A question about girls

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#1 The_Nintendawg
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So there is this girl i like and I have been giving her hints that I like her. I'm like super nice to her and all.

So my question is this exactly: Does a girl like it when you show that you like her (maybe with a little obsessive behavior), even if she doesn't show the same toward you.I just don't want the girl to get sick of me.

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#2 Miyomatic
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You could probably win her over with your avatar.

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#3 megagene
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Being "super nice to her and all" is not giving her hints that you like her. It's a one way ticket to the friend zone. You need to be more aggressive. Don't throw her over your shoulder and swing through the jungle or anything. But ask her out.
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#4 Assassin1349
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Tell her she's hawt. And you have to say it like "hawt". It works for me. Then again you are not me.

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#5 Gardenpath
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Only one way to find out. Ask her. Better to be sober. lol

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#6 needled24-7
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well don't act obsessive. have you tried asking her to hang out? or do you guys already hang out? (i assume you go to school with her, i'm talking about hanging out outside of school)

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#7 MasterC5
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Just ask her out man

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#8 xTheExploited
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Girls do like attention but don't become her dog. Girls like guys who can stick up for themselves and have a bit of self-respect. If you become her pet then she will think of you as a pet and not as someone she would want to be romantically involved with.
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#9 MadVybz
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Tell her she's hawt. And you have to say it like "hawt". It works for me. Then again you are not me.

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You sir, are a SUPA FLY.

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#10 -DirtySanchez-
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bein nice is a sure way into the friend zone and trust me theres no way out of the friend zone, be calm cool and collective and nice at time but dont over do it, unless maybe girls have finally started to wish up and go for the nice of their dreams instead of stayin with the tools that treat them like dirt, but i digress
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#11 Strider_91
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Being "super nice to her and all" is not giving her hints that you like her. It's a one way ticket to the friend zone. You need to be more aggressive. Don't throw her over your shoulder and swing through the jungle or anything. But ask her out. megagene
Definitely.. You're heading towards the friends zone but it isn't too late.. ask her out! :D
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#12 Rocky32189
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Being "super nice" and "obsessive" are two of the worst things you can do.
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#13 hiphopballer
Member since 2009 • 4059 Posts

You could probably win her over with your avatar.

Miyomatic

lol :lol: those pokemon will hit the spot

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#14 Urworstnhtmare
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[QUOTE="Miyomatic"]

You could probably win her over with your avatar.

hiphopballer

lol :lol: those pokemon will hit the spot

Hey. It may for some...

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#15 killer_beanz
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ATTENTION-NEXT STOP IS FRIEND ZONE-DEAD END!!

if you dont stop there^^ (which you are heading), you will never get out. just me, and other guys here, once you at friend zone, YOU ARE SCREWED. nice is ok, but as someone said, DONT BECOME HER DOG. be nice, sweet, but to the point. ASK HER OUT THIS WEEK or you will not get out of that dead end. i got screwed over with three girls for being too nice. now i am much more to the point, and it works. you just gotta have the balls to do it.

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#16 VaguelyTagged
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i think it's varied from a girl to another.

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#18 -DirtySanchez-
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i think it's varied from a girl to another.

VaguelyTagged
sadly thats not very true, yes some girls are smart enough to stick with the nice guys but most will just crap all over them well goin out with a-holes and comein back to cry on your shoulder untill they are ready to get treated like dirt once more
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#19 0diN_7
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Definately don't be super nice or smothering. As a matter of fact be kind of mean sometimes but not to the point that it really upsets her. Show confidence and never let her think that you are drooling over her. And if for some reason she shows some interest in you don't jump all over it. Act like that's the sort of thing that happens all the time.

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#20 KungfuKitten
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Boys and girls are not that different anymore. You probably already know the answer. >_>

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#21 Ghost_702
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Be yourself and don't act like a stalker.
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#22 vetnutjim
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Let me reveal lifes best, hidden secret for you. Girls want "it" just as much as YOU do. So make it easy for yourself and her. Just be yourself and straightforward. Make your move CONFIDENT of sentence TWO written here. If she's not interested, don't waste anymore of your time with her. IOW, don't get 'hung up' on just one at this time of your life. You've got a LOT of ground to cover so ask once and if you get no response, move IMMEDIATELY to plan "B" and ask the next one. ALWAYS keep Plan "B" in your hip pocket. Do NOT let rejection bother you one little bit my man. Just put Plan "B" in action whenever you need to. For every ONE that isn't interested there will me TEN (or MORE) that are. SO if this one wants to be hard to get, move on quickly. There are many,many,many fishes in the beautiful sea of love. BTW.... Sentence TWO is lifes BEST KEPT secret. Do you think it's just YOUR hormones running wild? Nooo, nooo, noooo, noooo, nooo! (From a 60 year old guy)
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#23 VaguelyTagged
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[QUOTE="VaguelyTagged"]

i think it's varied from a girl to another.

-DirtySanchez-
sadly thats not very true, yes some girls are smart enough to stick with the nice guys but most will just crap all over them well goin out with a-holes and comein back to cry on your shoulder untill they are ready to get treated like dirt once more

well,i've never had a girl friend so i'm guessing you're the one who's right here ,lol
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#24 modelchick8806
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Hmm, show your interest but don't be too overbearing, that could creep her out. Your best bet is to let her know you like her somehow. Find a way to get her number and shoot her some texts. It's easier to get your feelings out via text anyway.

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#25 HomicidalCherry
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Be yourself and don't act like a stalker.Ghost_702

Unless you happen to be a stalker. XD

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#26 morpheusnj
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Being "super nice to her and all" is not giving her hints that you like her. It's a one way ticket to the friend zone. You need to be more aggressive. Don't throw her over your shoulder and swing through the jungle or anything. But ask her out. megagene
Just out of curiosity, why do you think being super nice is a one way ticket to the friend zone?
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#27 The_Nintendawg
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guys i like your advice, but i think you guys are missing one point, i actually think she knows i like her. I have given her plenty of clues. I just have a slight feeling that she's annoyedof this or sick of me. What should i do?

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#28 vetnutjim
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guys i like your advice, but i think you guys are missing one point, i actually think she knows i like her. I have given her plenty of clues. I just have a slight feeling that she's annoyedof this or sick of me. What should i do?

The_Nintendawg
Use your IMAGINATION. You HAVE to think for yourself. It's never going to work to ask for a detailed list of things to do. Wha't s SHE going to say when the first thing YOU say is, "let me check on the internet to find out what to say to you." Ask YOURSELF "What should I do?" If there's no little voice inside you........ maybe you can find one of those little games that always give an answer like; Yes No Maybe Never Always Use your BRAIN. That's why you came equipped with one.
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#29 killer_beanz
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guys i like your advice, but i think you guys are missing one point, i actually think she knows i like her. I have given her plenty of clues. I just have a slight feeling that she's annoyedof this or sick of me. What should i do?

The_Nintendawg
then just ask her out already. like that other dude said, if you get rejected theres more girls out there.
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#30 jacob2125
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Being "super nice to her and all" is not giving her hints that you like her. It's a one way ticket to the friend zone. You need to be more aggressive. Don't throw her over your shoulder and swing through the jungle or anything. But ask her out. megagene

This /\ Simply being nice to a girl doesn't tell her much, they have to know you want to be more than just friends. Asl her out to a movie or something. Alone.

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#31 Rocky32189
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guys i like your advice, but i think you guys are missing one point, i actually think she knows i like her. I have given her plenty of clues. I just have a slight feeling that she's annoyed of this or sick of me. What should i do?

The_Nintendawg
You may have missed your opportunity already. You have to ask her out now. The longer you wait, the less of a chance you'll have.
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#32 TyrantDragon55
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If there's one thing I've learned the hard way its that being super nice to a girl will get you no where except stuck in the friend zone. If you want to get with her you have to flirt, you have to make it known you are interested without being too obvious (and no a little obsessive behavior is NOT a good idea).

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#33 TheNewEraIcon
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In my experience, girls prefer when guys play harder to get. but to be totally honest I think it all depends on the girl as an individual, since they usually tend to go for different things. I wouldn't get too obsessive though, that'd definitely creep most people out. I think the best way to show her you like her is to compliment her and be friendly/attentive with her, yet be confident and not too gushy xD

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#34 Elephant_Couple
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Don't act obsessive. Be cool and collected. Be a cold jerk to her and her friends. Mention things that will make her think you're too cool for everyone else you know. Act like you don't care about her at all but still might hit it (if she's lucky). Once she shows a little interest, ask her out before you become too good of friends.

Then you can start being genuine.

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#35 muller39
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Ask her out and see where she stands. Only way to know for sure.

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#36 applesxc47
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Being "super nice to her and all" is not giving her hints that you like her. It's a one way ticket to the friend zone. You need to be more aggressive. Don't throw her over your shoulder and swing through the jungle or anything. But ask her out. megagene

Excellent stuff:lol: