Are you easily influenced?

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#1 stevoqwerty
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Well, are you? I'm extremely vulnerable to people's opinions, thus making me easily influenced. I hated it, it's one of my main weakness, along with my histrionic personality disorder. I tend to get paranoid over what people's judgement/opinions that I don't agree with, and I often believe in anything people said, the cycle continues..

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#2 chaoscougar1
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Nope, I have learned to care little what other people think of me (bar some friends and family). I tend to be quite a nice person in RL and thus don't get criticised that often. When I am, I don't mind
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#3 ace-of-spades93
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I like to think i'm not :)

But others may disagree :D

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#4 mlbslugger86
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Not At All, i'm stubborn as hell, if i stick to an opinion of something i stick to it, like one of my female friends wanted me to go see Twighlight. she tried batting her lashes at me and it didn't work:P

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#5 Rekunta
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Sometimes. I constantly have to remind myself not to take everything people say as fact, because in reality it's probably mostly all bull****. But I lack confidence and suffer from low-self esteem, and also try to keep my mind open to other possibilities so I humor everything to a fault. I'm not educated past highschool either (aside from a few college courses, which I've forgotten), so I think that has something to do with it as well.

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#6 Zaibach
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Seeing how the world's most popular brand is apple, yeah, most people are easily influenced, they just dont know it.

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#7 dracula_16
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Nope-- quite the opposite. My family members wouldn't hesitate to tell you how stubborn I am. I like to hear all sides of a story and I like to see evidence before deciding to say/do something.

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#8 BiancaDK
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yes, everyone is, it is a human trait

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#9 deactivated-5d1cb98d088e5
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No. I'm pretty stubborn.

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#10 VanDammFan
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NO..growing up and even through my adult life Ive been around people doing drugs,alcohol,sleeping around,ect..I have yet to follow their lead. Going to be 40 soon and have never done a single drug, Ive only been with one woman,my wife of almost 19 years and plan to keep it this way. I dance to the beat of my own drum.

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#11 Half-Way
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The first step is realising that you may be easily influenced. The second step is to rethink everything that has a meaning to you. And the third is to listen/learn about different views on the matter.

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#12 -Vulpix-
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I think I'm not easly influenced anyway.

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#13 deactivated-6127ced9bcba0
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No, but there are some people who can make me understand their stances better than others.

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#14 KiIIyou
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Yes mam
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#15 DarthSatan
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Not at all. I usually am the one doing the influencing.

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#16 xxKai
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I see a huge difference between being easily influenced and easily distracted, which I am...

On the other hand, almost everyone I know calls me gullible :( it's a curse

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#17 marcogamer07
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I don't get easily influenced by other people's opinions in the sense that if the majority of people around me disagree with something I feel strongly about, I'll change my opinion to please them. However, I do suffer from low confidence and low self-esteem and it's rather hard for me to disregard something as an opinion rather than a fact. If somebody tells me that a band sucks, for example, I listen to the band and I can see why the person thinks they suck, and they ruin that impression of the band for me.

That's just my two cents.

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#18 TehFuneral
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I am very easily influenced, in fact, just few words can influence me greatly both in a good way or a bad way. I can rarely take a stance and be stubborn.

yes, everyone is, it is a human trait

BiancaDK

You are the last person that i can think of who can get easily influenced.

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#19 deactivated-6016f2513d412
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We all are to some extent, even if only a little, but I am definitely not remarkably easily influenced. I suppose in trivial everyday conversations which I don't care about too much, I find myself just agreeing with whatever people say because it's much easier than having a disagreement or dealing with strange tension, but with things which matter to me, I am not easily influenced.
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#20 CHOASXIII
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I don't care what people think of me and I am not going to go and do something just because someone pushes it on me.

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#21 Allicrombie
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Not really. I tend to ignore trends and fads.
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#22 AmazonTreeBoa
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Was until I went to jail. Decided from that moment forward, I would be a leader, not a follower when it came to my friends.

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#23 stevoqwerty
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Was until I went to jail. Decided from that moment forward, I would be a leader, not a follower when it came to my friends.

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Jail? What did you do?

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#24 Kurezan
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Yeah. It's probably a bad trait of mine, but I don't really mind it.

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#25 Aljibe
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Yes... and I hate it. Luckily, less and less.
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#26 ernie1989
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Not really. I have the tendency to questions things even if they come from people I get along with quite well.

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#27 metallica_fan42
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When I'm under the influence, yes.
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#28 EggVillain
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I wouldn't think myself to be easily influenced. What with my ever learning studying Psychology and all, it gets harder to convince me of Sh%t without good reasoning.

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#29 stevoqwerty
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I wouldn't think myself to be easily influenced. What with my ever learning studying Psychology and all, it gets harder to convince me of Sh%t without good reasoning.

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That's it, I'm gonna study psychology.

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#30 iloverikku11
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I wasn't born to follow, or swallow anyones s***.

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#31 GOGOGOGURT
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About some things I am, others not so much.

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#32 magnax1
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Considering this is Gamespot OT section, the answers should be 99.999% yes.

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#33 hyrueprince11
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I kind of have the opposite problem

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#34 deactivated-5a79221380856
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I got talked into going to a strip club. I think I am. However, I've been pure about drugs, alcohol, and sex in general.
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#35 HexedPelican
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Nope I am not a follower.
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#36 PsychoLemons
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Nope.Unless you are my older brother.

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#37 BiancaDK
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You are the last person that i can think of who can get easily influenced.

TehFuneral

just goes to show how little you get to know other people around here. (:

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#38 surrealnumber5
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yes, everyone is, it is a human trait

BiancaDK

i was going to make an emphatic objection, but for some reason now i agree, weird?

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#39 BiancaDK
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[QUOTE="BiancaDK"]

yes, everyone is, it is a human trait

surrealnumber5

i was going to make an emphatic objection, but for some reason now i agree, weird?

not weird, simply a technique i need to implement into every argument somehow ;0

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#40 surrealnumber5
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[QUOTE="surrealnumber5"]

[QUOTE="BiancaDK"]

yes, everyone is, it is a human trait

BiancaDK

i was going to make an emphatic objection, but for some reason now i agree, weird?

not weird, simply a technique i need to implement into every argument somehow ;0

just make every argument trivial and with me, i tend to bend to the whims of women in inconsequential matters. maybe subconsciously i hope to be treated in kind. might be why my relationships always last so damn long.

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#41 BiancaDK
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just make every argument trivial and with me, i tend to bend to the whims of women in inconsequential matters. maybe subconsciously i hope to be treated in kind. might be why my relationships always last so damn long.surrealnumber5

every argument i make is de facto trivial and inconsequential, so i have that covered

i'm sorry about the unfavourable state of your relationships, you will have no such troubles with me i assure you (unless you wanna /shyyy)

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#42 Crimsader
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No, not at all.
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#43 Sandulf29
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not at all. i don't give a damn for what other people think about me