Another Girl Help Thread:

Hello fellow gamespotters.

well about a week ago my girlfriend randomly just became cold and indifferent. whenever we talk and text, she just kinda gives me short answers and doesnt seem even remotely excited about the things i tell her. no matter what nice things I say and do for her, it just doesnt cheer her up. when i ask her why she's down, she just says that she doesnt know, and that shes sorry for being so sad and indifferent. the closest thing to an explaination i got out of her is "i dont know what to do with myself, and i dont know what i want."

does anyone have any sort of explaination for whats going on? i really care about her and im hoping this is just some phase she is going through, and it will blow over, but im also afraid this might just get progressively worse. she also told me that it sometimes feels like we're just friends.

please help :(

either its her time of the month and being a sob

or she hates you op

Sorry but she is most likely cheating on you and doesn't know how to tell you.

She's trying to break up with you.Stavrogin_

[QUOTE="Stavrogin_"]She's trying to break up with you.taterfrickintot

[QUOTE="taterfrickintot"][QUOTE="Stavrogin_"]She's trying to break up with you.Stavrogin_

There may be another guy in the picture. Or it is all a figment of your imagination, and you are going crazy.

I'd say it is the latter. :P

There may be another guy in the picture. Or it is all a figment of your imagination, and you are going crazy.

I'd say it is the latter. :P

LORD_BLACKGULT

[QUOTE="taterfrickintot"][QUOTE="GD-1369211121"] How long have you two been together?GD-1369211121

well i will because even though we have been dating only that long, ive cared about her for much much longer, but she was a an complete **** when i started getting to know her. then he cheated on her, and she dumped him promptly for her, i was there for her, and then 2 months later we're dating

Depends on how long it's been going on for, she could just be down about other things but my take on it would be that she cares about you but she's bored with you.cheese_game619

[QUOTE="GD-1369211121"][QUOTE="taterfrickintot"] only about a month.taterfrickintot

well i will because even though we have been dating only that long, ive cared about her for much much longer, but she was a an complete **** when i started getting to know her. then he cheated on her, and she dumped him promptly for her, i was there for her, and then 2 months later we're dating

[QUOTE="taterfrickintot"]

[QUOTE="GD-1369211121"] Ah I see. Not very long, if she wants to break up it shouldn't be too painful for you.GD-1369211121

well i will because even though we have been dating only that long, ive cared about her for much much longer, but she was a an complete **** when i started getting to know her. then he cheated on her, and she dumped him promptly for her, i was there for her, and then 2 months later we're dating

kinda went through the same **** with my ex, heres what i came to realize, if you cant be happy with the relationship the way it is now, end it. You should never hold onto a relationship hoping that you guys will get better, or that shell change eventually and well get better.

And me and this girl started off golden, but it changed for the worse so i put a stop to it.

kinda went through the same **** with my ex, heres what i came to realize, if you cant be happy with the relationship the way it is now, end it. You should never hold onto a relationship hoping that you guys will get better, or that shell change eventually and well get better.

And me and this girl started off golden, but it changed for the worse so i put a stop to it.

Thessassin

[QUOTE="Thessassin"]

kinda went through the same **** with my ex, heres what i came to realize, if you cant be happy with the relationship the way it is now, end it. You should never hold onto a relationship hoping that you guys will get better, or that shell change eventually and well get better.

And me and this girl started off golden, but it changed for the worse so i put a stop to it.

taterfrickintot

she did something wrong that could hurt you.ZumaJones07

Sounds like you need to get her weak in the knees more often :wink:

Sounds like you need to get her weak in the knees more often :wink:

CoolSkAGuy

Sounds to me like it could be one of a few things , it may be something else but from what I'm going on one of these sound likely

Like you said, she's bored. Do you guys go out alot? or mainly stick to a routine? and it doesn't even have to involve going out, but when you hang out do you do the same stuff alot?

Just sit her down and tell her that it seems like you've been having some communication issues and you wanna talk it out, tell her if she's going through something you wannna be with her through it. Girls love it when their guy is supportive, don't over do it but let her know you've got her back.

You shouldn't spend too much money on a relationship is failing, so I think you ought to get both ofyou to just sit down some place and evaluate where you both stand on things. If things go postively or if she opens up or seems to give you some positive signs or says positive things that show she's interested then you take her to do something to shake things up.

Now then, on to the next phase. It's time tospice up your relation with something you guys never did before.Try new things something new and see if that brings a spark back into things.

Could be alot of things honestly, maybe she's going through some sort of self esteem complex and thinks you'll leave her? you mentioned she had a history of being cheated on. Maybe you guys are growing apart, maybe there is another guy. Hard to say TC, best of luck to both of you though 8)

Sounds to me like it could be one of a few things , it may be something else but from what I'm going on one of these sound likely

Like you said, she's bored. Do you guys go out alot? or mainly stick to a routine? and it doesn't even have to involve going out, but when you hang out do you do the same stuff alot?

Just sit her down and tell her that it seems like you've been having some communication issues and you wanna talk it out, tell her if she's going through something you wannna be with her through it. Girls love it when their guy is supportive, don't over do it but let her know you've got her back.

You shouldn't spend too much money on a relationship is failing, so I think you ought to get both ofyou to just sit down some place and evaluate where you both stand on things. If things go postively or if she opens up or seems to give you some positive signs or says positive things that show she's interested then you take her to do something to shake things up.

Now then, on to the next phase. It's time tospice up your relation with something you guys never did before.Try new things something new and see if that brings a spark back into things.

Could be alot of things honestly, maybe she's going through some sort of self esteem complex and thinks you'll leave her? you mentioned she had a history of being cheated on. Maybe you guys are growing apart, maybe there is another guy. Hard to say TC, best of luck to both of you though 8)

TheNewEraIcon

Thank you for your help i will make sure to try these things the next time i see her :) im glad to have a community of nice reasonable people who will take their time to help me with things like this! the internet is truely wonderful.