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#1 Blin220
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curious, i've got a question. Have you ever liked someone who was straight? Or just liked someone who you werent sure about whether they were straight or not and wanted them to be bi/gay? Did you ever tell them you liked them? What did they say? What did you tell them?

I really like someone who i think is straight, and probably is. But he does things that make me wonder if he is or not. And i REALLY like him but i'm too afraid to ask him about it, or tell him how i feel. Does someone who gives you a ride home on a mini motorcycle, sings hakuna matata (i know right? lol), acts EXTREMELY shy, gives me his number for no reason at all and just overall acts DIFFERENTLY towards a guy than he does other guys sound like he likes me?

idk if its just me and me imagining what i WANT to believe is true, or if hes just being himself and everything he does means nothing to him at all.

i dont want him to know that im not straight, because im also scared that if he were to find out it would ruin what friendship we have now

i'm trying to ATLEAST become really good friends with him so that if i were to tell him how i feel it wouldnt be AS awkward, y'know?

everything matters in this kinda situation and im kind of just stuck, without any idea what to do and it's making me EXTREMELY frustrated and this is not even entirely everything.

This is kind of an awkward place to ask this, but gamespot is the only place where i actually get responses. I'm hoping to not to be discriminated against because of my sexuality, please.

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#2 Cube_of_MooN
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Nope, I'm not gay
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#3 Taegukki
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Nope, plain old hetero.
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#4 megagene
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curious, i've got a question. Have you ever liked someone who was straight? Blin220

I almost exclusively like straight people. It would be kind of pointless for me to crush after a lesbian.

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#5 123625
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Hetero for Betero.
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#6 CrimsonSilver
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curious, i've got a question. Have you ever liked someone who was straight? Or just liked someone who you werent sure about whether they were straight or not and wanted them to be bi/gay? Did you ever tell them you liked them? What did they say? What did you tell them?

I really like someone who i think is straight, and probably is. But he does things that make me wonder if he is or not. And i REALLY like him but i'm too afraid to ask him about it, or tell him how i feel. Does someone who gives you a ride home on a mini motorcycle, sings hakuna matata (i know right? lol), acts EXTREMELY shy, gives me his number for no reason at all and just overall acts DIFFERENTLY towards a guy than he does other guys sound like he likes me?

idk if its just me and me imagining what i WANT to believe is true, or if hes just being himself and everything he does means nothing to him at all.

i dont want him to know that im not straight, because im also scared that if he were to find out it would ruin what friendship we have now

i'm trying to ATLEAST become really good friends with him so that if i were to tell him how i feel it wouldnt be AS awkward, y'know?

everything matters in this kinda situation and im kind of just stuck, without any idea what to do and it's making me EXTREMELY frustrated and this is not even entirely everything.

This is kind of an awkward place to ask this, but gamespot is the only place where i actually get responses. I'm hoping to not to be discriminated against because of my sexuality, please.

Blin220

Yeah um. either he's not straight, or could sort of tell you are not and feels awkward

If thts not it..well I'm a horrible person

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#7 Squidney
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Yeah, I've been in your situation before. Its a really tough place to be in. I think the better of friends you become the more awkward it will be for you to tell him if he isn't into you. Just keep getting to know him, be flirty and see where it takes you. But be open about it because if you win his friendship and then confess a love for him that will make it harder. Ask him if he has ever been with someone. Thats the best advice I can give because it is really hard to be there
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#8 double_decker
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Become good friends with him, and let him know before you make a move that you are bi/homosexual and see how he reacts, once you tell him he will either come out himself, or let you know he's cool with that, but straight, and if he acts like a jerk about it and can't handle it at all then he's best off not being a friend anyways
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#9 guitarplayer6
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:|

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#10 monkeytoes61
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I have a couple friends that are bi, but it's not a big deal to me.
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#11 Vyse_Legends
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Wouldn't you like to know about my sexual orientation.;)
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#12 CrimsonSilver
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Wouldn't you like to know about my sexual orientation.;)Vyse_Legends

Pheonix Wright.....hmm...I think yer pretty straight considering how much of a pervert you are Lol

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#13 linkin_guy109
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use to be bi, but since ive been with my gf....theres no way i could ever be bi again
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#14 Zaeryn
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:|

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That's not funny anymore, so stop posting that damn pear you guys... And no, I don't have any bi friends, at least I don't think.
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#15 guitarman89
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Nope, definitely not gay or bi.
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#16 linkthewindow
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I'm not gay but some scientists think that everyone is born bi, but society makes us think we are straight. Interesting though, eh.
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#17 Vyse_Legends
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[QUOTE="Vyse_Legends"]Wouldn't you like to know about my sexual orientation.;)CrimsonSilver

Pheonix Wright.....hmm...I think yer pretty straight considering how much of a pervert you are Lol

How "Wright" you are.:P
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#18 Cube_of_MooN
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That's not funny anymore, so stop posting that damn pear you guys... Zaeryn

I still find it funny, but not in this case. In this case its just mean.

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#19 FightinxNeo
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i think the pear is hilarious. maybe you dont have a sense of humor? :|
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#20 kruesader
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No, I like girls.
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#21 AnotherKill
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I'm extremely shy, Now I just want to know, What the hell does that have to do with being gay?

And I'm not gay

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#22 kruesader
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i think the pear is hilarious. maybe you dont have a sense of humor? :|FightinxNeo

It gets me every time!

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#23 Vyse_Legends
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i think the pear is hilarious. maybe you dont have a sense of humor? :|FightinxNeo
Or because we've seen it so much.
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#24 FightinxNeo
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[QUOTE="FightinxNeo"]i think the pear is hilarious. maybe you dont have a sense of humor? :|Vyse_Legends
Or because we've seen it so much.

or because you fail ...

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[QUOTE="Vyse_Legends"][QUOTE="FightinxNeo"]i think the pear is hilarious. maybe you dont have a sense of humor? :|FightinxNeo

Or because we've seen it so much.

or because you fail ...

Well I do take geometry.
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#26 Raged-wolverine
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nopes....i'm heterosexual and happy with it...:D
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#27 Zaeryn
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i think the pear is hilarious. maybe you dont have a sense of humor? :|FightinxNeo
I do. But it's over-used, and it's lost its funny. Every thread I see that pear and it's kind of lame now, it used to be funny though.
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#29 kruesader
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[QUOTE="FightinxNeo"]i think the pear is hilarious. maybe you dont have a sense of humor? :|Zaeryn
I do. But it's over-used, and it's lost its funny. Every thread I see that pear and it's kind of lame now, it used to be funny though.

That picture expresses my emotions perfectly.

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#30 Tauruslink
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curious, i've got a question. Have you ever liked someone who was straight? Or just liked someone who you werent sure about whether they were straight or not and wanted them to be bi/gay? Did you ever tell them you liked them? What did they say? What did you tell them?

I really like someone who i think is straight, and probably is. But he does things that make me wonder if he is or not. And i REALLY like him but i'm too afraid to ask him about it, or tell him how i feel. Does someone who gives you a ride home on a mini motorcycle, sings hakuna matata (i know right? lol), acts EXTREMELY shy, gives me his number for no reason at all and just overall acts DIFFERENTLY towards a guy than he does other guys sound like he likes me?

idk if its just me and me imagining what i WANT to believe is true, or if hes just being himself and everything he does means nothing to him at all.

i dont want him to know that im not straight, because im also scared that if he were to find out it would ruin what friendship we have now

i'm trying to ATLEAST become really good friends with him so that if i were to tell him how i feel it wouldnt be AS awkward, y'know?

everything matters in this kinda situation and im kind of just stuck, without any idea what to do and it's making me EXTREMELY frustrated and this is not even entirely everything.

This is kind of an awkward place to ask this, but gamespot is the only place where i actually get responses. I'm hoping to not to be discriminated against because of my sexuality, please.

Blin220

Wow, that actually does sound pretty gay Idk, just be yourself.

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#31 Super-Malijube
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I'm gay amd I'm not sure about any of the guys I like, nor have I even talked to them.

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#32 MyNamIzDavid
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I'm neither. I'm straight! :)
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#33 -R3Vo
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:|

guitarplayer6

That really broke the awkwardness *salutes*

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#34 linkin_guy109
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[QUOTE="guitarplayer6"]

:|

Zaeryn

That's not funny anymore, so stop posting that damn pear you guys... And no, I don't have any bi friends, at least I don't think.

better?

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#35 Kritical_Strike
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I would test him out some more, because if you spring your attraction on him and he turns out to be straight, he'll freak out for sure.
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#36 deactivated-5cf0a2e13dbde
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Im not gay because that would be really gay
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#37 Aznsilvrboy
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I'm heterosexual.
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#38 freshgman
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tell him and see what happens good be really good. Better than wondering 4 eva
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#39 Blaze787
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In high school, there were some people who thought I was gay mainly because of my, back then, silly sense of humour and some stupid things I had said. Fact of the matter is, I'm as straight as straight can be. I love pretty girls and have no attraction to men whatsoever. Infact, if one of my male friends one day came up to me and confessed a secret crush on me, chances are I would find it awkward and keep away from him.
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#40 Fandangle
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Does the guy know you are gay or bi (I don't think you said)?

If he does then maybe he is interested - if not then let it be known that you are gay/bi and see the reaction you get. Personally if I was in your situation I would first find out his views on the whole gay/bi thing and go from there.

Not that anyone cares, I'm straight.

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#41 OfficialJab
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[QUOTE="guitarplayer6"]

--the happy lolwut pear--

:|

Zaeryn

That's not funny anymore, so stop posting that damn pear you guys... And no, I don't have any bi friends, at least I don't think.

I think it's still really funny, that just wasn't the best place for it :) It's still good in threads that are hilariously meaningless and strange.

And no I'm not. I can see like, an actor and realize he's good looking, but that's as far as it's ever gone for me.

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W got these neighbors who live across the hallway from me who are/were interested in me. These 3 guys(Peanut - Marcus - Rob) moved in across from me, and when I first noticed them, My girlfriend and I noticed Peanut & Marcus would stare at me with these eyes of hunger, and from then on we sorta figured out that they were gay It went from just saying Hi to each other to eventually Peanut coming to ask me if I can "hook him up" with some "4:20" since they were new and didn't know any conections.

So from then on, since we had that in common, we befriended each other and got to hang out few times, only thing is whenever I'd go by, Marcus would always say these stupid sexual predatory comments whenever I'd yawn - if I drop my phone and bend down to pick it up etc. Stupid me, I would just let it slide by at first until he started getting way to graphic. So one day, when I was over and Marcus started talking about what he'd do to me, I got pissed off and snapped on him. I'm certain that with the way I was going off, everyone in the apt complex heard me snap on him calling him desperate this that & the other, him disrespecting me like that when I'm not even gay etc. From then on, I stopped going by, but Peanut kept wanting to come over to hang out, and even tho I knew he too hd a crush on me but since he wasn't all sexual predatory, I let him.

Only thing is, and I don't know why MOST gays are like this, but, because I wouldn't let Marcus say what he wanted to me, and he noticed Peanut n I kept on being cool, he started wanting to get Peanut against me for the stupidest reasons, according to Peanut. I'd hear Marcus go standout in the hallway talking smack about me to whoever he'd be on the phone with(if he even was on the phone, most likely pretending) because I wasn't gay or wasn't letting him "have some fun" by talking his bullcrap, but Peanut and I kept hanging out. Marcus got so pissed that Peanut wouldn't stop hanging out with me that he eventually kicked him out of the apt. What I don't get is, why so persistant to make me aware of hatred. It's not like he's gaining anything out of it. lol

These boyz really do crack me up, or at least Marcus does.

I mean Marcus is SUPER FLAMBOYANTLY GAY type.
"Girlfriend this - Girlfriend that..." when he's talking to guys!!

Rob & Peanut, you probably never would be able to tell(well with Peanut, sorta), but Marcus, the way he acts, talks etc is IMO the main reason why so many people are homophobic. Ah well!!! Marcus can live the rest of his life pissed off over something stupid.

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#43 CubePrime_basic
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i think the pear is hilarious. maybe you dont have a sense of humor? :|FightinxNeo
yeah that pear is kewl with me.
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#45 gobo212
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Get him really drunk and try to fool around with him. Maybe you will show him a side he didn't even know he had.

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#46 greenleaflink
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I am gay.

I like straight and gay guys and girls.

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W got these neighbors who live across the hallway from me who are/were interested in me. These 3 guys(Peanut - Marcus - Rob) moved in across from me, and when I first noticed them, My girlfriend and I noticed Peanut & Marcus would stare at me with these eyes of hunger, and from then on we sorta figured out that they were gay It went from just saying Hi to each other to eventually Peanut coming to ask me if I can "hook him up" with some "4:20" since they were new and didn't know any conections.

So from then on, since we had that in common, we befriended each other and got to hang out few times, only thing is whenever I'd go by, Marcus would always say these stupid sexual predatory comments whenever I'd yawn - if I drop my phone and bend down to pick it up etc. Stupid me, I would just let it slide by at first until he started getting way to graphic. So one day, when I was over and Marcus started talking about what he'd do to me, I got pissed off and snapped on him. I'm certain that with the way I was going off, everyone in the apt complex heard me snap on him calling him desperate this that & the other, him disrespecting me like that when I'm not even gay etc. From then on, I stopped going by, but Peanut kept wanting to come over to hang out, and even tho I knew he too hd a crush on me but since he wasn't all sexual predatory, I let him.

Only thing is, and I don't know why MOST gays are like this, but, because I wouldn't let Marcus say what he wanted to me, and he noticed Peanut n I kept on being cool, he started wanting to get Peanut against me for the stupidest reasons, according to Peanut. I'd hear Marcus go standout in the hallway talking smack about me to whoever he'd be on the phone with(if he even was on the phone, most likely pretending) because I wasn't gay or wasn't letting him "have some fun" by talking his bullcrap, but Peanut and I kept hanging out. Marcus got so pissed that Peanut wouldn't stop hanging out with me that he eventually kicked him out of the apt. What I don't get is, why so persistant to make me aware of hatred. It's not like he's gaining anything out of it. lol

These boyz really do crack me up, or at least Marcus does.

I mean Marcus is SUPER FLAMBOYANTLY GAY type.
"Girlfriend this - Girlfriend that..." when he's talking to guys!!

Rob & Peanut, you probably never would be able to tell(well with Peanut, sorta), but Marcus, the way he acts, talks etc is IMO the main reason why so many people are homophobic. Ah well!!! Marcus can live the rest of his life pissed off over something stupid.

Truth_Seekr
Think a bit over that exact situation you described, and you'll find it fits in nicely with all those times when straight guys become frustrated with girls that have no interest in them. Awkward and offensive comments, with post-rejection trash-talking and general idiotic behaviour. People just naturally tend to link it with some strange homosexual behaviour instead of the more obvious awkward male advance everyone has witnessed at one time. And the overly flmaboyant gay behaviour is not the reason for widespread homophobia, but a direct consequence of it. Being gay was illegal pretty much worldwide untill (relatively) recently, and it's still widely percieved as deviating from normal, human behaviour. As a result, when they no longer had to hide their sexuality, some gays ended living out their repressed sexuality in exactly this manner, consciously or not. most gays are, in fact, not of the flamboyant type.
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#48 deactivated-5f9e3c6a83e51
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Nope. I'm straight, but I don't have anything against gay people.
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#49 moptopskate
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im not gay thank god
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:o

I'm gonna have to give you a big NO.