A Real complicated girl problem

looks like this is not that girls problem :?sephiroth_y

I know...it's my problem. :cry:

um.. flirt?
make her think "omg does he like me?"
and give her time to ponder it. most likely she'll be like
"if he liked me would i date him....."
and then she'll start getting ideas. If she suspects you like her without you knowing, theres less pressure on her to make a decision, ne?Self_indulgence

I'm the kind of guy that can't flirt or see someone flirting with me, but I can see someone else being flirted with. Does that make sense?

Btw "I feel as though I should act on my feelings, but if it goes wrong then I lose my best friend. " What would happen if it goes wrong?sephiroth_y

I don't want to lose a friendship because of this. What if she decides it's too awkward or something like that?

[QUOTE="sephiroth_y"]Btw "I feel as though I should act on my feelings, but if it goes wrong then I lose my best friend. " What would happen if it goes wrong?Ragnarok1051

I don't want to lose a friendship because of this. What if she decides it's too awkward or something like that?

you are leaving the school after the semester anyway, you might as well give it a shot.

[QUOTE="Self_indulgence"]um.. flirt?
make her think "omg does he like me?"
and give her time to ponder it. most likely she'll be like
"if he liked me would i date him....."
and then she'll start getting ideas. If she suspects you like her without you knowing, theres less pressure on her to make a decision, ne?Ragnarok1051

I'm the kind of guy that can't flirt or see someone flirting with me, but I can see someone else being flirted with. Does that make sense?

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[QUOTE="sephiroth_y"]Btw "I feel as though I should act on my feelings, but if it goes wrong then I lose my best friend. " What would happen if it goes wrong?Poedon

I don't want to lose a friendship because of this. What if she decides it's too awkward or something like that?

you are leaving the school after the semester anyway, you might as well give it a shot.

That is true, but I intended on keeping in touch and visiting her on certain weekends. I mean I was given permission by her father before he was deployed to Afghanistan that I could stay at the house if I wanted to.

Good luck with that!

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[QUOTE="Self_indulgence"]um.. flirt?
make her think "omg does he like me?"
and give her time to ponder it. most likely she'll be like
"if he liked me would i date him....."
and then she'll start getting ideas. If she suspects you like her without you knowing, theres less pressure on her to make a decision, ne?Self_indulgence

I'm the kind of guy that can't flirt or see someone flirting with me, but I can see someone else being flirted with. Does that make sense?

Brilliant....:o *bows down*

Good luck with that!

PlasmaBeam44

Yes!!! My Gamespot Life is now complete!!!!

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[QUOTE="sephiroth_y"]Btw "I feel as though I should act on my feelings, but if it goes wrong then I lose my best friend. " What would happen if it goes wrong?Poedon

I don't want to lose a friendship because of this. What if she decides it's too awkward or something like that?

you are leaving the school after the semester anyway, you might as well give it a shot.

heyot bad, give it a shot, and I got some words for ya... be creative in your next step soshe will remember you

*pic*

Good luck with that!

PlasmaBeam44

[QUOTE="Poedon"][QUOTE="Ragnarok1051"]

[QUOTE="sephiroth_y"]Btw "I feel as though I should act on my feelings, but if it goes wrong then I lose my best friend. " What would happen if it goes wrong?sephiroth_y

I don't want to lose a friendship because of this. What if she decides it's too awkward or something like that?

you are leaving the school after the semester anyway, you might as well give it a shot.

heyot bad, give it a shot, and I got some words for ya... be creative in your next step soshe will remember you

[QUOTE="Poedon"][QUOTE="Ragnarok1051"]

[QUOTE="sephiroth_y"]Btw "I feel as though I should act on my feelings, but if it goes wrong then I lose my best friend. " What would happen if it goes wrong?sephiroth_y

I don't want to lose a friendship because of this. What if she decides it's too awkward or something like that?

you are leaving the school after the semester anyway, you might as well give it a shot.

heyot bad, give it a shot, and I got some words for ya... be creative in your next step soshe will remember you

Doesn't sound like you have a lot of confidence in me.

just tell her you want to have sex with her, just don't be so blunt about it. No complicated relationship to get in the way or to have to leave behind when you transfer schools. Meaningless sex that will be great for the both of you. It will relieve the stress of school. You two will remember it and each other for the rest of your live,s a nice little secret you can keep to yourselves. Weapons_Free

just tell her you want to have sex with her, just don't be so blunt about it. No complicated relationship to get in the way or to have to leave behind when you transfer schools. Meaningless sex that will be great for the both of you. It will relieve the stress of school. You two will remember it and each other for the rest of your live,s a nice little secret you can keep to yourselves. Weapons_Free

ooo Western people are open-minded but what still making "complicated"?

[QUOTE="Weapons_Free"]just tell her you want to have sex with her, just don't be so blunt about it. No complicated relationship to get in the way or to have to leave behind when you transfer schools. Meaningless sex that will be great for the both of you. It will relieve the stress of school. You two will remember it and each other for the rest of your live,s a nice little secret you can keep to yourselves. sephiroth_y

ooo Western people are open-minded but what still making "complicated"?

[QUOTE="Weapons_Free"]just tell her you want to have sex with her, just don't be so blunt about it. No complicated relationship to get in the way or to have to leave behind when you transfer schools. Meaningless sex that will be great for the both of you. It will relieve the stress of school. You two will remember it and each other for the rest of your live,s a nice little secret you can keep to yourselves. Self_indulgence

what? Its college. Its all about drinking too much, experimenting with drugs, and having a ton of meaningless sex.

[QUOTE="Self_indulgence"][QUOTE="Weapons_Free"]just tell her you want to have sex with her, just don't be so blunt about it. No complicated relationship to get in the way or to have to leave behind when you transfer schools. Meaningless sex that will be great for the both of you. It will relieve the stress of school. You two will remember it and each other for the rest of your live,s a nice little secret you can keep to yourselves. Weapons_Free

what? Its college. Its all about drinking too much, experimenting with drugs, and having a ton of meaningless sex.

I live in the real world, not some Hollywood movie.

[QUOTE="Self_indulgence"][QUOTE="Weapons_Free"]just tell her you want to have sex with her, just don't be so blunt about it. No complicated relationship to get in the way or to have to leave behind when you transfer schools. Meaningless sex that will be great for the both of you. It will relieve the stress of school. You two will remember it and each other for the rest of your live,s a nice little secret you can keep to yourselves. Weapons_Free

what? Its college. Its all about drinking too much, experimenting with drugs, and having a ton of meaningless sex.

This only happening in the spring break, sem break or whatever break isn't it?

You are just asking for trouble IMO. No way that could ever work. Think about it from the other side. Suppose you had a slightly younger brother. You know some girl who was dating him at some point. Are you ever going to go out with that girl? Not bloody likely.

That's just too weird for everyone involved.

what? Its college. Its all about drinking too much, experimenting with drugs, and having a ton of meaningless sex.

...if you're a tool.

Weapons_Free

Fixed.

You are just asking for trouble IMO. No way that could ever work. Think about it from the other side. Suppose you had a slightly younger brother. You know some girl who was dating him at some point. Are you ever going to go out with that girl? Not bloody likely.

That's just too weird for everyone involved.

SpaceMoose

okay what if your best friend went out with your younger sibling, BEFORE you became their friend? ok, best friends, now a year passes. NOW how do you feel about them?
With love anything can happen.Self_indulgence

"Hey, bro, I'm going out with your ex-gf. Is that cool?..."

I guess then comes marriage? :lol:

[QUOTE="Self_indulgence"]
okay what if your best friend went out with your younger sibling, BEFORE you became their friend? ok, best friends, now a year passes. NOW how do you feel about them?
With love anything can happen.SpaceMoose

"Hey, bro, I'm going out with your ex-gf. Is that cool?..."

I guess then comes marriage? :lol:

um.. flirt?
make her think "omg does he like me?"
and give her time to ponder it. most likely she'll be like
"if he liked me would i date him....."
and then she'll start getting ideas. If she suspects you like her without you knowing, theres less pressure on her to make a decision, ne?Self_indulgence

wow, it seems someone does know something about women in here.................follow this advice, unless you want to wonder "what if" for the rest of your life.

Between boy and girl can't be a friendship so try to do something with the old one why would you have problem if you do something with your'' friend ''!

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ahem..
I have 2 friends who are like.. best friends and one used to date the other's younger sister. still best friends
My 2 best friends. one dated the other's ex girlfriend. no biggie. all of us even hung out with eachother.Self_indulgence

That still isn't the same thing as dating a sibling's ex...

[QUOTE="Self_indulgence"]
ahem..
I have 2 friends who are like.. best friends and one used to date the other's younger sister. still best friends
My 2 best friends. one dated the other's ex girlfriend. no biggie. all of us even hung out with eachother.SpaceMoose

That still isn't the same thing as dating a sibling's ex...

Well it wasn't really that serious, and she knows that I'm not interested in her like that anymore.

i say u reveal ur feelings to the younger one first and break it off with her then tell the older sister how you feelMichaeltheCM

I don't have feeling for her anymore.

I'd say you can do one of two things, or even both. It all depends on what happens. You could revela your true feelings and see what that leads to, then progress, or move on. Or simply just move on altogether.

Decisions, decisions...

wow serious, talk about complicated. well idk, i would tell the older sister that you like her a lot and that you dont have any feelings for her younger sister. Putzwapputzen

I'm just scared of what might happen if she doesn't feel the same way.