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#1 3verlastingHero
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Ok I am in a weird position. Me and my good friend both broke up with our girlfriends roughly around the same time, and he said they were "done for good" and keeps telling me about this other chick he is trying to get with, now here is the problem I have always secretly liked his ex and after I heard they broke up I started to talk to her and eventually ended up hanging out with her and hugging/kissing stuff like that, now we are just talking at the moment, but I was wondering does this violate like any friend laws or something? I mean they just broke up less than a week ago, but I really like this girl, but I don't want to loose a friend!
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#2 hormagaunt
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done be surprised if he suddenly punches you square in the face
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#3 X360PS3AMD05
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done be surprised if he suddenly punches you square in the face hormagaunt
Pretty much
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#4 3verlastingHero
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done be surprised if he suddenly punches you square in the face hormagaunt
I know, thats what im worried about him getting all butt hurt because he says they are over when he still has feelings for her, I think im just going to wait a while and see.
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#5 bluntmastaslaya
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dont do it bro, b***** dont last, friends do. bros over hoes. going out with your friends ex is a cardinal sin and should never be done. what if he started dating your ex?

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#6 fallconet
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is she hot? lol
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#7 3verlastingHero
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is she hot? lolfallconet
If she wasn't would I be trying to hit it? lol!
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#8 3verlastingHero
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dont do it bro, b***** dont last, friends do. bros over hoes. going out with your friends ex is a cardinal sin and should never be done. what if he started dating your ex?

bluntmastaslaya
Hmm I see what you mean, but atleast she would be with someone I know personally and not some random guy.
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#9 X360PS3AMD05
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Go for it man!
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#10 GameServant
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are you serious? lame man, very lame... even thinking your friend was sinking his wiwi into her should turn you off.. but I guess everyone is different. there are lots other chicks out there.

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#11 bluntmastaslaya
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[QUOTE="bluntmastaslaya"]

dont do it bro, b***** dont last, friends do. bros over hoes. going out with your friends ex is a cardinal sin and should never be done. what if he started dating your ex?

3verlastingHero

Hmm I see what you mean, but atleast she would be with someone I know personally and not some random guy.

but wouldnt you rather be with some random guy so you could hate him... and not hate your friend? you dont want to LIKE you ex's next boyfriend. in my opinion its worse to have it someone you know

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#12 Mayhem48
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[QUOTE="fallconet"]is she hot? lol3verlastingHero
If she wasn't would I be trying to hit it? lol!

you just answered your own question, if shes hot then **** your friend! Go for it lol.

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#13 green_obsidian
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this might sound cold but chances are you aren't going to know either of them, or have them in your life forever, which should give you some perspective if its going to be an issue and chances are no matter what he says it will be, you have to choose who your going to want in your life the longest. Picking the girl will put a wedge in the friendship even if its just because he or the girl feels awkward
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[QUOTE="fallconet"]is she hot? lol3verlastingHero
If she wasn't would I be trying to hit it? lol!

Well it sounds like you're just in it for the worthless sex.....So I wouldn't risk a best friend for that.

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#15 LordoftheVacas
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Just get in and out be happy :D
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#16 3verlastingHero
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[QUOTE="3verlastingHero"][QUOTE="fallconet"]is she hot? lolxSIZEMATTER

If she wasn't would I be trying to hit it? lol!

Well it sounds like you're just in it for the worthless sex.....So I wouldn't risk a best friend for that.

Well of course thats a big factor, I guess since you put it that way it really isn't worth loosing a friend over.
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#17 X360PS3AMD05
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No no no! Go for the worthless sex man, you can always make new worthless friends :D
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#18 SimpJee
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[QUOTE="bluntmastaslaya"]

dont do it bro, b***** dont last, friends do. bros over hoes. going out with your friends ex is a cardinal sin and should never be done. what if he started dating your ex?

3verlastingHero

Hmm I see what you mean, but atleast she would be with someone I know personally and not some random guy.

Nah man don't say that, have you thought that maybe this chick is trying to get back at him by dating you? It could be the reverse as well if your ex started dating him.

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#19 LordoftheVacas
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I recommend you to reserve soon a hotel room :D.
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#20 rowzzr
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dude, even if your friend says it's over between them, it's still a no-no considering the fact that it's only been less than a week? for all you know, their broke up could only have been a spur of the moment type of thing. so, they might get back at it anytime soon - and already, you've kissed her and all that. i think your friend doesn't need enemies with pals like you. congrattis. :D

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#21 Travo_basic
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I would give it some time, then ask him if he would be cool with it.
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#22 Rattlesnake_8
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Is a girl worth losing your friend over? Chances are you wont get the girl and you'd lose your friend.. theres a reason why you don't go for friends ex's.
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#23 anthonyActon
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Bros b4 Hoes
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#24 gazoz
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If you really care about this friend of yours, then confront him. Tell him how you feel, maybe he'll be ok with it. After all, he did say it was over, right?
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#25 deactivated-5e836a855beb2
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Oh man that's horrible. You need to not do what you're doing.

Less than a week ago lol.

Unless he's trying to date your ex? That would be perfect. Suggest it to him.

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#26 Blitz_Nemesis
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you should wait and see if you friend hooks up with this new girl. if he does move onto his ex otherwise just ask him if its cool.
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#27 AdamPA1006
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I would wait a bit definately, and how long were they going out before??
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#28 D3nnyCrane
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She should be persona non nookie now that she's been with your mate!

Cmon dude it's a guy rule - same as not going out with someones sister if you've known the guy longer than 2 hours!