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#1 -You
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Well I usually like to get to know a girl before I have sex with them but I'm going to go out with this girl I've been close friends with for some time so we both know each other inside and out, can I realistically expect sex on the first date?

Also how far would you go on a first date OT?

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#2 cybrcatter
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If both of you are horny enough, I don't see why not.
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#3 Xx_Hopeless_xX
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Don't even get me started on that statement..i don't feel like arguing...though i will state that i cannot express in words how much i am disgusted..rather..how much i loathe, despise and abhor that mentality you seem to exhhibit..

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#4 Snipes_2
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If you're dating her to have sex with her...that's not cool man. I wouldn't even kiss anyone on my first date, or hold hands. I have a No Touchie Policy that few can abide by if I dated that is.

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#5 kipohippo021
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Dont expect it, or try for it. It will make you seem like all you want is sex. Unless you really know eachother INSIDE and out, then most likley not.
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#6 clayron
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If we were close friends prior to our dating, hell yeah. If not, then not at all.
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#8 Colin1192
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sounds like you have already had sex if you know her inside and out
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#9 joesh89
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If we were close friends prior to our dating, hell yeah. If not, then not at all.clayron

This is my view.

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#10 Suzy_Q_Kazoo
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Depends on how well you know her, in addition to how long you've known her. Depending on the girl, it's possible. Although my initial answer would be "no".

Is it really necessary to get sex out of her on the first date though? It's obviously new territory for the both of you, and I don't see how it'd end well.

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#11 cheesyjon
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Meet.

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#12 Link334
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If you're dating her to have sex with her...that's not cool man. I wouldn't even kiss anyone on my first date, or hold hands. I have a No Touchie Policy that few can abide by if I dated that is.

Snipes_2
this for the most part. If it's my first date with someone I've known for a while I'd kiss or hold hands.
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#13 rawsavon
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Most of my first (and only) dates

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#14 cybrcatter
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Meet.

cheesyjon
You and your biblical terms.
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#15 Link334
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Meet.

cheesyjon
:lol: what?
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#16 deactivated-5c37d3adcd094
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If you were good friends before, I don't see why not. Otherwise, probably not. Either way, I don't think you should necessarily expect it, but just wait and let whatever happens happen.
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#17 Colin1192
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[QUOTE="cheesyjon"]

Meet.

Link334
:lol: what?

perhaps he thought it was a madlib, that is what I was expecting when I came into this thread
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#18 Omni-Slash
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sure...but she's doesn't get a second date..... rule # 1 of the guy handbook....a girl you hook up with on the first night is NOT a keeper.....
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#19 Link334
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[QUOTE="Link334"][QUOTE="cheesyjon"]

Meet.

Colin1192
:lol: what?

perhaps he thought it was a madlib, that is what I was expecting when I came into this thread

Ohhh. That would be fun! :o
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#20 Snipes_2
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Most of my first (and only) dates

rawsavon
Thats awesome :lol:
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#21 cheesyjon
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[QUOTE="cheesyjon"]

Meet.

cybrcatter

You and your biblical terms.

It's an Irish term.

[spoiler] [/spoiler]

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#22 clayron
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[QUOTE="cybrcatter"][QUOTE="cheesyjon"]

Meet.

cheesyjon

You and your biblical terms.

It's an Irish term.

I wish I hadn't seen that. I really do.
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#23 Snipes_2
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[QUOTE="cheesyjon"]

[QUOTE="cybrcatter"] You and your biblical terms. clayron

It's an Irish term.

I wish I hadn't seen that. I really do.

Lol, you and me both :P
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#24 mlbslugger86
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not cool imo, if any girl gives it up on the first date she's not interested in you, all she wants is a one night stand

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#25 cybrcatter
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[QUOTE="cybrcatter"][QUOTE="cheesyjon"]

Meet.

cheesyjon

You and your biblical terms.

It's an Irish term.

*nasty gif

Thanks Cheesy.

I owe you one.

It'll be when you least expect it.

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#26 zoraluv
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as a girl i would say "i would never sleep with a guy on the first date"

but as a girl i can say if you know this person prior and you have overwheleming feelings

heels ^ jesus

i hope everyone can figure that out >_>

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#27 clayron
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as a girl i would say "i would never sleep with a guy on the first date"

but as a girl i can say if you know this person prior and you have overwheleming feelings

heels ^ jesus

i hope everyone can figure that out >_>

zoraluv
Heels to Jesus. I love that phrase.
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#28 cybrcatter
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not cool imo, if any girl gives it up on the first date she's not interested in you, all she wants is a one night stand

mlbslugger86
They're already close friends.
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#29 cheesyjon
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[QUOTE="cheesyjon"]

[QUOTE="cybrcatter"] You and your biblical terms. cybrcatter

It's an Irish term.

*nasty gif

Thanks Cheesy.

I owe you one.

It'll be when you least expect it.

It can't be much worse that that. :P

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#30 berserker2389
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Most of my first (and only) dates

rawsavon
:lol: that was awesome
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#31 zoraluv
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[QUOTE="zoraluv"]

as a girl i would say "i would never sleep with a guy on the first date"

but as a girl i can say if you know this person prior and you have overwheleming feelings

heels ^ jesus

i hope everyone can figure that out >_>

clayron

Heels to Jesus. I love that phrase.

:lol:

that did'nt take long

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#32 hydratedleaf
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Don't even get me started on that statement..i don't feel like arguing...though i will state that i cannot express in words how much i am disgusted..rather..how much i loathe, despise and abhor that mentality you seem to exhhibit..

Xx_Hopeless_xX
An unhealthy, irrational disgust at sexual desire - are you Catholic, by any chance?
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#33 cybrcatter
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[QUOTE="clayron"][QUOTE="zoraluv"]

as a girl i would say "i would never sleep with a guy on the first date"

but as a girl i can say if you know this person prior and you have overwheleming feelings

heels ^ jesus

i hope everyone can figure that out >_>

zoraluv

Heels to Jesus. I love that phrase.

:lol:

that did'nt take long

What are you implying about clayron?
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#34 Snipes_2
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[QUOTE="rawsavon"]

Most of my first (and only) dates

berserker2389
:lol: that was awesome

Lol, I posted literally the same exact thing, even down to the emoticon :P
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#35 CBR600-RR
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Nothing wrong with sex on first date.

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#36 Snipes_2
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[QUOTE="Xx_Hopeless_xX"]

Don't even get me started on that statement..i don't feel like arguing...though i will state that i cannot express in words how much i am disgusted..rather..how much i loathe, despise and abhor that mentality you seem to exhhibit..

hydratedleaf
An unhealthy, irrational disgust at sexual desire - are you Catholic, by any chance?

So, you can't have any moral code or any thoughts about Sex unless you're Catholic?
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#37 Xx_Hopeless_xX
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[QUOTE="Xx_Hopeless_xX"]

Don't even get me started on that statement..i don't feel like arguing...though i will state that i cannot express in words how much i am disgusted..rather..how much i loathe, despise and abhor that mentality you seem to exhhibit..

hydratedleaf

An unhealthy, irrational disgust at sexual desire - are you Catholic, by any chance?

An irrational generalization..are you Atheist by any chance?..

And for the record..my religion has nothing to do with my opinion on the subject..rather my personal convictions and thoughts on the subject of love..

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#38 cybrcatter
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[QUOTE="cybrcatter"]

[QUOTE="cheesyjon"]

It's an Irish term.

*nasty gif

cheesyjon

Thanks Cheesy.

I owe you one.

It'll be when you least expect it.

It can't be much worse that that. :P

Sorry small fry, but I give no promises.

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#39 hydratedleaf
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[QUOTE="hydratedleaf"][QUOTE="Xx_Hopeless_xX"]

Don't even get me started on that statement..i don't feel like arguing...though i will state that i cannot express in words how much i am disgusted..rather..how much i loathe, despise and abhor that mentality you seem to exhhibit..

Xx_Hopeless_xX
An unhealthy, irrational disgust at sexual desire - are you Catholic, by any chance?

An irrational generalization..are you Atheist by any chance?..

I'll take that as a yes.
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#40 berserker2389
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[QUOTE="berserker2389"][QUOTE="rawsavon"]

Most of my first (and only) dates

Snipes_2
:lol: that was awesome

Lol, I posted literally the same exact thing, even down to the emoticon :P

lol didn't even notice :P *high five*
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This will tell you everything you need to know(in song):D

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YsXWOW9luhU&feature=player_embedded#!

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#43 Xx_Hopeless_xX
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[QUOTE="Xx_Hopeless_xX"][QUOTE="hydratedleaf"]An unhealthy, irrational disgust at sexual desire - are you Catholic, by any chance?hydratedleaf
An irrational generalization..are you Atheist by any chance?..

I'll take that as a yes.

I'll take that as a yes as well..and I edited..just an FYI..to clarify where my beliefs stand..
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#44 hydratedleaf
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[QUOTE="Xx_Hopeless_xX"][QUOTE="hydratedleaf"][QUOTE="Xx_Hopeless_xX"] An irrational generalization..are you Atheist by any chance?..

I'll take that as a yes.

I'll take that as a yes as well..and I edited..just an FYI..to clarify where my beliefs stand..

I'm an agnostic, and just a tip: you may wish to educate yourself on what a generalisation actually is.
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#45 wstfld
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If you're dating her to have sex with her...that's not cool man. I wouldn't even kiss anyone on my first date, or hold hands. I have a No Touchie Policy that few can abide by if I dated that is.

Snipes_2
Amish?
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#46 Snipes_2
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[QUOTE="Snipes_2"][QUOTE="berserker2389"] :lol: that was awesome berserker2389
Lol, I posted literally the same exact thing, even down to the emoticon :P

lol didn't even notice :P *high five*

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#47 broken_bass_bin
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If we were close friends prior to our dating, hell yeah. If not, then not at all.clayron

Yeah, that sounds about right to me.

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#48 Xx_Hopeless_xX
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[QUOTE="Xx_Hopeless_xX"][QUOTE="hydratedleaf"]I'll take that as a yes.hydratedleaf
I'll take that as a yes as well..and I edited..just an FYI..to clarify where my beliefs stand..

I'm an agnostic, and just a tip: you may wish to educate yourself on what a generalisation actually is.

Implying that most Catholics have an unfounded hatred for sexual desire is a generalization..and good for you..i don't really care..
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#49 Snipes_2
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[QUOTE="Snipes_2"]

If you're dating her to have sex with her...that's not cool man. I wouldn't even kiss anyone on my first date, or hold hands. I have a No Touchie Policy that few can abide by if I dated that is.

wstfld
Amish?

No, Germaphobe 8)
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#50 kipohippo021
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[QUOTE="wstfld"][QUOTE="Snipes_2"]

If you're dating her to have sex with her...that's not cool man. I wouldn't even kiss anyone on my first date, or hold hands. I have a No Touchie Policy that few can abide by if I dated that is.

Amish?

Yeah, not even hands? cmon, i atleast get a kiss on the cheek. Im not dating a peice of wood here, sex is an important part of any relationship. with time.