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#1 -Renegade
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I'm currently in highschool and right now i'm much closer to girls. I do not have a girlfriend but talking with guys to me is harder then taking to girls because majority of guys at my school are into sports or different interest and I can't seem to connect with any of them  so I only have 3 guys I talk to at my school while I talk to over 10 girls on a daily basis. How about you? 

dcelw540

i have bad social anxiety so it's hard for me to talk to anyone but i would say it is easier for me to talk to guys for the most part. i wish i had your "problem" were it was easier for me to talk to girls instead of guys.

sometimes it just depends on the person though. some people are just easy to talk to.

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#2 ionusX
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males i have had minimal exposure to girls and they have either been total snobs or were complete jerks to me. i have met VERY few exceptions.

The_Lipscomb

I find it much easier to talk to males. Femals typically talk about things that involve emotions.. Which I really don't have an interest in. but like you said, there's the exceptions.

i find emotions are amazing thats why im not an alpha male :P i need some big toughie to watch out for me

thats why i like this song so much.. its positively ME

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#3 Gaming-Planet
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It's pretty even with me. A lot of the girls I hung out with were sort of tomboyish.

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#4 dcelw540
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I'm currently in highschool and right now i'm much closer to girls. I do not have a girlfriend but talking with guys to me is harder then taking to girls because majority of guys at my school are into sports or different interest and I can't seem to connect with any of them  so I only have 3 guys I talk to at my school while I talk to over 10 girls on a daily basis. How about you? 

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#5 Fightingfan
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Senior year I had more lady friends then male friends.
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#6 IdioticIcarus
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This is hard to answer when you avoid all people.
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#7 harashawn
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I seem to "open up" more and talk about more personal sorts of things with my female friends than with my male friends; but tend to spend more time with my male friends.
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#9 dcelw540
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[QUOTE="dcelw540"]

I'm currently in highschool and right now i'm much closer to girls. I do not have a girlfriend but talking with guys to me is harder then taking to girls because majority of guys at my school are into sports or different interest and I can't seem to connect with any of them  so I only have 3 guys I talk to at my school while I talk to over 10 girls on a daily basis. How about you? 

-Renegade

i have bad social anxiety so it's hard for me to talk to anyone but i would say it is easier for me to talk to guys for the most part. i wish i had your "problem" were it was easier for me to talk to girls instead of guys.

sometimes it just depends on the person though. some people are just easy to talk to.

That's somewhat like me, see i'm very emotional from experiences from the past and i just overreact a lot so when guys try and joke around with me I don't find it funny or amusing so many guys just don't talk to me. While girls talk to me they always talk to me about their problems and boyfriends and it gets tiring since I really have no guy friends just to small talk. 

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#10 IdioticIcarus
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I compared the number of Facebook friends I had of each gender (that weren't family members), and girls outnumber guys by only 5, but I don't think that really answers the question.
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#11 chaoscougar1
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I think I get along better with girls But my best mate has always been a bloke
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#12 Wolfetan
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I seem to "open up" more and talk about more personal sorts of things with my female friends than with my male friends; but tend to spend more time with my male friends.harashawn
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#13 DharmaMember77
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Girls

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#14 hippiesanta
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Groups of girls ... no .... they got bad mouth
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#15 ghoklebutter
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I get along with both pretty well.
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#16 The_Lipscomb
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Male. I haven't even spoken to a female that's not family in the longest time.

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#17 Jackboot343
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Cooties! :o

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#18 wis3boi
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pretty even split between the two

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#19 Allicrombie
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boys give me the creeps >.>
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#20 ionusX
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males i have had minimal exposure to girls and they have either been total snobs or were complete jerks to me. i have met VERY few exceptions.

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males i have had minimal exposure to girls and they have either been total snobs or were complete jerks to me. i have met VERY few exceptions.

ionusX
I find it much easier to talk to males. Femals typically talk about things that involve emotions.. Which I really don't have an interest in. but like you said, there's the exceptions.
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[QUOTE="The_Lipscomb"][QUOTE="ionusX"]

males i have had minimal exposure to girls and they have either been total snobs or were complete jerks to me. i have met VERY few exceptions.

ionusX

I find it much easier to talk to males. Femals typically talk about things that involve emotions.. Which I really don't have an interest in. but like you said, there's the exceptions.

i find emotions are amazing thats why im not an alpha male :P i need some big toughie to watch out for me

I'm not emotional at all lol.
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#23 hippiesanta
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Guys who usually hang out with girls are Julie Andrew fan.... because they can share their emotions, pink cloth and talk about micheal j. fox or justin beiber
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#24 Pffrbt
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Most of my friends are female although they kind of act like guys so I don't know.

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#25 CoolSkAGuy
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Chicks dig my sexiness lol
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#26 SaudiFury
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I seem to "open up" more and talk about more personal sorts of things with my female friends than with my male friends; but tend to spend more time with my male friends.harashawn
this for the most part. and on my facebook apart from family members, about only 35% of my friends are female, but I talk to way way more of my female friends, then i do with the vast majority of my male friends. I mean on my chat list where it automatically keeps the ones you talk to the most on - so it's easy to click and chat with. it's 6 female friends, and 4 male friends. the rest are folks i talk to on the off chance. Rest are friends that i knew only in college or only in a particular setting but to be absolutely honest, MOST of the friends i have - as is not surprising - are utilitarian friends. friends where we were mutually benefiting from something at one time. be it school or work.
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#27 Legolas_Katarn
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I almost always prefer being around and talking to women.
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#28 johnd13
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Guys. I' m not close with any girl. :(

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#29 The_Lipscomb
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Guys. I' m not close with any girl. :(

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Consider yourself lucky.
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#31 quadraleap
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Its generally the individual not the gender for me. 

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#32 quadraleap
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Chicks dig my sexiness lolCoolSkAGuy
OMG Im i guy and even Im digging it!
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#33 johnd13
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[QUOTE="johnd13"]

Guys. I' m not close with any girl. :(

The_Lipscomb

Consider yourself lucky.

But girls have something guys can' t provide me with. :P

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#34 quadraleap
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boys give me the creeps >.>Allicrombie
If they remind me of my father I get the creeps too.
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[QUOTE="The_Lipscomb"][QUOTE="johnd13"]

Guys. I' m not close with any girl. :(

johnd13

Consider yourself lucky.

But girls have something guys can' t provide me with. :P

That's why you hook up lol.
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#36 Canuck3000
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[QUOTE="The_Lipscomb"][QUOTE="johnd13"]

Guys. I' m not close with any girl. :(

johnd13

Consider yourself lucky.

But girls have something guys can' t provide me with. :P

Don't need to be close with them for that
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#37 johnd13
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[QUOTE="johnd13"]

[QUOTE="The_Lipscomb"] Consider yourself lucky.The_Lipscomb

But girls have something guys can' t provide me with. :P

That's why you hook up lol.

tbh I' d prefer to be in a relationship. Having never had a girlfriend it' s something I want to try. Now whether it' ll turn into something good for me, is an entirely different story.

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#38 The_Lipscomb
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[QUOTE="The_Lipscomb"][QUOTE="johnd13"]

But girls have something guys can' t provide me with. :P

johnd13

That's why you hook up lol.

tbh I' d prefer to be in a relationship. Having never had a girlfriend it' s something I want to try. Now whether it' ll turn into something good for me, is an entirely different story.

Good luck. Just don't ever give up your freedom.
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#39 johnd13
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[QUOTE="johnd13"]

[QUOTE="The_Lipscomb"] That's why you hook up lol.The_Lipscomb

tbh I' d prefer to be in a relationship. Having never had a girlfriend it' s something I want to try. Now whether it' ll turn into something good for me, is an entirely different story.

Good luck. Just don't ever give up your freedom.

lol thanks. I do like my freedom and independency. Just need to find the right balance.

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#40 iskeethunters
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I'm closer to dudes but I get along very well with girls too. Except the ones I like. Then my brain decides to go into standby.
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#41 The_Lipscomb
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[QUOTE="The_Lipscomb"][QUOTE="johnd13"]

tbh I' d prefer to be in a relationship. Having never had a girlfriend it' s something I want to try. Now whether it' ll turn into something good for me, is an entirely different story.

johnd13

Good luck. Just don't ever give up your freedom.

lol thanks. I do like my freedom and independency. Just need to find the right balance.

Exactly. If you find a girl who really rescpects your goals, and doesn't interfere, let's you strive the way you want in life, and supports you all the way. Then you found a very good one.
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#42 johnd13
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[QUOTE="johnd13"]

[QUOTE="The_Lipscomb"] Good luck. Just don't ever give up your freedom.The_Lipscomb

lol thanks. I do like my freedom and independency. Just need to find the right balance.

Exactly. If you find a girl who really rescpects your goals, and doesn't interfere, let's you strive the way you want in life, and supports you all the way. Then you found a very good one.

I take it you' ve been unlucky in this?

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#43 sapphire54
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dcelw540, throughout school and university and even now my girlfriend and I both find it easier talking to the opposite sex. It just comes easier to us both-and we enjoy it more.
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#44 The_Lipscomb
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[QUOTE="The_Lipscomb"][QUOTE="johnd13"]

lol thanks. I do like my freedom and independency. Just need to find the right balance.

johnd13

Exactly. If you find a girl who really rescpects your goals, and doesn't interfere, let's you strive the way you want in life, and supports you all the way. Then you found a very good one.

I take it you' ve been unlucky in this?

No, I'm just not interested in relationships anymore. Just not the lifestyle for me.
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#45 johnd13
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[QUOTE="johnd13"]

[QUOTE="The_Lipscomb"] Exactly. If you find a girl who really rescpects your goals, and doesn't interfere, let's you strive the way you want in life, and supports you all the way. Then you found a very good one.The_Lipscomb

I take it you' ve been unlucky in this?

No, I'm just not interested in relationships anymore. Just not the lifestyle for me.

Well then more free girls for the rest of us. :P

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[QUOTE="The_Lipscomb"][QUOTE="johnd13"]

I take it you' ve been unlucky in this?

johnd13

No, I'm just not interested in relationships anymore. Just not the lifestyle for me.

Well then more free girls for the rest of us. :P

I guess so lol. I just have fun with girls now. Though I'm nowhere near as active as I was when I was 17-19. Really focused on my goals at the moment.
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#47 chaplainDMK
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I'm currently in highschool and right now i'm much closer to girls. I do not have a girlfriend but talking with guys to me is harder then taking to girls because majority of guys at my school are into sports or different interest and I can't seem to connect with any of them  so I only have 3 guys I talk to at my school while I talk to over 10 girls on a daily basis. How about you? 

dcelw540
Overall I'd say I'm more intimate with girls while I generally hang out with guys more. Also I have a girlfriend which means I'm automatically closest to girls.
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#48 Ronstera
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I have about 5 guy friends for every 1 girl friend..
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#49 PiscesChick93
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I'd say I get on with guys and girls equally well.

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#50 TheWalkingGhost
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Both suck. I keep to myself, plotting. I trust nobody.