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#1 dkdk999
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Man this year I swear to god so many women have been playing games with me. Flirting with me, leading me on but it's just a game their playing with my feelings. I've really never had women do this to me what is with this ? Do they like to do this with shy guys in particular ?
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#2 GC4ever
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just goes to show ya that women are no different from men

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#3 deactivated-5b78379493e12
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Man this year I swear to god so many women have been playing games with me. Flirting with me, leading me on but it's just a little game their playing with my feelings. I've really never had women do this to me what is with this ? Do they like to do this with shy guys in particular ?dkdk999

I had that a lot in high school, but girls that age don't know what they want so it's not a surprise. If it's happening in college, you need to find different girls to date.

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#4 dkdk999
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[QUOTE="dkdk999"]Man this year I swear to god so many women have been playing games with me. Flirting with me, leading me on but it's just a little game their playing with my feelings. I've really never had women do this to me what is with this ? Do they like to do this with shy guys in particular ?jimkabrhel

I had that a lot in high school, but girls that age don't know what they want so it's not a surprise. If it's happening in college, you need to find different girls to date.

nah i'm in high school. It's only really been happening since i've been a junior which is weird.
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Once like a month ago, I gave a hot woman my jacket because she was cold. I'll never wash that jacket again.

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#6 ZumaJones07
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they do it when they feel superior to you, man up!
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Not really. I'm usualy the only "messing" with the girls. :P I just talk to a girl, meet her friends, and keep going through each girls friends, until I find the one I like. :D , but you get hated allot by doing that. :|

I just lead 3 diffrent girls on, and just stoped talking to them completly once I met my curent Girlfriend. :P They was whores so, i enjoyed seeing them heartbroke. :twisted:

Edit: Inb4 someone calls me a liar, and "show off". -.-

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#8 KiIIyou
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they do it when they feel superior to you, man up!ZumaJones07
and out.
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#9 deactivated-5b1e62582e305
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Nope.

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#10 chilly-chill
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You sound like a b!tch.
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#11 dkdk999
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You sound like a b!tch.chilly-chill
eh how so ?
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#12 KiIIyou
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[QUOTE="chilly-chill"]You sound like a b!tch.dkdk999
eh how so ?

hit him!
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#13 mAArdman
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Not really. I'm usualy the only "messing" with the girls. :P I just talk to a girl, meet her friends, and keep going through each girls friends, until I find the one I like. :D , but you get hated allot by doing that. :|

I just lead 3 diffrent girls on, and just stoped talking to them completly once I met my curent Girlfriend. :P They was whores so, i enjoyed seeing them heartbroke. :twisted:

Edit: Inb4 someone calls me a liar, and "show off". -.-

codymcclain14


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#14 CHOASXIII
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I have had girls flirt with me before but I kind of ignore them usually.

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[QUOTE="codymcclain14"]

Not really. I'm usualy the only "messing" with the girls. :P I just talk to a girl, meet her friends, and keep going through each girls friends, until I find the one I like. :D , but you get hated allot by doing that. :|

I just lead 3 diffrent girls on, and just stoped talking to them completly once I met my curent Girlfriend. :P They was whores so, i enjoyed seeing them heartbroke. :twisted:

Edit: Inb4 someone calls me a liar, and "show off". -.-

mAArdman


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who's that?...
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#16 MistressMinako
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Some people are like that. But yet they forget not everyone else is like that. Just ignore it really and maybe they will take the hint. If not, just do what I do and ask if they like me and if not to cut the crap. Or flirt back, it won't hurt.
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#17 deactivated-5b78379493e12
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[QUOTE="mAArdman"]

[QUOTE="codymcclain14"]

Not really. I'm usualy the only "messing" with the girls. :P I just talk to a girl, meet her friends, and keep going through each girls friends, until I find the one I like. :D , but you get hated allot by doing that. :|

I just lead 3 diffrent girls on, and just stoped talking to them completly once I met my curent Girlfriend. :P They was whores so, i enjoyed seeing them heartbroke. :twisted:

Edit: Inb4 someone calls me a liar, and "show off". -.-

codymcclain14


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who's that?...

You don't recognize Bruce Wayne?

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[QUOTE="mAArdman"]

[QUOTE="codymcclain14"]

Not really. I'm usualy the only "messing" with the girls. :P I just talk to a girl, meet her friends, and keep going through each girls friends, until I find the one I like. :D , but you get hated allot by doing that. :|

I just lead 3 diffrent girls on, and just stoped talking to them completly once I met my curent Girlfriend. :P They was whores so, i enjoyed seeing them heartbroke. :twisted:

Edit: Inb4 someone calls me a liar, and "show off". -.-

codymcclain14


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who's that?...

How dare you not know Doc.

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Welcome to being a guy, get used to it.
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[QUOTE="codymcclain14"][QUOTE="mAArdman"]
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ristactionjakso

who's that?...

How dare you not know Doc.

Doc?...
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#21 megagene
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[QUOTE="ristactionjakso"]

[QUOTE="codymcclain14"] who's that?...codymcclain14

How dare you not know Doc.

Doc?...

Jim Morrison? Iceman?
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Men, I've been hearing the same bs from many cocky idiots that think just because a girl smiles at them, laughs at their jokes or touch on their arm then their flirting with them then they become furious when they're friendzoned... people must realize times have changed. Some traces that pointed a girl liked a guy a few years ago are not the same as of today. Girl of today are really friendly with guys, they even treat guys they see only as friends as they treat their boyfriends. Guys like OP must realize they arent leading him on, just that he's interpreting the signs as more then they actually are.

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#23 LordQuorthon
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Alots are awesome!

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#24 codymcclain14
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[QUOTE="codymcclain14"][QUOTE="ristactionjakso"]How dare you not know Doc.megagene
Doc?...

Jim Morrison? Iceman?

... I don't know him. :|
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[QUOTE="megagene"] Jim Morrison? Iceman?

Well, to be fair, he DID put on a pound or two...dozen.
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#26 ShadowMoses900
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I get women that stare at me a lot and then quickly look away. Usually I initiate the flirting but eh it varies. It also depends on the place I'm at, druing downtown business hours most people are just busy with their job stuff so I get less attention. Not because there is anything wrong with me, just they are more focused on their jobs and meetings and that stuff. Other times and places I get more attention.

Really it's all about confidence, the better you feel about yourself the more attention women will give you. Attraction is a bunch of different things, but confidence is the key.

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#27 chilly-chill
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[QUOTE="chilly-chill"]You sound like a b!tch.dkdk999
eh how so ?

OP sounds like something a distraught girl would say.

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#28 bobaban
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You sound like a b!tch.chilly-chill
Yeah
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#29 l4dak47
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i don't get messed up, but my social skills are less than desirable. Thus leading me to not, well, get any girls that i want. An issue that must be remedied soon.
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#30 Maor-Teo
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Yes. Back in the 8th grade :P
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#31 ninjastar
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Men, I've been hearing the same bs from many cocky idiots that think just because a girl smiles at them, laughs at their jokes or touch on their arm then their flirting with them then they become furious when they're friendzoned... people must realize times have changed. Some traces that pointed a girl liked a guy a few years ago are not the same as of today. Girl of today are really friendly with guys, they even treat guys they see only as friends as they treat their boyfriends. Guys like OP must realize they arent leading him on, just that he's interpreting the signs as more then they actually are.

4dr1el
Very true.
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#32 biggest_loser
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I hate it when they get precious about stuff like Facebook. They go on but expect people not to talk to them.
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#33 Maor-Teo
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[QUOTE="4dr1el"]

Men, I've been hearing the same bs from many cocky idiots that think just because a girl smiles at them, laughs at their jokes or touch on their arm then their flirting with them then they become furious when they're friendzoned... people must realize times have changed. Some traces that pointed a girl liked a guy a few years ago are not the same as of today. Girl of today are really friendly with guys, they even treat guys they see only as friends as they treat their boyfriends. Guys like OP must realize they arent leading him on, just that he's interpreting the signs as more then they actually are.

ninjastar
Very true.

Its very hard for Men. We have been programmed through a very long chain of evolution to think that even a smile means some sort of advance from a woman's part. It is only until recently that society has radically changed. So it will take some time for the changes to take place, if ever really.
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#34 Fightingfan
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I personally like it, I wish more women were "Frisky".
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#35 ninjastar
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[QUOTE="ninjastar"][QUOTE="4dr1el"]

Men, I've been hearing the same bs from many cocky idiots that think just because a girl smiles at them, laughs at their jokes or touch on their arm then their flirting with them then they become furious when they're friendzoned... people must realize times have changed. Some traces that pointed a girl liked a guy a few years ago are not the same as of today. Girl of today are really friendly with guys, they even treat guys they see only as friends as they treat their boyfriends. Guys like OP must realize they arent leading him on, just that he's interpreting the signs as more then they actually are.

Maor-Teo

Very true.

Its very hard for Men. We have been programmed through a very long chain of evolution to think that even a smile means some sort of advance from a woman's part. It is only until recently that society has radically changed. So it will take some time for the changes to take place, if ever really.

Well I don't think all girls know that. I had a friend who thought I liked him and really I was just treating him how I treat all my friends. I probably flirt more with my bff's then I did with him so I was very confused.

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i dont really. im good at realizing what peoples intentions are pretty fast, so i know when to get out
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Once like a month ago, I gave a hot woman my jacket because she was cold. I'll never wash that jacket again.

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well that was random
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#38 deactivated-5b1e62582e305
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Men, I've been hearing the same bs from many cocky idiots that think just because a girl smiles at them, laughs at their jokes or touch on their arm then their flirting with them then they become furious when they're friendzoned... people must realize times have changed. Some traces that pointed a girl liked a guy a few years ago are not the same as of today. Girl of today are really friendly with guys, they even treat guys they see only as friends as they treat their boyfriends. Guys like OP must realize they arent leading him on, just that he's interpreting the signs as more then they actually are.

4dr1el

yup

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#39 KSEfAN420
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Why post this? If there messing with you then they want the cock haha.. Just go and get ur duck yucked..
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#40 dkdk999
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Men, I've been hearing the same bs from many cocky idiots that think just because a girl smiles at them, laughs at their jokes or touch on their arm then their flirting with them then they become furious when they're friendzoned... people must realize times have changed. Some traces that pointed a girl liked a guy a few years ago are not the same as of today. Girl of today are really friendly with guys, they even treat guys they see only as friends as they treat their boyfriends. Guys like OP must realize they arent leading him on, just that he's interpreting the signs as more then they actually are.

4dr1el
lol it's hard to explain things on the internet because people have so many misconceptions. I realize girls smile and touch guys alot. That's not what i'm talking about.
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NOt me man. Woman throw themselves at my feet and rub fine oils on me.

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Naww I'm a loser
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Not really. I'm usualy the only "messing" with the girls. :P I just talk to a girl, meet her friends, and keep going through each girls friends, until I find the one I like. :D , but you get hated allot by doing that. :|

I just lead 3 diffrent girls on, and just stoped talking to them completly once I met my curent Girlfriend. :P They was whores so, i enjoyed seeing them heartbroke. :twisted:

Edit: Inb4 someone calls me a liar, and "show off". -.-

codymcclain14

You lying show off bltch!

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NOt me man. Woman throw themselves at my feet and rub fine oils on me.

sonicare

Do they rub it...

on your feet?

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#45 codymcclain14
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[QUOTE="codymcclain14"]

Not really. I'm usualy the only "messing" with the girls. :P I just talk to a girl, meet her friends, and keep going through each girls friends, until I find the one I like. :D , but you get hated allot by doing that. :|

I just lead 3 diffrent girls on, and just stoped talking to them completly once I met my curent Girlfriend. :P They was whores so, i enjoyed seeing them heartbroke. :twisted:

Edit: Inb4 someone calls me a liar, and "show off". -.-

Necrifer

You lying show off bltch!

Called it.
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Never been messed with by a woman as far as I know -- I have what I consider to be a worse problem, however. I can get girls left and right but I'm too scared to pursue a relationship with any of them out of fear of rejection because, past the point of flirtation, I'm actually a really ****ing boring guy. I'd like to think I'm nice, but that doesn't cut it. I'm not exciting in the least, so despite being blessed with semi-good looks, I don't bother. In fact, it's often me friendzoning females rather than the other way around, and it's all because I've been hurt and am now too much of a ***** to get out there and try again. I'm a flirtationship whore and nothing more.

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Never been messed with by a woman as far as I know -- I have what I consider to be a worse problem, however. I can get girls left and right but I'm too scared to pursue a relationship with any of them out of fear of rejection because, past the point of flirtation, I'm actually a really ****ing boring guy. I'd like to think I'm nice, but that doesn't cut it. I'm not exciting in the least, so despite being blessed with semi-good looks, I don't bother. In fact, it's often me friendzoning females rather than the other way around, and it's all because I've been hurt and am now too much of a ***** to get out there and try again. I'm a flirtationship whore and nothing more.

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get some confedence man.
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Not really. I'm usualy the only "messing" with the girls. :P I just talk to a girl, meet her friends, and keep going through each girls friends, until I find the one I like. :D , but you get hated allot by doing that. :|

I just lead 3 diffrent girls on, and just stoped talking to them completly once I met my curent Girlfriend. :P They was whores so, i enjoyed seeing them heartbroke. :twisted:

Edit: Inb4 someone calls me a liar, and "show off". -.-

codymcclain14
You're so f*cking cool man! I wish I could be as cool as you! Obviously sarcasm, I hate people that try to brag about stupid stuff.
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#49 chilly-chill
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[QUOTE="codymcclain14"]

Not really. I'm usualy the only "messing" with the girls. :P I just talk to a girl, meet her friends, and keep going through each girls friends, until I find the one I like. :D , but you get hated allot by doing that. :|

I just lead 3 diffrent girls on, and just stoped talking to them completly once I met my curent Girlfriend. :P They was whores so, i enjoyed seeing them heartbroke. :twisted:

Edit: Inb4 someone calls me a liar, and "show off". -.-

Toxic-Seahorse

You're so f*cking cool man! I wish I could be as cool as you! Obviously sarcasm, I hate people that try to brag about stupid stuff.

I don't buy it either, I've seen this kids pic and he's nothing special (no offence Cody).

Unless they were hurt sacks ofc..

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#50 codymcclain14
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[QUOTE="codymcclain14"]

Not really. I'm usualy the only "messing" with the girls. :P I just talk to a girl, meet her friends, and keep going through each girls friends, until I find the one I like. :D , but you get hated allot by doing that. :|

I just lead 3 diffrent girls on, and just stoped talking to them completly once I met my curent Girlfriend. :P They was whores so, i enjoyed seeing them heartbroke. :twisted:

Edit: Inb4 someone calls me a liar, and "show off". -.-

Toxic-Seahorse
You're so f*cking cool man! I wish I could be as cool as you! Obviously sarcasm, I hate people that try to brag about stupid stuff.

I'm not braging. I didn't mean it to come off as braging, though I figured someone would excuse me of it. Trust me, I hate people who brag too. annoying as f*ck. And what I said wasn't anything to brag about, it jsut makes you look like a douche, and eventually every girl around hates you.