Am I just paranoid?

I've been texting this girl for like a year but I had no interest in her. But during the middle of March she started to come on to me. One day I told her I was getting in the shower and she asked if she could join. I laughed at first, not knowing she was serious, she has a boyfriend after all,but she kept making sexual suggestions and then I decided to have sex with her. At that time we were just frinds with benifits. We had sex and she said she wanted to keep doing it. So we kept texting like it was going out of style for the last month and a half, and it was during that time I realized I liked her. I've kind of been dropping hints that I like her as more than just friends. She said that shereally liked talking to me. Even more than her boyfriend.I took as I like you like that too but I have a boyfriend right now. Everything was going good untill last wednesday when I got a text in the morningbeforeI got up, which isn't unusual, and she said her phone didn't charge and told me to have a nice day. That was almost a week ago and I haven't heard anything out of her since. I asked her friend about it and she said her phone is broken and she doesn't have any money on it. (She has like a trac phone or something) But I don't know if they are both lying to me and she doesn't want to talk to me anymore or is her phone really broken. Am I just paranoid? Also how long does it usually take to get a phone fixed or get a replacement?

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:shock: dude you're in a win situation even if you're not her boyfriend. :|Mr_Leonis

I've been texting this girl for likea yearbut I had no interest in her. But during the middle of March she started to come on to me. One day I told her I was getting in the shower and she asked if she could join. I laughed at first, not knowing she was serious, she has a boyfriend after all,but she kept making sexual suggestions and then I decided to have sex with her. At that time we were just frinds with benifits. We had sex and she said she wanted to keep doing it. So we kept texting like it was going out of style for the last month and a half, and it was during that time I realized I liked her. I've kind of been dropping hints that I like her as more than just friends. She said that she REALLY liked talking to me which I took as I like you like that too but I have a boyfriend right now. Everything was going good untill last wednesday when I got a text in the morningbeforeI got up, which isn't unusual, and she said her phone didn't charge and told me to have a nice day. That was almost a week ago and I haven't heard anything out of her since. I asked her friend about it and she said her phone is broken and she doesn't have any money on it. (She has like a trac phone or something) But I don't know if they are both lying to me and she doesn't want to talk to me anymore or is her phone really broken. Am I just paranoid? Also how long does it usually take to get a phone fixed or get a replacement?

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black_cat19

Am I just paranoid, am I just stoned?GeForce2187

Dude...you don't do that man...You just don't do that... :|

Dude...you don't do that man...You just don't do that... :|

Tim_Q

[QUOTE="GeForce2187"]Am I just paranoid, am I just stoned?Shi-ro-me

[QUOTE="Shi-ro-me"][QUOTE="GeForce2187"]Am I just paranoid, am I just stoned?blackngold29

Really? You want a relationship out of a girl who is cheating on her boyfriend with you? I hope you get cheated on someday. AAllxxjjnn

:? Girls like that are good at one thing: breaking hearts (or balls, if you're heartless). Be happy you're the "other guy". If you do become the "boyfriend", know that she'll eventually get another FwB (if she doesn't already have one lined up). She probably has daddy issues or was emotionally scarred at a young age. Meh. I'm sad for you.

Haha turns out I was just paranoid. I sent her a message on facebook and it turns out she's supposed to have it back thursday or friday. It was actually her boyfriend that replied. He was on her profile. I'm just glad I didn't write anything naughty. Hahahaha he has no idea.Red-Ravens

The peole of OT can travel through time and space to find out if her phone is broken...

:? Girls like that are good at one thing: breaking hearts (or balls, if you're heartless). Be happy you're the "other guy". If you do become the "boyfriend", know that she'll eventually get another FwB (if she doesn't already have one lined up). She probably has daddy issues or was emotionally scarred at a young age. Meh. I'm sad for you.

luamhtrad

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:? Girls like that are good at one thing: breaking hearts (or balls, if you're heartless). Be happy you're the "other guy". If you do become the "boyfriend", know that she'll eventually get another FwB (if she doesn't already have one lined up). She probably has daddy issues or was emotionally scarred at a young age. Meh. I'm sad for you.

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No. I've dated a lot of girls. Girls want to be loved. Sometimes they will do things for love that is out of character. If they are eventually hurt by this decision, they can confuse the love they initially sought with a physical medium only. It's a vicious cycle.

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[QUOTE="luamhtrad"]

:? Girls like that are good at one thing: breaking hearts (or balls, if you're heartless). Be happy you're the "other guy". If you do become the "boyfriend", know that she'll eventually get another FwB (if she doesn't already have one lined up). She probably has daddy issues or was emotionally scarred at a young age. Meh. I'm sad for you.

luamhtrad

No. I've dated a lot of girls. Girls want to be loved. Sometimes they will do things for love that is out of character. If they are eventually hurt by this decision, they can confuse the love they initially sought with a physical medium only. It's a vicious cycle.

"Her cheatin' heart..will turn on you..." (old country tune).

Dude- your gettin your pickle tickled, don't bother with anything farther!

I recall "American Pie"- Jimbo wakes up after flute girl raped him; "She USED me!.....Cool". Think about it, anyway. In this case I'm pretty sure your rapist isn't going to marry you, tho. Also- invest in some of those long latex balloon thingy's- she ain't in it for motherhood. (You hope...:?)