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#1 firestar571
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Hey off topic. Haven't visited these forums in a while but you guys tend to give pretty solid advice. Anyways, I met this girl over the summer, well I didn't really know her but my friend did, and so a few eeks ago, me, my friend, her, and her friend all met up and hung out. I got into a pretty deep conversation with her and thought she was cool and my type I guess. She had a boyfriend at the time though so I laid off. Anyways, she broke up with that guy later and me and her would talk on Facebook a lot. She said she won free tickets to a concert and knew I wanted to go she she told me I could come if I wanted. Basically, I went, we had a great time at the concert, and got pretty intimate, and by the end of the concert she was crazy about me. We made plans the next day to hang out and we did, we saw a movie and grabbed something to eat afterwards, and I made out with her at the movie so I was assuming that we were officially dating. I thought the date had gone great.

When I got home, I got a message from her that said she thought we were taking things too fast (it had only been two days). I agreed to take things slower, and a couple of weeks later we met up again and hung out in her neighborhood, went back to her house and watched a movie, but didn't do anything past holding hands. I know she wans to take things slow but this is way too slow for me.

Any advice on how I should approach this? I want to do more physically but she wants to take things slow..

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#2 Swanogt19
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I'd probably find out if she considers you two a couple first. If yes, take it slow for a month and then discuss how you want to do more physically with her.
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#3 themajormayor
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Woah she sounds crazy
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#4 Omni-Wrath
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Go to her house. There, pin her down and fvck her hard. Then say "See, we weren't going that far before".

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#5 chaplainDMK
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Hey off topic. Haven't visited these forums in a while but you guys tend to give pretty solid advice. Anyways, I met this girl over the summer, well I didn't really know her but my friend did, and so a few eeks ago, me, my friend, her, and her friend all met up and hung out. I got into a pretty deep conversation with her and thought she was cool and my type I guess. She had a boyfriend at the time though so I laid off. Anyways, she broke up with that guy later and me and her would talk on Facebook a lot. She said she won free tickets to a concert and knew I wanted to go she she told me I could come if I wanted. Basically, I went, we had a great time at the concert, and got pretty intimate, and by the end of the concert she was crazy about me. We made plans the next day to hang out and we did, we saw a movie and grabbed something to eat afterwards, and I made out with her at the movie so I was assuming that we were officially dating. I thought the date had gone great.

When I got home, I got a message from her that said she thought we were taking things too fast (it had only been two days). I agreed to take things slower, and a couple of weeks later we met up again and hung out in her neighborhood, went back to her house and watched a movie, but didn't do anything past holding hands. I know she wans to take things slow but this is way too slow for me.

Any advice on how I should approach this? I want to do more physically but she wants to take things slow..

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Well being a few days you probably are taking things a bit too fast. Just chill out. And by going too fast don't take it as if you are seeing each other too much, just lay off the kissing and extracurricular activity for a while. Mostly it's just a case of a girl or guy not wanting to get burned later on when certain details about their partner start comming up. Just hang out, take walks, go to the movies, stuff like that, she'll do things on her own accord when the time comes.
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Go to her house. There, pin her down and fvck her hard. Then say "See, we weren't going that far before".

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#7 Omni-Wrath
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[QUOTE="Omni-Wrath"]

Go to her house. There, pin her down and fvck her hard. Then say "See, we weren't going that far before".

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Sure, why not?

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#8 Nengo_Flow
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Bro you pretty much have the girl and she is into you, stop being a horn dog and just go with the flow a bit.

Shes right, you guys went kinda fast, so just chill and now really get to know this girl. This is the time you have to invest if you really like this girl. It cant be wild days with crazy romance all the time.

You want to do more physically cuz yous stupid. You can only get as far as a girl lets you. You arent even sure if you guys are a couple or actually dating (she could of done all that stuff with you cuz she wanted to get ove her BF for all we know), so calm that sh!td own.

There is no problem here, you are actually in a good position but cuz of your horny ass self, you are going to end up ruining things. You got the girl, or atleast shes into you, now work on making it a real relationship, so then you can bust all kind of nuts later on.

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#9 firestar571
Member since 2012 • 25 Posts

Haha Thanks guys, I guess I am being a bit of a horndog

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#10 johnd13
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Just take it slow TC. If she believes that it' s the right thing to do then you should respect her decision. Pushing thing just because you want more physically would be really selfish IMO. After all you don' t wanna risk losing her right?

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#11 Boddicker
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Default OT romance thread response:

She views you as worthless and weak.

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#12 BlindBluMonstah
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Woah she sounds crazy themajormayor
Holding hands before marriage, she's going way too fast for my liking. :p
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#13 michael_1234576
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write her a heart felt poem
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Comedy and romance movies estimate you will get poon on the third date. Or you will argue about your Egotistical or arrogant nature, spend time apart and you soon have a revelation and go on a journey to improve your self-being ultimately improving yourself and winning the girl over resulting in soft core sex and credits... possibly bloopers