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#1 GUNpoint_
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in your crowd of friends, are you the one that says ''we're doing this, NOW'', or are you the one that agrees?

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#2 sandroDX
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Neither.
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#3 wemhim
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I don't have any friends. Nor do I want any.
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#4 james28893
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Depends.
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#5 LexLas
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I lead when opportunity knocks ! Leader i am.
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#6 uas-2001
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I can be both :D
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#7 VacantPsalm
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I prefer to be one under the leader so I have some control but none of the blame.:P Really, I'm usually in the background. But if I need to take charge then I will.
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#8 Video_Game_King
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I'm neither, I'm a dissenter.
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#9 Utd4lyf
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I tend to be a lone wolf.
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#10 Jak-25
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I am a follower, but only if I choose to follow.
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#11 kitty  Moderator
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I'm niether, I'm usually the guy who waits around for the others.

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#12 PlasmaBeam44
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Both, it depends on were we are and what the situation is.
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#13 WSGRandomPerson
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I am both.
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#14 marterikster
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I only have 1 friend i listen to..sometimes.

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#15 Spartan_385
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I am the unofficial leader of my friends.
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#16 22Toothpicks
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Leader. I am far too opinionated to follow anyone.
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#17 Whight_Knight
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Sometimes ..
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#18 Dreams-Visions
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everyone is a leader. everyone is a follower.

it's just a matter of what the circumstances are.

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#19 xSIZEMATTER
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I'm a leadfollower
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#20 Dreams-Visions
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seriously. nobody leads 100% of the time. nobody follows 100% of the time. everyone is a mix of both.
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#21 bloody1f4knight
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I want to consider myself as a leader but yeah, it all depends on the situation.
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#22 PullTheTricker
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I don't have any friends. Nor do I want any.wemhim

Yeh who needs friends! I can socialize with the whole youtube community in teh interwebz :P

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#23 clyde46
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depends.
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#24 deactivated-5e97585ea928c
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I'm neither. I'm the advisor, I'm behind the scene pulling the strings.
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#25 ineedanap
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Leader. I am far too opinionated to follow anyone.22Toothpicks

^^ This describes me perfectly ^^

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#26 m0zart
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It depends on the circumstances. I can be a leader or a follower. Nobody is or can be a leader all the time.

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#27 Dreams-Visions
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[QUOTE="22Toothpicks"]Leader. I am far too opinionated to follow anyone.ineedanap

^^ This describes me perfectly ^^

If you can't follow, you can't lead.

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#28 22Toothpicks
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[QUOTE="22Toothpicks"]Leader. I am far too opinionated to follow anyone.ineedanap

^^ This describes me perfectly ^^



Yet you just followed me witht that response. >.>
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#29 comp_atkins
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both
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#30 g4ronin
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I'll be the leader if everyone else is.
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#31 Video_Game_King
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[QUOTE="ineedanap"]

[QUOTE="22Toothpicks"]Leader. I am far too opinionated to follow anyone.Dreams-Visions

^^ This describes me perfectly ^^

If you can't follow, you can't lead.

If you follow, you can't lead. Usually those who lead don't follow.

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#32 stevenscott14
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I don't really know. I guess I'm a follower, to be honest.
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#33 markebici
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niether, when i have out with my friends we all come up with ideas together, and i perfer to work by myself.

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#34 Dreams-Visions
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[QUOTE="Dreams-Visions"][QUOTE="ineedanap"]

[QUOTE="22Toothpicks"]Leader. I am far too opinionated to follow anyone.Video_Game_King

^^ This describes me perfectly ^^

If you can't follow, you can't lead.

If you follow, you can't lead. Usually those who lead don't follow.

Incorrect. Take it from a man who was President of my Universities 3 largest student-run organizations, on the executive board of a 4th and on the National board of the largest student-run organization in teh world (27,000+ members):

If you can't follow, you can't lead.

It's not something I'm debating. It's an absolute fact. Read a book on leadership if it doesn't make perfect sense to you right now. I've done my lecturing in front of 8,000. I know what I'm talking about. Trust me.

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#35 deactivated-57d773aa56272
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I'm a loner these days but I put follower.
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#36 foxhound_fox
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Neither. I do tend to hold a submissive position in social discourses but I am not afraid of speaking up if I want to be heard.
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#37 linkthewindow
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I tend to go my own way.
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#38 killer_is_me
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Depends on what color guitar pick I have with me.
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#39 Tykain
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I'm more of the leader type, but it's not like i tell people "we're doing this, NOW !" :P
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#40 Tykain
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[QUOTE="ineedanap"]

[QUOTE="22Toothpicks"]Leader. I am far too opinionated to follow anyone.Dreams-Visions

^^ This describes me perfectly ^^

If you can't follow, you can't lead.

Very true.