A good friend of mine died.

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#1 Alienware_fan
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By falling from a 60 feet cliff, he wasdrinking with his friends when he fall down. No one wanted to get involved so they didnt call the cops, can you beleive it? people are now posting **** on his facebook wall, like hes going to see it when he is gonasign in facebook from up there.what should I write on his wall to make people stop posting?

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#2 DmadFearmonger
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By falling from a 60 feet cliff, he wasdrinking with his friends when he fall down. No one wanted to get involved so they didnt call the cops, can you beleive it? people are now posting **** on his facebook wall, like hes going to see it when he is gonasign in facebook from up there.what should I write on his wall to make people stop posting?

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You can't, people are dicks. Sorry for your loss
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#3 FPSunionOWNS
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By falling from a 60 feet cliff, he wasdrinking with his friends when he fall down. No one wanted to get involved so they didnt call the cops, can you beleive it? people are now posting **** on his facebook wall, like hes going to see it when he is gonasign in facebook from up there.what should I write on his wall to make people stop posting?

Alienware_fan
Wait are they posting like rip, or mean stuff?
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#4 Overlord93
Member since 2007 • 12602 Posts
You should probably tell someone about it, if he died. Do his family know?
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#5 hadoken
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is this story about your friend? http://ca.news.yahoo.com/youth-dead-fall-scarborough-bluffs-124640465.html

that sucks dude

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#6 Alienware_fan
Member since 2010 • 1514 Posts

is this story about your friend? http://ca.news.yahoo.com/youth-dead-fall-scarborough-bluffs-124640465.html

that sucks dude

hadoken

yeah

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#7 sinpkr
Member since 2010 • 1255 Posts

u got to talk to someone about it. dosent matter even if its a help phone line just talking helps. im one of those ppl who thought it wouldnt but talking to someone about my loss is wat brought me out of my limbo

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#9 Jolt_counter119
Member since 2010 • 4226 Posts

LOLOLOL he fell from a cliff while drunk? LOLOLOL

ah man you just made my day

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Dude...are YOU drunk?

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#10 Alienware_fan
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[QUOTE="kan_yeezy"]

LOLOLOL he fell from a cliff while drunk? LOLOLOL

ah man you just made my day

Jolt_counter119

Dude...are YOU drunk?

I expect these kind of posts when I post in OT cuz some of the posts are worth it.

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#11 FPSunionOWNS
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[QUOTE="kan_yeezy"]

LOLOLOL he fell from a cliff while drunk? LOLOLOL

ah man you just made my day

Thats so messed up!
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#12 Toadso
Member since 2007 • 643 Posts

Im sorry for your loss, I can imagine it would be hell for me If I lost a close friend.
But what do people say on his Facebook wall? what exactly do you want to stop?

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#13 Artekus
Member since 2008 • 15700 Posts
Sorry for your loss, man. RIP
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#14 lensflare15
Member since 2010 • 6652 Posts

That's terrible, I'm really sorry to hear that... And people are actually being jerks on FB? Wow. Ask the people to stop, if they won't, see if you can get his account closed.

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#16 XilePrincess
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This is an all too familiar story. Somebody I know lost her two best friends off a cliff while drinking. They backed a truck up too close to the cliff, the first one stepped down and it was unsteady and fell, the other one decided to fly down after her and they both died. What kind of stuff are they posting? If it's abusive, I'd just contact facebook directly through the report button and explain the situation. They can remove the posts and close access to his wall. That's very sad, sorry for your loss.
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#17 tmaclabi
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Oh I feel sorry... RIP
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#18 IBullseye
Member since 2011 • 254 Posts

Sorry for your loss mate. RIP.

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#19 Rekunta
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When they informed the cops the friends said they didn't think he was breathing when they left the scene. Gee whiz. With friends like those, who needs enemies?
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#20 killerfist
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No one wanted to get involved so they didnt call the copsAlienware_fan
Wat..some friends right there.. If you have nothing to hide, why would it be a problem to alarm the cops? = /
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#21 onebeelo
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soooo your friend fell off a cliff and instead of checking to see if he could be helped u all ran away ?
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#22 weezyfb
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drinking and being on a cliff never mix
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#23 RedEyedMonster8
Member since 2007 • 1452 Posts

So sorry about your friend man, that's awful. My condolences.

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#24 Avian005
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That's horrible. Sorry for your loss. :(

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#25 deactivated-5f9e3c6a83e51
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That stinks. I had a friend that was killed when I was younger. Awful stuff and it effects how you view life and mortality.

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#26 danjammer69
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By falling from a 60 feet cliff, he wasdrinking with his friends when he fall down. No one wanted to get involved so they didnt call the cops, can you beleive it? people are now posting **** on his facebook wall, like hes going to see it when he is gonasign in facebook from up there.what should I write on his wall to make people stop posting?

Alienware_fan
Why would you want people to stop posting? This is how some people deal with grief. My brother died last year and his FB page is still active. People go onto it to feel like they are still talking to him. like he can hear them through the page. Know what? If it makes people feel better then there is no harm in it. I can't go on my brother's page. I feel that I can talk to him in private, in my own ways. Thats how I am dealing with it. It's actually more like I am NOT dealing with it. And this is how you are handling your grief. The only way you know how. BTW man, sorry for your loss. It sucks so bad. I know it man.
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#27 SUD123456
Member since 2007 • 7058 Posts

Sorry to hear that, may he RIP.

A friend of mine died suddenly from menengitis when we were in highschool some 30+ years ago.

Every once in a while I still think of him and about what I have experienced etc in all that time and that he never had the chance.

The most terrible thing is when the young die before the old. I feel so sorry for his parents and family now. Losing a child is the most horrible, horrible thought.

All you can do is keep going, remember the good times, and use the experience to educate and inform your own children when that time comes.

Again, I am sorry for your loss.

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#28 DarkFadi
Member since 2007 • 1915 Posts
so he was drunk and died cuz of it.. people still say alchool is good, nevertheless R.I.P.
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#29 james007_14
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I'm sorry for your loss. May he R.I.P.
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#30 Nude_Dude
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Shouldn't somebody see to shutting down his FB account?
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#31 TehFuneral
Member since 2007 • 8237 Posts

You should publicly announce it and indicate in FB that he died. I do not know whathis other friendshad in mind whenthey abondoned him as he fell, but the best thing to do as his friend right now is to offer condolences to his parents and attend his funeral.

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#32 deactivated-590595a6292ce
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Why didn't they inform the police though...

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#33 Oil_Rope_Bombs
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I believe FB has a system for people deceased people's FB profile. Try googling it.
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#34 Kenny789
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I'm really sorry to hear that, may he R.I.P. Also I think it's best just to leave the people alone. I'm guessing they are saying R.I.P. as well on his page? It may seem silly to you but I bet they are truly sad over what happened.
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#35 TehFuneral
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I believe FB has a system for people deceased people's FB profile. Try googling it.Oil_rope_bombs

I just quick googled that, its called 'memorializing' accounts. This should be done to his Facebook page.

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#37 pepsisafc
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sorry for your loss mate
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#38 OneShot112
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RIP.

I absolutely do not understand why they made it all the way to Warden statuion until they informed the authorities, did any of them not have a cell phone at the time?

Some friends.

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#39 lexika
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Awww I know how you feel. :( Just don't look on his page, it's always the hardest thing. Just cope with it by yourself, it seems to go away easier that way. I wish you good luck.
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#40 MikeMoose
Member since 2005 • 3079 Posts

Sorry for your loss man. Sadly, there really is nothing you can say.

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#41 rollermint
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Why didn't they inform the police though...

Conno08

The police will always view the first informants of incidents, particularly involving deaths, as first suspects. And with that comes the necessary but still troublesome process of interviews/interrogations and statement gathering.

Couple that with a few very traumatised kids who just horrifically saw their friend died in an instant, its not hard to imagined that they got utterly terrified and prolly wished all they wanna do was to go home. Plus they were most probably drunk, obviously they weren't thinking straight.

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#42 noxboxlive
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Sorry for your loss.

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#43 Bucked20
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Who the hell gets drunk on a cliff and what's wrong with people writing on his facebook wall
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#44 kev_stevens67
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[QUOTE="Conno08"]

Why didn't they inform the police though...

rollermint

The police will always view the first informants of incidents, particularly involving deaths, as first suspects. And with that comes the necessary but still troublesome process of interviews/interrogations and statement gathering.

Couple that with a few very traumatised kids who just horrifically saw their friend died in an instant, its not hard to imagined that they got utterly terrified and prolly wished all they wanna do was to go home. Plus they were most probably drunk, obviously they weren't thinking straight.

Not true at all. Being asked questions does not equal being a suspect. The right thing to do is to inform the police. They did nothing wrong. Not calling 911 or anything like it would make it seem more like THEY ARE suspects.

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#45 Justinps2hero
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Don't drink near cliffs, its just not worth the risk. rip
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#47 Deihjan
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Man, sorry for your loss :( Dunno what else to say, I'm sorry.
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#48 Jagged3dge
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Dude thats tragic, that would be hard to overcome. But try to keep your head up.

Maybe you should try to avoid the facebook page if all its doing is making you feel worse.

Not to be a downer but nothing good comes from alcohol. Its stupid how people think marijuana is worse.

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#49 chrisrooR
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[QUOTE="rollermint"]

[QUOTE="Conno08"]

Why didn't they inform the police though...

kev_stevens67

The police will always view the first informants of incidents, particularly involving deaths, as first suspects. And with that comes the necessary but still troublesome process of interviews/interrogations and statement gathering.

Couple that with a few very traumatised kids who just horrifically saw their friend died in an instant, its not hard to imagined that they got utterly terrified and prolly wished all they wanna do was to go home. Plus they were most probably drunk, obviously they weren't thinking straight.

Not true at all. Being asked questions does not equal being a suspect. The right thing to do is to inform the police. They did nothing wrong. Not calling 911 or anything like it would make it seem more like THEY ARE suspects.

They were drunk, that probably had something to do with their lack of reasoning.
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#50 WSGRandomPerson
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Sorry for your loss.