Abraham Briggs Sr. "Appalled" by the Internet for His Son's Suicide

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#1 Theokhoth
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http://abcnews.go.com/US/wireStory?id=6314787

Now he blames the Internet and calls for regulation.

Um, yeah, sorry that your kid killed himself and all, but, you know, if you were fit to be a parent, you would have noticed something was wrong and you would have done something about it. Blame your own damn self for not giving enough of a crap about your kid's personal life to go in his room and say "Hey, wanna talk?":roll:

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This is freaking stupid. Suicide is stupid (99 times out of 100), and posting it on the internet is beyond stupid.

I am truly sorry for his loss, but he has no one to blame but his son, whatever medication he might have been on and, to an extent, himself if he was a terrible father.

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http://abcnews.go.com/US/wireStory?id=6314787

Now he blames the Internet and calls for regulation.

Um, yeah, sorry that your kid killed himself and all, but, you know, if you were fit to be a parent, you would have noticed something was wrong and you would have done something about it. Blame your own damn self for not giving enough of a crap about your kid's personal life to go in his room and say "Hey, wanna talk?":roll:

Theokhoth

 

Don't give me that crap. Most of these people sat there and watched the guy commit suicide, and didn't do one thing to help. They sat there an WATCHED SOMEONE DIE in real time, for entertainment. There is no way to defend that. Absolutely no excuse for that whatsoever.

 

Even worse, some of them EGGED HIM ON. If you're in the mall and some dude threatens to blow his head off, and then you walk up to him and start urging him to do it, then I guarantee that you're gonna get arrested. If you urge someone to burn down a building, you're partly to blame for the ensuing fire. If you try to convince someone to go on a shooting spree, you've got blood on your hands. Don't DARE try to take blame away from the people who sat around and watched this happen. Those people are scum, the internet is a place that nurtures and promotes scum, and I absolutely have no problem if measures are taken to "clean up" the internet in the same way that police try to "clean up" a crime infested neighborhood. 

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[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

http://abcnews.go.com/US/wireStory?id=6314787

Now he blames the Internet and calls for regulation.

Um, yeah, sorry that your kid killed himself and all, but, you know, if you were fit to be a parent, you would have noticed something was wrong and you would have done something about it. Blame your own damn self for not giving enough of a crap about your kid's personal life to go in his room and say "Hey, wanna talk?":roll:

MrGeezer

 

Don't give me that crap. Most of these people sat there and watched the guy commit suicide, and didn't do one thing to help. They sat there an WATCHED SOMEONE DIE in real time, for entertainment. There is no way to defend that. Absolutely no excuse for that whatsoever.

 

Even worse, some of them EGGED HIM ON. If you're in the mall and some dude threatens to blow his head off, and then you walk up to him and start urging him to do it, then I guarantee that you're gonna get arrested. If you urge someone to burn down a building, you're partly to blame for the ensuing fire. If you try to convince someone to go on a shooting spree, you've got blood on your hands. Don't DARE try to take blame away from the people who sat around and watched this happen. Those people are scum, the internet is a place that nurtures and promotes scum, and I absolutely have no problem if measures are taken to "clean up" the internet in the same way that police try to "clean up" a crime infested neighborhood. 

O.O calm down buddy..
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[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

http://abcnews.go.com/US/wireStory?id=6314787

Now he blames the Internet and calls for regulation.

Um, yeah, sorry that your kid killed himself and all, but, you know, if you were fit to be a parent, you would have noticed something was wrong and you would have done something about it. Blame your own damn self for not giving enough of a crap about your kid's personal life to go in his room and say "Hey, wanna talk?":roll:

MrGeezer

 

Don't give me that crap. Most of these people sat there and watched the guy commit suicide, and didn't do one thing to help. They sat there an WATCHED SOMEONE DIE in real time, for entertainment. There is no way to defend that. Absolutely no excuse for that whatsoever.

 

Even worse, some of them EGGED HIM ON. If you're in the mall and some dude threatens to blow his head off, and then you walk up to him and start urging him to do it, then I guarantee that you're gonna get arrested. If you urge someone to burn down a building, you're partly to blame for the ensuing fire. If you try to convince someone to go on a shooting spree, you've got blood on your hands. Don't DARE try to take blame away from the people who sat around and watched this happen. Those people are scum, the internet is a place that nurtures and promotes scum, and I absolutely have no problem if measures are taken to "clean up" the internet in the same way that police try to "clean up" a crime infested neighborhood. 

What the hell are they supposed to do? They took his IP and notified the police (that's how they knew to go there in the first place) but most of them were in other cities, countries, the other side of the world! "Didn't do anything about it"? What should they do? Fly a plane to his house and tell him to stop? Egging him on is bad, but really, he provoked it by threatening suicide in the first place.

 

 

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[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

http://abcnews.go.com/US/wireStory?id=6314787

Now he blames the Internet and calls for regulation.

Um, yeah, sorry that your kid killed himself and all, but, you know, if you were fit to be a parent, you would have noticed something was wrong and you would have done something about it. Blame your own damn self for not giving enough of a crap about your kid's personal life to go in his room and say "Hey, wanna talk?":roll:

MrGeezer

 

Don't give me that crap. Most of these people sat there and watched the guy commit suicide, and didn't do one thing to help. They sat there an WATCHED SOMEONE DIE in real time, for entertainment. There is no way to defend that. Absolutely no excuse for that whatsoever.

 

Even worse, some of them EGGED HIM ON. If you're in the mall and some dude threatens to blow his head off, and then you walk up to him and start urging him to do it, then I guarantee that you're gonna get arrested. If you urge someone to burn down a building, you're partly to blame for the ensuing fire. If you try to convince someone to go on a shooting spree, you've got blood on your hands. Don't DARE try to take blame away from the people who sat around and watched this happen. Those people are scum, the internet is a place that nurtures and promotes scum, and I absolutely have no problem if measures are taken to "clean up" the internet in the same way that police try to "clean up" a crime infested neighborhood. 

so are you blaming the people who watched him kill himself? what if you live in say alaska(random place) do you expect them to somehow help? also people did not know if this was real or not so dont blame others for what he did to himself 

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[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

http://abcnews.go.com/US/wireStory?id=6314787

Now he blames the Internet and calls for regulation.

Um, yeah, sorry that your kid killed himself and all, but, you know, if you were fit to be a parent, you would have noticed something was wrong and you would have done something about it. Blame your own damn self for not giving enough of a crap about your kid's personal life to go in his room and say "Hey, wanna talk?":roll:

MrGeezer

 

Don't give me that crap. Most of these people sat there and watched the guy commit suicide, and didn't do one thing to help. They sat there an WATCHED SOMEONE DIE in real time, for entertainment. There is no way to defend that. Absolutely no excuse for that whatsoever.

 

Even worse, some of them EGGED HIM ON. If you're in the mall and some dude threatens to blow his head off, and then you walk up to him and start urging him to do it, then I guarantee that you're gonna get arrested. If you urge someone to burn down a building, you're partly to blame for the ensuing fire. If you try to convince someone to go on a shooting spree, you've got blood on your hands. Don't DARE try to take blame away from the people who sat around and watched this happen. Those people are scum, the internet is a place that nurtures and promotes scum, and I absolutely have no problem if measures are taken to "clean up" the internet in the same way that police try to "clean up" a crime infested neighborhood. 

Purging... the internet...? It'll be tough to trace every person down that's done something illegal/offensive. Anyways, it was both parties faults in this case. The parents could have intervened and consoled their son, but at the same time, the internet was the straw that broke the camels back. The vast majority of the internet consists of people who say/do stuff online for pleasure only, and rarely think of the consequences. If any user in this forum were to create a topic saying "LULZ I MM A GONNA KEEL MYSELF GAIZ!" the vast majority of on-lookers wouldn't take it seriously because it's the internet (dun dun duh).
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[QUOTE="MrGeezer"][QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

http://abcnews.go.com/US/wireStory?id=6314787

Now he blames the Internet and calls for regulation.

Um, yeah, sorry that your kid killed himself and all, but, you know, if you were fit to be a parent, you would have noticed something was wrong and you would have done something about it. Blame your own damn self for not giving enough of a crap about your kid's personal life to go in his room and say "Hey, wanna talk?":roll:

Theokhoth

 

Don't give me that crap. Most of these people sat there and watched the guy commit suicide, and didn't do one thing to help. They sat there an WATCHED SOMEONE DIE in real time, for entertainment. There is no way to defend that. Absolutely no excuse for that whatsoever.

 

Even worse, some of them EGGED HIM ON. If you're in the mall and some dude threatens to blow his head off, and then you walk up to him and start urging him to do it, then I guarantee that you're gonna get arrested. If you urge someone to burn down a building, you're partly to blame for the ensuing fire. If you try to convince someone to go on a shooting spree, you've got blood on your hands. Don't DARE try to take blame away from the people who sat around and watched this happen. Those people are scum, the internet is a place that nurtures and promotes scum, and I absolutely have no problem if measures are taken to "clean up" the internet in the same way that police try to "clean up" a crime infested neighborhood. 

What the hell are they supposed to do? They took his IP and notified the police (that's how they knew to go there in the first place) but most of them were in other cities, countries, the other side of the world! "Didn't do anything about it"? What should they do? Fly a plane to his house and tell him to stop? Egging him on is bad, but really, he provoked it by threatening suicide in the first place.

 

 

 "Fly a plane to his house and tell him to stop? Egging him on is bad"  lol

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so are you blaming the people who watched him kill himself? what if you live in say alaska(random place) do you expect them to somehow help? also people did not know if this was real or not so dont blame others for what he did to himself

canucks12792

 

Yeah, they didn't know it was real. Then, after finding out that it was real, they laughed their asses off. :|

 

Last I heard, no one even reported the video until after they noticed that the guy hadn't moved in an hour.  

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#10 Jester070
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[QUOTE="canucks12792"]

so are you blaming the people who watched him kill himself? what if you live in say alaska(random place) do you expect them to somehow help? also people did not know if this was real or not so dont blame others for what he did to himself

MrGeezer

 

Yeah, they didn't know it was real. Then, after finding out that it was real, they laughed their asses off. :|

 

Last I heard, no one even reported the video until after they noticed that the guy hadn't moved in an hour.  

thats actually not that bad for the internet.. at least they reported it. :P
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#11 canucks12792
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[QUOTE="canucks12792"]

so are you blaming the people who watched him kill himself? what if you live in say alaska(random place) do you expect them to somehow help? also people did not know if this was real or not so dont blame others for what he did to himself

MrGeezer

 

Yeah, they didn't know it was real. Then, after finding out that it was real, they laughed their asses off. :|

 

Last I heard, no one even reported the video until after they noticed that the guy hadn't moved in an hour.  

it was his fault though for putting that in the internet for all to see.

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Well, apparently they didn't pay much attention because the kid had made several threads before where he said he would do the same thing and didn't. So there was the whole cry wolf thing. Also, he posted what he was going to take, and the people there said it wouldn't kill him because they knew the affects of doing too many of each type of drug. Since they are bodybuilders and whatnot they know a lot about supplements and drugs and what they do to the body and weren't worried about it.

I'm not defending what they did or didn't do and how they acted, thats just what I remember when I read through the thread hours after the event.

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the whole thing is sickening, im utterly disturbed that someone took heyre life on a live cam broadcast and thousand times more disturbed that ppl egged him on, eventhough they probably thought it was fake.
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Where in this article did it say that he called for "regulations"?

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it was his fault though for putting that in the internet for all to see.

canucks12792

 

Oh right. The mean old suicidal kid MADE the poor internet people act like that. :roll: 

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What exactly are we supposed to do about jerks on the internet? I somehow don't think the ISPs would fancy wasting their time dealing with every single one of them.
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#17 Theokhoth
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Where in this article did it say that he called for "regulations"?

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"I think after this incident and probably other incidents that have occurred in the past, they all point to some kind of regulation is necessary," Biggs said. 

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#18 GabuEx
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[QUOTE="canucks12792"]

it was his fault though for putting that in the internet for all to see.

MrGeezer

 

Oh right. The mean old suicidal kid MADE the poor internet people act like that. :roll: 

The mean old internet people didn't make him commit suicide, either. I mean, he broadcast his suicide on the internet. It doesn't exactly seem like he was terribly intent on backing off from doing it.

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#19 canucks12792
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[QUOTE="canucks12792"]

it was his fault though for putting that in the internet for all to see.

MrGeezer

 

Oh right. The mean old suicidal kid MADE the poor internet people act like that. :roll: 

why the hell would he put himself overdosing on the internet then. does he want sympathy? 

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Maybe he should have been a better parent to the kid, some kids just want attention and they do crazy things do get it. Internet regulation is not only censorship on a level that I disagree with, but it would be very difficult to do.
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I've said it before and i'll say it again, the internet is not a place for sympathy.

was a couple of posts on a forum really going to convince the guy not to kill himself? if so, then he was never really that serious. and if not, then he did the stupid thing of going to the internet than to his parents or a counsellor. 

and since people like to play the sympathy card and say "it doesn't matter if he's faking it blah blah blah" WTF does he have to be despessed about? he had a computer, clothes, a house, and at least one parent in him life. how many african kids can say the same thing? i bet they would trade lives with him in a second.

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#22 Cloud_Insurance
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he was bipolar, so there were other circumstances.
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#23 MrGeezer
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[QUOTE="MrGeezer"][QUOTE="canucks12792"]

it was his fault though for putting that in the internet for all to see.

GabuEx

 

Oh right. The mean old suicidal kid MADE the poor internet people act like that. :roll:

The mean old internet people didn't make him commit suicide, either. I mean, he broadcast his suicide on the internet. It doesn't exactly seem like he was terribly intent on backing off from doing it.

 

Question. What if instead of a suicide, it had been a school shooting threat. Or a bomb threat. Suppose Little Timmy says that he's gonna shoot up his school tomorrow, and then the people on the internet say "go do it, you little sissy."

 

We then turn on the news the next day and see that Little Timmy did it, and the media reports that he made the threat the night before only to have people egg him on. Would it be an acceptible excuse when the people who egged him on say "but I didn't think he was REALLY gonna shoot up a school?" 

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People always lose focus on these type of topics. They want to blame something or someone for why this or that happened. It's really irrelevant.

The people who encouraged him, are just a variation of the human species that is necessary for other variations to exist. I don't agree with it personaly, but their brains are incapable of processing empathy on the level that I am. Why should I blame them for that? That's just the reality of it. 

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[QUOTE="GabuEx"][QUOTE="MrGeezer"]

 

 

Oh right. The mean old suicidal kid MADE the poor internet people act like that. :roll:

MrGeezer

The mean old internet people didn't make him commit suicide, either. I mean, he broadcast his suicide on the internet. It doesn't exactly seem like he was terribly intent on backing off from doing it.

 

Question. What if instead of a suicide, it had been a school shooting threat. Or a bomb threat. Suppose Little Timmy says that he's gonna shoot up his school tomorrow, and then the people on the internet say "go do it, you little sissy."

 

if that was the cause there would be more concerned people and alert the authorities. plus that didnt happen

 

We then turn on the news the next day and see that Little Timmy did it, and the media reports that he made the threat the night before only to have people egg him on. Would it be an acceptible excuse when the people who egged him on say "but I didn't think he was REALLY gonna shoot up a school?" 

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Question. What if instead of a suicide, it had been a school shooting threat. Or a bomb threat. Suppose Little Timmy says that he's gonna shoot up his school tomorrow, and then the people on the internet say "go do it, you little sissy."

We then turn on the news the next day and see that Little Timmy did it, and the media reports that he made the threat the night before only to have people egg him on. Would it be an acceptible excuse when the people who egged him on say "but I didn't think he was REALLY gonna shoot up a school?"

MrGeezer

If I recall correctly, someone called the police about his suicide. I have no doubt that someone would also have called the police if he was threatening to shoot up his school, too. The fact remains that he is responsible for his own actions, and if he's broadcasting his intent to the entire internet, I don't think some guy saying "oh, no, you shouldn't do that" is going to have any effect whatsoever.

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He's shifting the blame to the Internet as an outlet for his anger over his son's death, and to avoid the guilt he's no doubt feeling. /psychoanalysis
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if that was the cause there would be more concerned people and alert the authorities. plus that didnt happen

canucks12792

 

They egged on someone to commit an illegal act. That's EXACTLY what happened.

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#29 GabuEx
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[QUOTE="canucks12792"]

if that was the cause there would be more concerned people and alert the authorities. plus that didnt happen

MrGeezer

 

They egged on someone to commit an illegal act. That's EXACTLY what happened.

Committing suicide is not illegal.

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[QUOTE="MrGeezer"]Question. What if instead of a suicide, it had been a school shooting threat. Or a bomb threat. Suppose Little Timmy says that he's gonna shoot up his school tomorrow, and then the people on the internet say "go do it, you little sissy."

We then turn on the news the next day and see that Little Timmy did it, and the media reports that he made the threat the night before only to have people egg him on. Would it be an acceptible excuse when the people who egged him on say "but I didn't think he was REALLY gonna shoot up a school?"

GabuEx

If I recall correctly, someone called the police about his suicide. I have no doubt that someone would also have called the police if he was threatening to shoot up his school, too. The fact remains that he is responsible for his own actions, and if he's broadcasting his intent to the entire internet, I don't think some guy saying "oh, no, you shouldn't do that" is going to have any effect whatsoever.

 

"Someone" waited until he was already dead. :| 

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While what happened was terrible, there really isn't anyway to get tougher on internet regulation so I don't really think that was a good thing of the Father to say, especially when these cases are extremely rare. I guess the only thing to learn from this is not to ever take Suicidal messages or actions as a joke (I have always tooken anything associated to Suicide very seriously, even if it is a joke, in which the person doing that is wrong to do, and well, when it actually happens for real like in this case, you can't necessarily blame the people for not taking the person seriously), as they are clear signs that the person is in distress and needs help. In the end though, the person chose to commit suicide, even if people encouraged it, like they always say: You wouldn't jump into a fire if someone told you to. I do indeed feel very sorry for everyone involved, and hope they learn from it and move on.
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[QUOTE="GabuEx"]

[QUOTE="MrGeezer"]Question. What if instead of a suicide, it had been a school shooting threat. Or a bomb threat. Suppose Little Timmy says that he's gonna shoot up his school tomorrow, and then the people on the internet say "go do it, you little sissy."

We then turn on the news the next day and see that Little Timmy did it, and the media reports that he made the threat the night before only to have people egg him on. Would it be an acceptible excuse when the people who egged him on say "but I didn't think he was REALLY gonna shoot up a school?"

MrGeezer

If I recall correctly, someone called the police about his suicide. I have no doubt that someone would also have called the police if he was threatening to shoot up his school, too. The fact remains that he is responsible for his own actions, and if he's broadcasting his intent to the entire internet, I don't think some guy saying "oh, no, you shouldn't do that" is going to have any effect whatsoever.

 

"Someone" waited until he was already dead. :| 

you cant blame other people for his mistake!!!!!!

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#33 GabuEx
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"Someone" waited until he was already dead. :|MrGeezer

If people called the police every single time some random guy on the internet threatened suicide, the police would have time for nothing else.  I've dealt with enough goofy attention seekers to know that I, too, would probably have been skeptical at first.

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#34 Yankees_Dynasty
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The guy was an adult, 19 yrs. old. Why should I feel sorry for him?
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#35 markop2003
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He obviously didn't read the suicide note, it talked about his father having high expectations and him letting his father down. It sounds to me like some of the blame can be put on him. Also regulating the internet like that destroy's one of it's greatest things, i wouldn't be surprised if more people turn to anon if it goes in place.
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#36 michaelP4
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The guy was an adult, 19 yrs. old. Why should I feel sorry for him? Yankees_Dynasty
The reason I feel sorry for him is because when a person even thinks of suicide, their is something very wrong that needs to be immediately dealt with. Until it is dealt with, the thought will only continue to enlarge, blocking out rational thinking. If this person recieved helped, he may still be alive today. But I certainly do not blame anyone here for what happened, and only hope that people will talk about problems, stopping suicidal thoughts before they start to take over one's life.
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#37 Video_Game_King
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Wait, he's blaming the Internet for his son killing himself and posting it live on the Internet?.......This logic....I...*brain explodes*
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#38 LikeHaterade
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Lets punish the millions that use the internet with regulations because a select few of immature individuals egged on a suicide that they had no clue could very well be real. It was that boy's parents' job to talk to him if he was on the verge of suicide. Not the internet. They should have sensed something was wrong and talked and spent more time with the boy more as their responsibility as parents, whether he's an adult or not. Makes perfect sense.:roll:
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#39 lilburtonboy748
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[QUOTE="canucks12792"]

it was his fault though for putting that in the internet for all to see.

MrGeezer

 

Oh right. The mean old suicidal kid MADE the poor internet people act like that. :roll: 

it was his own fault. if he didn't decide to broadcast it to the world, no one would push him to do it in the first place.
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#40 duxup
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Dude's kid killed himself I'm willing to give him a break.
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#41 pygmahia5
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[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

http://abcnews.go.com/US/wireStory?id=6314787

Now he blames the Internet and calls for regulation.

Um, yeah, sorry that your kid killed himself and all, but, you know, if you were fit to be a parent, you would have noticed something was wrong and you would have done something about it. Blame your own damn self for not giving enough of a crap about your kid's personal life to go in his room and say "Hey, wanna talk?":roll:

MrGeezer

 

Don't give me that crap. Most of these people sat there and watched the guy commit suicide, and didn't do one thing to help. They sat there an WATCHED SOMEONE DIE in real time, for entertainment. There is no way to defend that. Absolutely no excuse for that whatsoever.

 

Even worse, some of them EGGED HIM ON. If you're in the mall and some dude threatens to blow his head off, and then you walk up to him and start urging him to do it, then I guarantee that you're gonna get arrested. If you urge someone to burn down a building, you're partly to blame for the ensuing fire. If you try to convince someone to go on a shooting spree, you've got blood on your hands. Don't DARE try to take blame away from the people who sat around and watched this happen. Those people are scum, the internet is a place that nurtures and promotes scum, and I absolutely have no problem if measures are taken to "clean up" the internet in the same way that police try to "clean up" a crime infested neighborhood. 

i completely agree with you. i can't fathom why anyone would want him to do it. mostly cuz they're annonymous i suppose.
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#42 LikeHaterade
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[QUOTE="MrGeezer"][QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

http://abcnews.go.com/US/wireStory?id=6314787

Now he blames the Internet and calls for regulation.

Um, yeah, sorry that your kid killed himself and all, but, you know, if you were fit to be a parent, you would have noticed something was wrong and you would have done something about it. Blame your own damn self for not giving enough of a crap about your kid's personal life to go in his room and say "Hey, wanna talk?":roll:

pygmahia5

 

Don't give me that crap. Most of these people sat there and watched the guy commit suicide, and didn't do one thing to help. They sat there an WATCHED SOMEONE DIE in real time, for entertainment. There is no way to defend that. Absolutely no excuse for that whatsoever.

 

Even worse, some of them EGGED HIM ON. If you're in the mall and some dude threatens to blow his head off, and then you walk up to him and start urging him to do it, then I guarantee that you're gonna get arrested. If you urge someone to burn down a building, you're partly to blame for the ensuing fire. If you try to convince someone to go on a shooting spree, you've got blood on your hands. Don't DARE try to take blame away from the people who sat around and watched this happen. Those people are scum, the internet is a place that nurtures and promotes scum, and I absolutely have no problem if measures are taken to "clean up" the internet in the same way that police try to "clean up" a crime infested neighborhood. 

i completely agree with you. i can't fathom why anyone would want him to do it. mostly cuz they're annonymous i suppose.

It was his fault for getting on the internet to commit suicide, causing others to egg him on. The internet is a FREE series of tubes and it should remain that way. I know the father is upset, but regulating the internet and punishing the millions that use it with regulations because a few kids did what they did is not right.
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#44 way2funny
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[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

http://abcnews.go.com/US/wireStory?id=6314787

Now he blames the Internet and calls for regulation.

Um, yeah, sorry that your kid killed himself and all, but, you know, if you were fit to be a parent, you would have noticed something was wrong and you would have done something about it. Blame your own damn self for not giving enough of a crap about your kid's personal life to go in his room and say "Hey, wanna talk?":roll:

MrGeezer

 

Don't give me that crap. Most of these people sat there and watched the guy commit suicide, and didn't do one thing to help. They sat there an WATCHED SOMEONE DIE in real time, for entertainment. There is no way to defend that. Absolutely no excuse for that whatsoever.

 

Even worse, some of them EGGED HIM ON. If you're in the mall and some dude threatens to blow his head off, and then you walk up to him and start urging him to do it, then I guarantee that you're gonna get arrested. If you urge someone to burn down a building, you're partly to blame for the ensuing fire. If you try to convince someone to go on a shooting spree, you've got blood on your hands. Don't DARE try to take blame away from the people who sat around and watched this happen. Those people are scum, the internet is a place that nurtures and promotes scum, and I absolutely have no problem if measures are taken to "clean up" the internet in the same way that police try to "clean up" a crime infested neighborhood. 

I agree 100%. Wether suicide is right or wrong isnt the question, its the immaturity of people that may have been the final push. I bet if all those worthless pieces of crap watching him actually tryed to encourage him not to do it and not to take his life away he wouldnt have. Encourage people, help people dont be immature selfish idiots. Those watching him were A LOT more selfish than people said he was.

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#45 markop2003
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I've said it before and i'll say it again, the internet is not a place for sympathy.indian_playa
true, never post anything if you mind Anon getting a hold of it
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#46 7guns
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In cases like these I guess it's very hard for parents to consider the possibility that it could be because of their negligence. My guess is that father doesn't know what sense to make of it.
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#47 GabuEx
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I bet if all those worthless pieces of crap watching him actually tryed to encourage him not to do it and not to take his life away he wouldnt have.way2funny
If a bunch of random guys on the internet telling him not to kill himself would have made him not kill himself, I would question why he would have broadcasted his suicide in the first place.
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#48 Gretzky_99rockz
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Theres 2 sides to this. First the dad is really upset and is blaming the site for his son's death, but his son made that choice and had to deal with the results.

Second the people who egged him on shouldn't be 100% innocent. You may not be able to charge them with a crime, but morally its still really wrong.

There really isn't a right/wrong side to this. Its just really bad no matter what.

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#49 Kalel559
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I'm with MrGeezer on this one.
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#50 canucks12792
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[QUOTE="MrGeezer"][QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

http://abcnews.go.com/US/wireStory?id=6314787

Now he blames the Internet and calls for regulation.

Um, yeah, sorry that your kid killed himself and all, but, you know, if you were fit to be a parent, you would have noticed something was wrong and you would have done something about it. Blame your own damn self for not giving enough of a crap about your kid's personal life to go in his room and say "Hey, wanna talk?":roll:

way2funny

 

Don't give me that crap. Most of these people sat there and watched the guy commit suicide, and didn't do one thing to help. They sat there an WATCHED SOMEONE DIE in real time, for entertainment. There is no way to defend that. Absolutely no excuse for that whatsoever.

 

Even worse, some of them EGGED HIM ON. If you're in the mall and some dude threatens to blow his head off, and then you walk up to him and start urging him to do it, then I guarantee that you're gonna get arrested. If you urge someone to burn down a building, you're partly to blame for the ensuing fire. If you try to convince someone to go on a shooting spree, you've got blood on your hands. Don't DARE try to take blame away from the people who sat around and watched this happen. Those people are scum, the internet is a place that nurtures and promotes scum, and I absolutely have no problem if measures are taken to "clean up" the internet in the same way that police try to "clean up" a crime infested neighborhood. 

I agree 100%. Wether suicide is right or wrong isnt the question, its the immaturity of people that may have been the final push. I bet if all those worthless pieces of crap watching him actually tryed to encourage him not to do it and not to take his life away he wouldnt have. Encourage people, help people dont be immature selfish idiots. Those watching him were A LOT more selfish than people said he was.

look i'll say this again if he didn't post himself killing himself there wouldnt have all these people egging him. So in the end it's all his fault