20 year old guy with 40+Year old Woman?

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#1 Solid_Tango
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Is it socially wrong for a 20 year old guy to go out with a 40+year old woman?

What do you guys think?

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#2 zoraluv
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true story my "stepdad" is 24 my mom is 41 and the guy is very immature and well mom can't stand him :?
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#3 Solid_Tango
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[QUOTE="zoraluv"]true story my "stepdad" is 24 my mom is 41 and the guy is very immature and well mom can't stand him :?

then how come they are together? and dude how old are you?
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#4 deactivated-5e836a855beb2
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what i want to know... is what is that 20 yo guy thinking?
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#5 Melpoe
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Sure why not.

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#7 ZombiefiedZomB
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I would be grossed out seeing that.
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#8 Espada12
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Some 40 year olds are pretty hot....

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#9 zoraluv
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[QUOTE="Solid_Tango"][QUOTE="zoraluv"]true story my "stepdad" is 24 my mom is 41 and the guy is very immature and well mom can't stand him :?

then how come they are together? and dude how old are you?

money issues (he owns the car but my mom is trying to get her own) i'm 17 :cry: he's weird and nasty :cry:
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#10 Pixel-Pirate
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I personally don't care what society thinks.

However, probably so. Society does not care if a young man dates an adult woman. A 40 year old man dating a 20 year old woman might be less acceptable, though.

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#11 zoraluv
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I personally don't care what society thinks.

However, probably so. Society does not care if a young man dates an adult woman. A 40 year old man dating a 20 year old woman might be less acceptable, though.

Pixel-Pirate
not true marliyn manson+racheal woods and that guy i can't remember >_> now the relationship might not end well AT ALL but it is nothing to "unacceptable"
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#12 Anti-Venom
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Im all for it
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#13 fueled-system
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I don't see a problem at all. It's two adults.

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#14 -The-G-Man-
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depends on the woman :D
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#15 kidsmelly
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They are both grown ups. Don't really care. Plus I have seen some sexy looking 40 year olds.

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#16 testfactor888
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Is it socially wrong for a 20 year old guy to go out with a 40+year old woman?

What do you guys think?

Solid_Tango

I don't see a problem with it if they are both happy.

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#17 Teenaged
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Socially wrong?

How do I determine that? By what the majority of society thinks? Then I dont really care if it is socially acceptable or not.

Its fine by me unless there's some special reason involved.

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#18 medic36
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Who cares? No it isn't.
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#19 kittensRjerks
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I don't see anything wrong with it. When I was 24 I was dating a 36yr old. Age is nothing but a number, It's how mature you are.

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#20 Pixel-Pirate
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[QUOTE="Pixel-Pirate"]

I personally don't care what society thinks.

However, probably so. Society does not care if a young man dates an adult woman. A 40 year old man dating a 20 year old woman might be less acceptable, though.

zoraluv

not true marliyn manson+racheal woods and that guy i can't remember >_> now the relationship might not end well AT ALL but it is nothing to "unacceptable"

It's unfortunate that celebrities generally get different treatment by societies.

The average person is Marylin Manson.

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#21 Fuhgeddabouditt
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some 40yr old woman take good care of themselves.
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#22 Big_Bad_Sad
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No. Its the 21st century.
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#23 Colin1192
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Tango, what are you getting yourself into? :P

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#24 nooblet69
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I messed around with a 38 year old lady when I was around 20 so I don't see a problem. But it did feel a bit weird like I was with someones mom or something.

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#25 LJS9502_basic
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I think they are both adults and can do what they want vis a vis a relationship.
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#26 MistressMinako
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Whatever... it is not any of my business. :P
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#27 Link334
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[QUOTE="zoraluv"][QUOTE="Solid_Tango"][QUOTE="zoraluv"]true story my "stepdad" is 24 my mom is 41 and the guy is very immature and well mom can't stand him :?

then how come they are together? and dude how old are you?

money issues (he owns the car but my mom is trying to get her own) i'm 17 :cry: he's weird and nasty :cry:

Does he do bad things to you while you try and sleep?
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#28 dagreenfish
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I have no problem with age difference as long as they're adults.

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#29 Overlord93
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[QUOTE="zoraluv"][QUOTE="Solid_Tango"][QUOTE="zoraluv"]true story my "stepdad" is 24 my mom is 41 and the guy is very immature and well mom can't stand him :?

then how come they are together? and dude how old are you?

money issues (he owns the car but my mom is trying to get her own) i'm 17 :cry: he's weird and nasty :cry:

you're 17 and your stepdad is 24? no offence but that is, and must be weird
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#30 KlepticGrooves
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Is it socially wrong for a 20 year old guy to go out with a 40+year old woman?

What do you guys think?

Solid_Tango

I don't see a problem. It's all personal opinion though.

Jennifer Aniston is in her 40s. I wouldn't turn her down ;)

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#31 Zune_HD
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I'm 22 and I would totally "go out" with this 40+ year old

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#32 mrmusicman247
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No. It socially wrong for a 20 year old girl to go out with a 40+ year old man. Double standards are a *****
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#33 The_Weird_Guy
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I would love to hit up a 40 year old. I love me some cougar tang.
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#34 Xx_Hopeless_xX
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It's not very wise that's for sure...

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#35 zoraluv
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[QUOTE="Overlord93"][QUOTE="zoraluv"][QUOTE="Solid_Tango"] then how come they are together? and dude how old are you?

money issues (he owns the car but my mom is trying to get her own) i'm 17 :cry: he's weird and nasty :cry:

you're 17 and your stepdad is 24? no offence but that is, and must be weird

it's weird really weird thank god he's ugly as hell
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#36 Resistance_Kid
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I think "gross".

Sigh_han

I think your picture is gross... lol :P

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It's not very wise that's for sure...

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what? why isn't it wise
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#38 Xx_Hopeless_xX
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[QUOTE="Xx_Hopeless_xX"]

It's not very wise that's for sure...

Jandurin

what? why isn't it wise

Because that relationship won't last very long..unless i'm misunderstanding something about the point of dating..

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#39 zoraluv
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[QUOTE="Jandurin"][QUOTE="Xx_Hopeless_xX"]

It's not very wise that's for sure...

Xx_Hopeless_xX
what? why isn't it wise

Because that relationship won't last very long..

can you name 3 long term 20something who dated a 40something? i can't
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#40 Xx_Hopeless_xX
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[QUOTE="zoraluv"][QUOTE="Xx_Hopeless_xX"][QUOTE="Jandurin"] what? why isn't it wise

Because that relationship won't last very long..

can you name 3 long term 20something who dated a 40something? i can't

Exactly..pointless exercise is pointless..
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#41 TM_Darkside
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Unless it's a rare, very attractive 40+year old woman, I'd say the 20-year old guy is definitely taking one in the loss column.

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#42 deactivated-5e836a855beb2
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wow you people have never been 20? the whole point of dating at 20 is NOT to get married >_> sure, maybe at 25 or 28 you gotta get serious, but 20?
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#43 entropyecho
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Let's get something straight right off the bat - 40 year olds are looking better than ever nowadays.

Older women are the bees knees people.

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#44 zoraluv
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[QUOTE="Jandurin"]wow you people have never been 20? the whole point of dating at 20 is NOT to get married >_> sure, maybe at 25 or 28 you gotta get serious, but 20?

someone never told racheal wood the damn girl had a nice sized rock on her hand for the longest and there's is someone else who's name i'm forgetting :x
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[QUOTE="Jandurin"]wow you people have never been 20? the whole point of dating at 20 is NOT to get married >_> sure, maybe at 25 or 28 you gotta get serious, but 20?

What's the point of dating if you're 20?..Is the term "dating" now just the new word people use to justify their wish for sex and a short term relationship that bears absolutely nothing but pain in the end anyway?..
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#46 Taeyeonholic
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Depends on who it is.
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#47 Wolls
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Tbh im starting to think that unless one of my mates does this i shouldnt care if Jonny So'n'so goes out with a 40+ year old. His their choice
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[QUOTE="Jandurin"]wow you people have never been 20? the whole point of dating at 20 is NOT to get married >_> sure, maybe at 25 or 28 you gotta get serious, but 20?Xx_Hopeless_xX
What's the point of dating if you're 20?..Is the term "dating" now just the new word people use to justify their wish for sex and a short term relationship that bears absolutely nothing but pain in the end anyway?..

you must be doing it wrong because that "short term" relationship is how you FIND OUT WHAT YOU ACTUALLY WANT IN A WOMAN/MAN Just saying. Also, pain? For me it usually ended as it started, with sex.
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[QUOTE="Jandurin"]wow you people have never been 20? the whole point of dating at 20 is NOT to get married >_> sure, maybe at 25 or 28 you gotta get serious, but 20?Xx_Hopeless_xX
What's the point of dating if you're 20?..Is the term "dating" now just the new word people use to justify their wish for sex and a short term relationship that bears absolutely nothing but pain in the end anyway?..

You're a real downer, my man.

Now I know you hate when people have sex, but it's your own fault if a relationship "bears nothing but pain in the end."

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#50 Xx_Hopeless_xX
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[QUOTE="Xx_Hopeless_xX"][QUOTE="Jandurin"]wow you people have never been 20? the whole point of dating at 20 is NOT to get married >_> sure, maybe at 25 or 28 you gotta get serious, but 20?Jandurin
What's the point of dating if you're 20?..Is the term "dating" now just the new word people use to justify their wish for sex and a short term relationship that bears absolutely nothing but pain in the end anyway?..

you must be doing it wrong because that "short term" relationship is how you FIND OUT WHAT YOU ACTUALLY WANT IN A WOMAN/MAN Just saying. Also, pain? For me it usually ended as it started, with sex.

Well that's great for you..if that works fine..i can't say i approve of it but whatever it's your life..but relationships..i agree are meant to look for the right person..and if it doesn't work out fine..but relationships these days tend to be just an excuse...at least at the age of 20 and under..i don't go into relationships that have no chance of surviving..