a scenario about abortion

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#1 Serraph105
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if the only way you could be with your girlfriend was for her to have an abortion because you cannot afford a kid would you let her go or would you encourage her to get one?

i would encourage her

EDIT oh and since im basing this on what happened to me recently add this wrinkle in its not yours

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#2 JeM760soCAL
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Neither. I would encourage her to have the baby. I dont care if I was broke.

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#3 deactivated-5a79221380856
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I wouldn't have a say over this matter, because it's a woman's right. :|

But if I could make a convincing argument, I'd say we should have the child. Even if I'd had to lose a girlfriend, I wouldn't want to lose a child instead.

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#4 Premier1101
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it's her choice ultimately...
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It's ultimately her choice, but ideally the situation shouldn't arrise in the first place if contraceptives are used.
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I would never allow my girlfriend/wife to get an abortion. The child is half my responsibility and I would be willing, able to afford it or not, to try my best to raise it as my child.
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#7 Kuhu
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Can someone get that abortion picture, the falcon punch one?

Thats my answer.

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#8 plague32390
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Abortion, all the way.
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#9 -R3Vo
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Abortion, all the way.plague32390

No question about it.

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#10 bobaban
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Definately encourage, no sense in a kid ruining my life. It's not that hard convincing them, BTW because there are so many negatives about an unwanted pregnancy. Exterminate that fetus.

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#11 niirx
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She could abort the child, although I wouldn't compel her to.

However, if she refused the abortion, then I'd most certainly abandon her.
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#12 Dracargen
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Neither. I would encourage her to have the baby and, if I really could not afford to keep it, put it up for adoption. No way in hell would I get or encourage an abortion for my idiocy; I'd regret that to the point of madness.
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#13 ElectronicMagic
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I would encourage her to have an abortion for our relationship and for the sake of mankind as a whole. If she did it I would stay with her, if she didn't, I would leave her. Of course this is only in the event that the kid wasn't mine, but that when I got with her she was already pregnant with the guy she was dating before me.
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#14 Serraph105
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I would encourage her to have an abortion for our relationship and for the sake of mankind as a whole. If she did it I would stay with her, if she didn't, I would leave her. Of course this is only in the event that the kid wasn't mine, but that when I got with her she was already pregnant with the guy she was dating before me.ElectronicMagic

right well i do seem to remember you posting in my other topics about this so good job there

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#15 ElectronicMagic
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[QUOTE="ElectronicMagic"]I would encourage her to have an abortion for our relationship and for the sake of mankind as a whole. If she did it I would stay with her, if she didn't, I would leave her. Of course this is only in the event that the kid wasn't mine, but that when I got with her she was already pregnant with the guy she was dating before me.Serraph105

right well i do seem to remember you posting in my other topics about this so good job there

No problem. :|

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being a parent I can honestly say..you never feel like your prepared nor can aford a child...yet you just find a way......
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#17 bobaban
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I would encourage her to have an abortion for our relationship and for the sake of mankind as a whole. If she did it I would stay with her, if she didn't, I would leave her. Of course this is only in the event that the kid wasn't mine, but that when I got with her she was already pregnant with the guy she was dating before me.ElectronicMagic

That's kind of sick. It's like get an abortion b****, even though I did not contribute to this pregnancy.

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Here Choice

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#19 ElectronicMagic
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[QUOTE="ElectronicMagic"]I would encourage her to have an abortion for our relationship and for the sake of mankind as a whole. If she did it I would stay with her, if she didn't, I would leave her. Of course this is only in the event that the kid wasn't mine, but that when I got with her she was already pregnant with the guy she was dating before me.bobaban

That's kind of sick. It's like get an abortion b****, even though I did not contribute to this pregnancy.

I wouldn't force her to do anything. She would simply have to choose. I won't take care of another man's child.

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#20 bobaban
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[QUOTE="bobaban"]

[QUOTE="ElectronicMagic"]I would encourage her to have an abortion for our relationship and for the sake of mankind as a whole. If she did it I would stay with her, if she didn't, I would leave her. Of course this is only in the event that the kid wasn't mine, but that when I got with her she was already pregnant with the guy she was dating before me.ElectronicMagic

That's kind of sick. It's like get an abortion b****, even though I did not contribute to this pregnancy.

I wouldn't force her to do anything. She would simply have to choose. I won't take care of another man's child.

It's not that I wouldn't agree with you, it's just that you really don't have a say with matters like that.

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#21 deactivated-5a79221380856
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I wouldn't force her to do anything. She would simply have to choose. I won't take care of another man's child.ElectronicMagic

I don't the topic creator said anything about the child being someone else's.

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#22 linkin_guy109
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if she wanted the kid then id do whatever i would have to to make it work, but if she didnt work it that thing would be sucked out hella fast
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#23 Serraph105
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[QUOTE="ElectronicMagic"]I wouldn't force her to do anything. She would simply have to choose. I won't take care of another man's child.Genetic_Code

I don't the topic creator said anything about the child being someone else's.

actually i did its like the last 3 words in the thing though

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#24 ElectronicMagic
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[QUOTE="ElectronicMagic"][QUOTE="bobaban"]

[QUOTE="ElectronicMagic"]I would encourage her to have an abortion for our relationship and for the sake of mankind as a whole. If she did it I would stay with her, if she didn't, I would leave her. Of course this is only in the event that the kid wasn't mine, but that when I got with her she was already pregnant with the guy she was dating before me.bobaban

That's kind of sick. It's like get an abortion b****, even though I did not contribute to this pregnancy.

I wouldn't force her to do anything. She would simply have to choose. I won't take care of another man's child.

It's not that I wouldn't agree with you, it's just that you really don't have a say with matters like that.

I'm just saying what I would do in my best interests. Dating a girl that is pregnant with another guy's kid or that already has a kid with another guy, wouldn't work for me. If it was my kid she was pregnant with, it would be a different story. I wouldn't be an jerk about it, I would calmly say "You can have the child and leave me or you can have me and have an abortion." I'd let her choose.

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#25 MrGeezer
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Neither. I would encourage her to have the baby. I dont care if I was broke.

JeM760soCAL

How are you gonna support it if you're broke?

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#26 VacantPsalm
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What's wrong with adoption?
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#27 MrGeezer
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I would never allow my girlfriend/wife to get an abortion. The child is half my responsibility and I would be willing, able to afford it or not, to try my best to raise it as my child.foxhound_fox

You wouldn't ALLOW her to get an abortion?

lol...What, pray tell, would you do to stop her?

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#28 MrGeezer
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being a parent I can honestly say..you never feel like your prepared nor can aford a child...yet you just find a way......Omni-Slash

Unless you don't find a way.

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#29 deactivated-5a79221380856
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[QUOTE="Genetic_Code"]

I don't the topic creator said anything about the child being someone else's.

Serraph105

actually i did its like the last 3 words in the thing though

Oh, I thought I was missing something. My bad.

My opinion doesn't change though.