All's fair in love?

Well, we all know that not all's fair in war, considering we have the Geneva convention which all parties seem to like to bring when it suits them and ignore when it doesnt....but thats a different topic. :P Anyways, do you think that all's fair in love? Now before you say "but cheating on your girlfriend isnt right" let me explain what i mean. I mean is it ok to do whatever it takes to be with sumone you (think you) love? Do you find it acceptable to do anything in your power (that is legal...) to get that special sumone?

Lets take for example: Your best friend is going out with this great girl. And then one day you have an epiphany of biblical proportions where you realize that your friends g/f is the girl for you. Your one and only sole mate. And this isnt just guessing, its an undeniable, indistupable god sanctioned fact that she is the ultimate girl for you that will make life 100x easier and make you eternally happy and make the whole world sing. What would u do? would you pull a grimey(pimp?) and creep up on you friend's girl or would you go the honorable (chump?) route and pass up on this once in a life time oppurtunity for the sake of being a "decent man"?

If the girl means A LOT less to the guy shes dating

then yeah, do whatever you want

id wait. I doubt id find a soul mate or fall in "love". Id rather have a good friend than a possible gf. How would i feel if he creeped up on my girl?

id wait. I doubt id find a soul mate or fall in "love". Id rather have a good friend than a possible gf. How would i feel if he creeped up on my girl?

freshgman

for this occassion just assume that god himself came from the heavens and told you that you will never find more joy with another person than with this woman. :P

And then one day you have an epiphany of biblical proportions where you realize that your friends g/f is the girl for you

Don't be pathetic, there are plenty of vaginas in the world, you shouldnt have to resort to stealing your friends.

It's a personal rule for me that I never try to go for someone who already has a boyfriend, they are off-limits. It's not my place to interfer, even if I like her alot. I wouldn't do that to a friend or an enemy. It's just something you don't do. If they break up for some reason, I don't see why not try to go after her. But never steal a girl from another guy.

Apparently you guys didn't pay attention in Kindergarten. I'd just share the girl. Work out a schedule...like I'd get her on Mon, Wed, Fri, and every other Saturday. And if my friend loses her or makes scratches or blemishes he would have to pay for a new girl.

Lets take for example: Your best friend is going out with this great girl. And then one day you have an epiphany of biblical proportions where you realize that your friends g/f is the girl for you. Your one and only sole mate. And this isnt just guessing, its an undeniable, indistupable god sanctioned fact that she is the ultimate girl for you that will make life 100x easier and make you eternally happy and make the whole world sing. What would u do? would you pull a grimey(pimp?) and creep up on you friend's girl or would you go the honorable (chump?) route and pass up on this once in a life time oppurtunity for the sake of being a "decent man"?

II_Seraphim_II

Let's put it this way...you think (or let's say, even KNOW) that she's the right girl for you, but did you even ONCE consider if YOU are the right guy for HER?

You want her because you think that YOU will be happy with her, and so you go about trying to DESTROY her happy relationship with someone SHE loves.

Makes me wonder how much you really love her at all.

It's like, one time when I was a kid, I found a bird with a broken wing. So I rescued it, and took care of it. Eventually its wing healed. Then one day I was walking around with it outside and it tried to fly away from me. But I didn't want to see it go, so I caught it, locked it in a super-secure cage, so that it could never get away. Then I eventually forgot about it, and a few months later I was rummaging through the shed and I found its mummified skeleton still in the cage.

Have you ever heard the saying "some birds are too beautiful to be caged"?

Well, sometimes its true. Particularly when that bird doesn't want to be anywhere near you, yet you still feel a need to wrap your iron fist around its neck of freedom, and squeeze out its last breath of happiness in one violent chokehold.

[QUOTE="II_Seraphim_II"]

Lets take for example: Your best friend is going out with this great girl. And then one day you have an epiphany of biblical proportions where you realize that your friends g/f is the girl for you. Your one and only sole mate. And this isnt just guessing, its an undeniable, indistupable god sanctioned fact that she is the ultimate girl for you that will make life 100x easier and make you eternally happy and make the whole world sing. What would u do? would you pull a grimey(pimp?) and creep up on you friend's girl or would you go the honorable (chump?) route and pass up on this once in a life time oppurtunity for the sake of being a "decent man"?

MrGeezer

Let's put it this way...you think (or let's say, even KNOW) that she's the right girl for you, but did you even ONCE consider if YOU are the right guy for HER?

You want her because you think that YOU will be happy with her, and so you go about trying to DESTROY her happy relationship with someone SHE loves.

Makes me wonder how much you really love her at all.

It's like, one time when I was a kid, I found a bird with a broken wing. So I rescued it, and took care of it. Eventually its wing healed. Then one day I was walking around with it outside and it tried to fly away from me. But I didn't want to see it go, so I caught it, locked it in a super-secure cage, so that it could never get away. Then I eventually forgot about it, and a few months later I was rummaging through the shed and I found its mummified skeleton still in the cage.

Have you ever heard the saying "some birds are too beautiful to be caged"?

Well, sometimes its true. Particularly when that bird doesn't want to be anywhere near you, yet you still feel a need to wrap your iron fist around its neck of freedom, and squeeze out its last breath of happiness in one violent chokehold.

Let's put it this way...you think (or let's say, even KNOW) that she's the right girl for you, but did you even ONCE consider if YOU are the right guy for HER?

You want her because you think that YOU will be happy with her, and so you go about trying to DESTROY her happy relationship with someone SHE loves.

Makes me wonder how much you really love her at all.

It's like, one time when I was a kid, I found a bird with a broken wing. So I rescued it, and took care of it. Eventually its wing healed. Then one day I was walking around with it outside and it tried to fly away from me. But I didn't want to see it go, so I caught it, locked it in a super-secure cage, so that it could never get away. Then I eventually forgot about it, and a few months later I was rummaging through the shed and I found its mummified skeleton still in the cage.

Have you ever heard the saying "some birds are too beautiful to be caged"?

Well, sometimes its true. Particularly when that bird doesn't want to be anywhere near you, yet you still feel a need to wrap your iron fist around its neck of freedom, and squeeze out its last breath of happiness in one violent chokehold.

MrGeezer