Ok if youve ahd a group of freinds for a while and before you got on really well, until one day they start doing things you dont agree with or there attitides change drastically. What if the things they did you found extremly intolerable, what should you do, leave teh group or just pretend i cant tell
Well if they are pressuring you to do stuff, leave. If not and they are doing there own thing taht cant get you in trouble, whhy leave?
premier111
technically the problem is teh way the group are oblivious to something there "leader" does, technically he talks about all fo them behind there backs says really abd things, and he gets away scot free and stuff and everyone thinks hes the best and taht everything he says is right, but its not. One of my freinds ahs been going to see the school phsc for ages now and she cuts herself, and hes saying she only does it for attention, i dont agree with him but the rest of the group are like believeing him and when i tell them what he says bout them they dont believe me. I wanna leave the group because its as if theve become a hive mind
you got record voice on your cell? a tape recorder? if so, ask him about who he doesnt like, and leave it on. I did it to a girl who liked a guy but never said it and did the thing with my phone in my hoodie, told my bud, and they wnet out the next week. same could happen if he talks crap. If you want to leave go for it, your not obligated.
That happened to me when I was a senior in high school. I got sick of hanging with my "friends" because they were pretty annoying. On top of that, we had nothing in common, they believed in things like wearing purple makes you gay and some of them had girlfriends that pissed me off. So, I spent most of my senior year alone in my art class, working on artwork.
I think you should try finding alternate "Groups".
or just dont fall in line with this MS/HS bullshyzat of only hanging out with a certain few individuals. be friends with everyone. Its hard, but its worth it.
Social groups are asinine and useless. You end up doing things that you regret, and you can never truly identify or agree with everyone you hang around with. Just make close friends who you know you can trust.
I think you should try finding alternate "Groups".
or just dont fall in line with this MS/HS bullshyzat of only hanging out with a certain few individuals. be friends with everyone. Its hard, but its worth it.
xxQuadropwnedxx
I do have alternative groups and freinds from each group, but thing is all my best freinds have joined teh group im ranting about, i only know mayeb one freind who would definetly be on my side if i left. But i feel i cant leave, i think mayeb that the leader guy might have more enemys then just me. I dont know who, and i want to make sure the girl who goes to the pshyce knows, but i ca nt tell her whats been said cus i dont wanna hurt her, but i dont want her being a group that stab her in the back eveyr recess. Seriously i really wanna bring the leader guy down though, im so sick of him thinking hes the best, in a way if i could ahve it teh way i wante dit he'd be dead or gone or tied to a chair in a gas chamber, but im to nic eto get him outa the picture
what type of things are they doing that you dont like?xxQuadropwnedxx
Already said but ill summarise it:
Believeing in thinsg taht there leader has said that arnt true
Calling a freind of mine who is generally depressed a lier adn an attention seeker
Calling themselfs all Emos and stuff even though tehre always happy ( im not emo but im always depressed and i find it pathetic how annoying they are)
Listening to death metalrock music and criticising the music i like ( alternative rock)
Saying im a loser because im 16 and a virgin ( there all younger then me), but i usually says that im not pissed because they all did it because theyw ere desperate and im waiting ( there relationships usually last 2 weeks, ive never really had a relationship)
Whineing and not being able to see where they are wrong.
There imoral views on things liek drugs alchohal and sex ( generally seeing woman as objects)
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