I need help finding a wife on Harvest Moon DS

Hi,

Ok well I wanted to marry muffy on harvest moon. When she asked me what kind of girl I like I selected the wrong answer. She's purple heart with me. When I go to the beach on a rainy day other than Wednesday from 9 - 11 she's never there. How come?

Heya :) I've had game for ages, have married Lumina and got a kid. Yu can onl get blue feather if you are on red heart with the girl, and can only marry if you have found 60 harvest sprites... this post is a bit late so i don't know if you still need any tips :p