Anyone know a good way to stop being shy, and stutter when you are...? xD

Seriously? When I'm at school ,and we have classes with the ones in the classroom next door. I'm sitting there hoping the teacher does'nt pick me to read...It's SO annoying:?

Practice.

Well you should never be shy... Just be yourself and don't care what people think of you. Unless you're a jerk, which I'm sure you're not.

As for the stutter, you may need some kind of therapy.

Well you should never be shy... Just be yourself and don't care what people think of you. Unless you're a jerk, which I'm sure you're not.

As for the stutter, you may need some kind of therapy.

bangell99

But that's the thing. I only stutter the times I have bad self asteem, and are shy...Other than that I Talk normal

This might help

no i'm kidding...I have the same problem. mainly with reading or speaking in front of people at school but other than that I'm fine. Just be open to meeting people and don't think the worst is going to happen

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Well you should never be shy... Just be yourself and don't care what people think of you. Unless you're a jerk, which I'm sure you're not.

As for the stutter, you may need some kind of therapy.

Silla95

But that's the thing. I only stutter the times I have bad self asteem, and are shy...Other than that I Talk normal

Ah, well then you only need to solve the issue of your confidence and you'll kill 2 birds with 1 stone. ;)

Get to know your classmates. Whether it's just saying good morning or whatever, just try to socialise with everyone and they'll like you. Just be confident with who you are.

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[QUOTE="bangell99"]

Well you should never be shy... Just be yourself and don't care what people think of you. Unless you're a jerk, which I'm sure you're not.

As for the stutter, you may need some kind of therapy.

bangell99

But that's the thing. I only stutter the times I have bad self asteem, and are shy...Other than that I Talk normal

Ah, well then you only need to solve the issue of your confidence and you'll kill 2 birds with 1 stone. ;)

Get to know your classmates. Whether it's just saying good morning or whatever, just try to socialise with everyone and they'll like you. Just be confident with who you are.

Thanks, I'll try : )

Take a deep breath before opening your mouth to speak and know the end of your sentence before you speak the beginning of it :)xaos

I have to try that, thanks:)

i would strap a shock collar around ur neck, every time i hear you stutter, "ZAP"..its tough love, man tough love

All it takes is practice. Its hard to actually learn to be comfortable around people, but you just have to be confident and be yourself.

As for the stutter, as someone else suggested, you may have to get some sort of therapy or take a speech class to fix it.

Try being more sociable, take baby stops lol , I occasinally stutter words but I just take deep breaths and try talk slow when I am in those ssituations.

Practice (socializing). I'm still somewhat shy, but nowhere as bad as say 5 years ago. There's no simple cure.MrPraline

Drink before school and you will socialize like you have never done before.

This might help

no i'm kidding...I have the same problem. mainly with reading or speaking in front of people at school but other than that I'm fine. Just be open to meeting people and don't think the worst is going to happen

Wiiingssbb

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This might help

no i'm kidding...I have the same problem. mainly with reading or speaking in front of people at school but other than that I'm fine. Just be open to meeting people and don't think the worst is going to happen

hedden93

get drunk..alcohol makes you brave

I have a similar problem, but a little bit different. I can speak in front of a thousand people (and have) but I can't carry on a conversation around people unless I know them REALLY well. I usually get tongue-tied or give up altogether and just nod along with what they say. Don't really know what the solution to that is.

Practice is the obvious simple solution but if you have full blown SAD then cognitive behavioural therapy and some anti depressants can help. I recommend watching this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4truuD_xMP0&eurl=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.youtube.com%2Fuser%2FItsAComment&feature=player_profilepage

I have a similar problem, but a little bit different. I can speak in front of a thousand people (and have) but I can't carry on a conversation around people unless I know them REALLY well. I usually get tongue-tied or give up altogether and just nod along with what they say. Don't really know what the solution to that is.

D_Battery

Seriously? When I'm at school ,and we have classes with the ones in the classroom next door. I'm sitting there hoping the teacher does'nt pick me to read...It's SO annoying:?

Silla95

Cry all the time than you will nevr have to talk.