were ever addicted to video games...
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#10 icy06
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I'm almost 20 and haven't grown out of them..

Having said that I do spend ALOT less time playing games than I used to. I have more important things to be doing (like universirty work, and partying ;p). That doesn't mean I don't enjoy games any less than I used to though.

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#11 Assassin_87
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I wouldn't really say it's possible to "grow out of" gaming. It's just like any other hobby or form of entertainment. If you devote too much time to it then it will begin to feel stale and dull. I've always tempered my gaming binges with long breaks, using something else to pass my free time during these "gaming fasts" if you will. Just a little time off from video games, and I'm sure that when you come back you'll find something to enjoy. It always works for me.
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#12 lost_cheeto
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just move on for awhile. eventually it may come back. everyone is into different things wether it be games or cars or computers. sometimes it goes in cycles what you spend your time on.
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#13 Snrm007
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yeah it is but my 56 yr old day still games so much he plays motor storm so much !
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#14 stike22
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[QUOTE="Imrahil1234"]

Hi everyone, think I might be slowly, but surely ending my gaming habit/hobby (addiction?)

I've always played video games, My sister owned an NES and I played Mario and whatever else I could on it, My first system was a Sega Saturn, I played Iron Storm quite a bit, as well as all sorts of Sonic games (I actually recentley took out and dusted off my Saturn.) I more recentley bought a Wii, and an XBOX 360. The Wii, while I player it a lot, (Twilight Princess, Mario Galaxy mostly) is now in my sister's apartment, and is used mainly to play Gamecube games, and Guitar hero games. My XBOX was bought last December, and I love it, I don't have many games (NHL 09, Forza2, GTA4+DLC) and a few more, but i find myself playing games less and less, and watching more DVDs with my Xbox then games. I no longer read game forums, and read game news as much, I spend more time reading forums for movies, books, and real news and politcs. I've always got very good grades, but I spend more time at the campus library, studying and looking up stuff on my own........time i would have previously spent playing a MMO (Which I abandoned, and promised not to go back to after a few months on LOTRO). I find myself getting my Lord of the Rings fix by reading the books again, and watching the movies instead of buying LOTR Conquest. I have even contemplated selling my XBOX and putting the money towards going on a cruise with my friends this summer. I find myself looking at buying Older games and systems, and only those heavy on story and light on hyper run and gun and grind gameplay(PS2,Final Fantasy series games......other deeper RPGS)I rarely see a game worth $60 now a days.

Is it possible to just "grow" out of gaming? I am doing it at the age of 21?

No your not. Its just that a lot of games in this gen are crap...or just like other games and they haven't got anything interesting....the previous gens were a lot better then this one...I suggest PC games because they last a lot longer and are better then most console games now. Sims for instance. Your just losing interest because your gaming spirit is breaking...a healthy dose of good games or your favorite games should restore your spirit...honestly it almost happened to me this year, then my friend let me borrow one of his old games and spirit was restored.
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#15 EyeWierd20
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I've always been a nonstop gamer. All I can tell you is go by your conscience. If you completely slip away from games, just let it go.
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uhh CHYEA
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#17 ShotGunBunny
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Well, something I've noticed myself is that, the LESS you actually play. The more fun it actually becomes. Might be stupid, but I'm having a lot more fun now then I had 2 months ago when I was behind my comp from 4-12 instead of like 7-11 now.
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#18 Ballroompirate
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Sounds like you need a different hobby, this gen has brought me back into gaming compared to last gen which I barely gamed at all.
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#19 Genia
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I would say its entirely possible you are growing out of it ... but that doesnt mean you'll stop completely. For one games are generally aimed at a teenage audience (still). Even the mature themed ones are still fairly adolescent in my opinion. So as you get older these things can (and im not saying they should) become less appealing and you start being interested in different things. Also as you get older your standards also change. Some things you used to enjoy you start to realise are actually awfully boring and repetitive and you start looking for more innovative things. This happens in almost anything you do to entertain yourself (music, tv, movies etc).
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#20 jjtiebuckle
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I'm jealous! Seriously, I would rather want to spend time in the school library than at home or somewhere else playing vid games. I only skimmed peoples posts, but I'll have to agree with their thoughts, how you're not growing out just growing bored. Nothing wrong with taking a break with a good book or movie, which can be rewarding in their own right for your own doubts as to why you stopped. The best advice I have is keep doing what your doing. Video games can be a crutch in support of boredom or time off, although they lack encouragement you receive from studying and using your brain in positive ways. Good luck and have fun!
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#21 stike22
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I'm jealous! Seriously, I would rather want to spend time in the school library than at home or somewhere else playing vid games. I only skimmed peoples posts, but I'll have to agree with their thoughts, how you're not growing out just growing bored. Nothing wrong with taking a break with a good book or movie, which can be rewarding in their own right for your own doubts as to why you stopped. The best advice I have is keep doing what your doing. Video games can be a crutch in support of boredom or time off, although they lack encouragement you receive from studying and using your brain in positive ways. Good luck and have fun!jjtiebuckle
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Don't you ever, EVER use those words :|

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Please don't go! I'll give you the demo for Halo 5.
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#24 UT_Wrestler
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Take a break from it for a while. You'll eventually want to come back to it. I went 3 years without doing serious gaming, and then came back after seeing how much I had missed.