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#1 KingOfAsia
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They call me alien for being skinny tall and lanky then i went and told security then under their breath they say snitch. I cant stand them thinking about me and talking behind my back? I feel axiety walking by them and going to school thinking there gonna talk about me!

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#2 Jackboot343
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Bullying ends after high school.

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They call me alien for being skinny tall and lanky then i went and told security then under their breath they say snitch. I cant stand them thinking about me and talking behind my back? I feel axiety walking by them and going to school thinking there gonna talk about me!

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Challenge them to physical combat.
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#4 MistressMinako
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If it really bothers you, notify the administration staff of the school. But yeah, they probably thought that you are in college now and too old to be tattling for name calling.
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learn jiu jitsu since your long and lankey and choke them out HIIIIIIIIIGHHHHH YAAA!!!!!!!!
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#6 mamelon2012
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Just tell them to go F themselves... Its college and they should have grown out of that stuff. Dont pay any attention
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#7 KingOfAsia
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If it really bothers you, notify the administration staff of the school. But yeah, they probably thought that you are in college now and too old to be tattling for name calling.MistressMinako

I did, Its only 3 of them but they dont say anything but its the fact that i constantly feel anxious of what they talk about when im not in the caf or in class >_>!!! spreading stuff.. thats what bothers me how do i stop thinking of them, I mean there not really important lol

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#8 Mercenary848
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Just avoid them or dont let it bother you. You are there to learn not to let words tear at you.

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#9 CHOASXIII
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If you are in college you are an adult so just walk away and move on with life.

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#10 martinX3X
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being super skinny is even worse than being fat. At least in America, people are considerate not to make fun of fat people. But they just go ahead and make fun of skinny people.

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[QUOTE="MistressMinako"]If it really bothers you, notify the administration staff of the school. But yeah, they probably thought that you are in college now and too old to be tattling for name calling.KingOfAsia

I did, Its only 3 of them but they dont say anything but its the fact that i constantly feel anxious of what they talk about when im not in the caf or in class >_>!!! spreading stuff.. thats what bothers me how do i stop thinking of them, I mean there not really important lol

Wait if they are not really saying anything to you personally, why tell the admins.

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#12 -Tish-
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If you're that judgmental about it then you probably deserve it. Reality is harsh.
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#13 T_REX305
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Your in College. Be a MAN!

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#14 Sunsha
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If you are in college you are an adult so just walk away and move on with life.

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Yeah, if you're going to allow their high school behavior to bother you it begs the question of who's the more childish one in this situation.
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[QUOTE="MistressMinako"]If it really bothers you, notify the administration staff of the school. But yeah, they probably thought that you are in college now and too old to be tattling for name calling.KingOfAsia

I did, Its only 3 of them but they dont say anything but its the fact that i constantly feel anxious of what they talk about when im not in the caf or in class >_>!!! spreading stuff.. thats what bothers me how do i stop thinking of them, I mean there not really important lol

People are just going to talk about others anyway so if the staff won't do anything I would say just try to keep your mind off of it. Think about other things you have to do like assignments, a new game you have to finish, etc. Now, if they start hitting you... then you have a case to be dealt with.
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#16 cybrcatter
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lol You told security? What did you tell them, "some kids are calling me names"? How did you survive HS if small stuff like this is ruffling your feathers?
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#17 MasterKingMP
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You should just piss them off the to point to where they attack you. Then you call the police and have them put in jail for Assault and Battery.

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Me and my friend have been laughing about this thread for a while now. Alien. That's priceless.

Ignore them, they'll stop.

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#19 FPSunionOWNS
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i think the only logical thing you can do here is to buy the biggest bowie knife you can find, then when you see them let out a thunderous battlecry start sprinting straight at them and stab one of them.

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#20 deactivated-6127ced9bcba0
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...Stand up for yourself, brother. The sooner you do that, the sooner they stop.

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#21 ff7fan2
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You told security that three guys were making fun of your physique? lmao suck it up and deal with it, dude.
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#22 XilePrincess
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You went and told security because some people said means things about you? Seriously? They're not assaulting you, slandering you, or verbally abusing you. They're not even harassing you, because that would mean they're going way out of their way to bother you. They're teasing you. You're in college, come the frig on. Who TATTLES in college?
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#23 Jackboot343
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Look on the bright side OP. You look like Kobe

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#24 RenegadePatriot
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I would say talk to the dean of students and let them deal with the situation.
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#25 tmaclabi
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It is common. But show they you can stand even with them bullying you.
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#26 Amnesiac23
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The good thing about college is that if they are causing enough trouble, they can be kicked out. Make sure to report them to someone who can actually do something about the situation, like a dean and take comfort in knowing that that level of immaturity will not take them far in college.
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#27 Good-Apollo
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Do weights, bulk up.
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#28 KingOfAsia
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You told security that three guys were making fun of your physique? lmao suck it up and deal with it, dude.ff7fan2

no.. they called me virgin and alien and now a snitch because i told on them.... well snitch under his breath and who knows what there saying when im not in class

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#29 gameguy6700
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Ignore everyone who's saying "tell the college officials" or stuff like that. Maybe they didn't read your post. YOU ****ed up. You've brought this all on yourself. If someone called you "alien" they were probably kidding around. If they weren't and were actually calling you names the correct response would have been to tell them to **** off and then resume your normal business, avoiding them if necessary (which is very easy to do at college). Instead what you did was act like you're still in 2nd grade by running to an authority figure to solve your extremely trivial problem for you. In doing so, you probably just made a silly, trivial situation a thousand times worse than it needed to be.
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[QUOTE="ff7fan2"]You told security that three guys were making fun of your physique? lmao suck it up and deal with it, dude.KingOfAsia

no.. they called me virgin and alien and now a snitch because i told on them.... well snitch under his breath and who knows what there saying when im not in class

Did they say this to your face, or behind your back.

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#31 Darthkaiser
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Stand up for yourself son, better to do it now than to wait 4 years for it.
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#32 mems_1224
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:lol: you told security that people were making fun of you??? dude just grow a pair and ignore them.
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#33 Setsa
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learn jiu jitsu since your long and lankey and choke them out HIIIIIIIIIGHHHHH YAAA!!!!!!!!kbpyrokb
Ehhh, being lanky puts me at a huge disadvantage for jiu jitsu. It's easier to submit a lanky person of the same weight, plus there's generally less solid muscle that's needed for torquing limbs off :o
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[QUOTE="ff7fan2"]You told security that three guys were making fun of your physique? lmao suck it up and deal with it, dude.KingOfAsia

no.. they called me virgin and alien and now a snitch because i told on them.... well snitch under his breath and who knows what there saying when im not in class

You should expect to be called a snitch by them after you snitched on them...
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You told security that three guys were making fun of your physique? lmao suck it up and deal with it, dude.ff7fan2

This.

I got bullied in elementary, made fun of in JHS, and by HS my backbone grew where I began to not give a _____

Alien isn't even that harsh of an insult... buy an ipod and leave it on while you travel between classes... if they physically come in contact with you, then you can get them in real trouble... SIMPLE.

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#36 cybrcatter
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I would say talk to the dean of students and let them deal with the situation.RenegadePatriot
If I were the dean and some student came to my office complaining about something this petty, I'd consider suspending him for wasting my time.
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#37 KingOfAsia
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[QUOTE="ff7fan2"]You told security that three guys were making fun of your physique? lmao suck it up and deal with it, dude.AtlanticRock

This.

I got bullied in elementary, made fun of in JHS, and by HS my backbone grew where I began to not give a _____

Alien isn't even that harsh of an insult... buy an ipod and leave it on while you travel between classes... if they physically come in contact with you, then you can get them in real trouble... SIMPLE.

yeah but the worse part is... they talk about me when im not around and in the caf saying things...... who knows what they say!

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#38 Jackboot343
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[QUOTE="AtlanticRock"]

[QUOTE="ff7fan2"]You told security that three guys were making fun of your physique? lmao suck it up and deal with it, dude.KingOfAsia

This.

I got bullied in elementary, made fun of in JHS, and by HS my backbone grew where I began to not give a _____

Alien isn't even that harsh of an insult... buy an ipod and leave it on while you travel between classes... if they physically come in contact with you, then you can get them in real trouble... SIMPLE.

yeah but the worse part is... they talk about me when im not around and in the caf saying things...... who knows what they say!

Who cares what they say?

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[QUOTE="AtlanticRock"]

[QUOTE="ff7fan2"]You told security that three guys were making fun of your physique? lmao suck it up and deal with it, dude.KingOfAsia

This.

I got bullied in elementary, made fun of in JHS, and by HS my backbone grew where I began to not give a _____

Alien isn't even that harsh of an insult... buy an ipod and leave it on while you travel between classes... if they physically come in contact with you, then you can get them in real trouble... SIMPLE.

yeah but the worse part is... they talk about me when im not around and in the caf saying things...... who knows what they say!

Who gives a ____.... you should be worried about passing those classes you're paying money for and not what some douche is saying in the cafeteria.

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#40 Setsa
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[QUOTE="AtlanticRock"]

[QUOTE="ff7fan2"]You told security that three guys were making fun of your physique? lmao suck it up and deal with it, dude.KingOfAsia

This.

I got bullied in elementary, made fun of in JHS, and by HS my backbone grew where I began to not give a _____

Alien isn't even that harsh of an insult... buy an ipod and leave it on while you travel between classes... if they physically come in contact with you, then you can get them in real trouble... SIMPLE.

yeah but the worse part is... they talk about me when im not around and in the caf saying things...... who knows what they say!

People are ****s, no offense but deal with it man. People say stupid things on campus all the time. Just because you're in college doesn't mean douchebaggery fades in an instant, there are still going to be rude individuals that get a kick out of ripping on people.
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If they talk about you to your face tell the dean if they do it behind your back then get over it... Also to the people calling you a child... He pays far to much money for college to put up with harassment...
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[QUOTE="AtlanticRock"]

[QUOTE="ff7fan2"]You told security that three guys were making fun of your physique? lmao suck it up and deal with it, dude.KingOfAsia

This.

I got bullied in elementary, made fun of in JHS, and by HS my backbone grew where I began to not give a _____

Alien isn't even that harsh of an insult... buy an ipod and leave it on while you travel between classes... if they physically come in contact with you, then you can get them in real trouble... SIMPLE.

yeah but the worse part is... they talk about me when im not around and in the caf saying things...... who knows what they say!

OH NO NOT EVERYBODY LIKES YOU OMG Seriously dude, if this is the worst thing people have done to you then you've had an amazing life.
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#43 Cataclism
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They call me alien for being skinny tall and lanky then i went and told security then under their breath they say snitch. I cant stand them thinking about me and talking behind my back? I feel axiety walking by them and going to school thinking there gonna talk about me!

KingOfAsia

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[QUOTE="AtlanticRock"]

[QUOTE="ff7fan2"]You told security that three guys were making fun of your physique? lmao suck it up and deal with it, dude.KingOfAsia

This.

I got bullied in elementary, made fun of in JHS, and by HS my backbone grew where I began to not give a _____

Alien isn't even that harsh of an insult... buy an ipod and leave it on while you travel between classes... if they physically come in contact with you, then you can get them in real trouble... SIMPLE.

yeah but the worse part is... they talk about me when im not around and in the caf saying things...... who knows what they say!

Dude, if it really bothers you so much just plant bugs on them and listen in to all the conversations. (Or just ignore them.)
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#45 CammiTac
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College as in university?

They are just losers. Ignore them. You can't let every little thing every person says get to you. Why do you even care?

I'm assuming you are an adult, and not like a child genius. Man up.

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#46 psn8214
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Man up and stand up for yourself! :P

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#47 Kimimaro_DS
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I'm skinny, people comment on it all the time. In spite of that, I get a ridiculous amount of girls - way more than the guys who went around saying ****.

Seriously, that's not the worst thing they can say to you.

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#48 weezyfb
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how did the convo with the security guard go?
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#49 cybrcatter
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The good thing about college is that if they are causing enough trouble, they can be kicked out. Make sure to report them to someone who can actually do something about the situation, like a dean and take comfort in knowing that that level of immaturity will not take them far in college. Amnesiac23
What sort of Universities do/did some of you OTers go to?

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#50 Huff
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Here's the deal. Whether you're cool or nerdy or skinny or fat, someone is always going to talk about you. People who made fun of people in high school don't just quit when they get to college... and they won't just quit when they graduate college either. You've just got to learn to deal with it or ignore it. I don't want to sound harsh, but if three people making fun of you bothers you that much... it's more of a you issue than a them issue.