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#1 BenedictArnold7
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I am. Even if I am extremely angry I go out of my way to be nice to strangers. It is not their fault my life sucks... when it sucks that it is. It doesn't always suck.

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#2 CycleOfViolence
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I definitely try to be.

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#3 GazaAli
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Yea sure though I avoid them as much as I can around here.
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#4 konvikt_17
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Yes.

hold doors open and such.

the other day this lady who was walking in front of me, dropped a pie crust thingy. without hesitation i bent down and picked it up for her. she thanked me and i was on my way.

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#5 megaspiderweb09
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As often as i can but i fail sometimes too. My ideaology is that if i am nice to someone, it could go a long way to help improve or brighten their day :D

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#6 Rich3232
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I give everyone a basic level of respect until proven otherwise.
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#7 ScorpionTroll
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Usually, but that all depends on their demeanor.

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#8 KiIIyou
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Yeah, cept for loud chumps.
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#9 BenedictArnold7
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This topic sucks.
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#10 KiIIyou
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This topic sucks.BenedictArnold7
Let's pee on it.
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#11 GazaAli
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This topic sucks.BenedictArnold7
I know how it feels bro, my topics always suck too.
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#12 GazaAli
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[QUOTE="BenedictArnold7"]This topic sucks.KiIIyou
Let's pee on it.

I already pooped on it.
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#13 ghoklebutter
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I'm always polite to strangers, though sometimes I'm polite just because of my timidity.

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#14 BenedictArnold7
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[QUOTE="BenedictArnold7"]This topic sucks.KiIIyou
Let's pee on it.

I am down.
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#16 Pirate700
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Most of the time, yes.

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#17 -Tish-
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Let me put it this way. I don't know you, TC. But fvck you.
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#18 Wiimotefan
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On the internet, no. I'm actually a dick by default.

In the real world, absolutely. I'm probably kind to a fault. I treat everyone with respect and even when I'm put in situations where I should be raging I still show as much kindness as I can. If someone approaches me at a gas station saying they're hungry and asking for money, even if they look like a crack head, I'll go by them a meal from the closest restaurant if I have the time. If not, I'll spare them a couple of bucks. I'm the kind of guy that leaves at least a 5 dollar tip MINIMUM no matter how poor the service may be.

I'm not a pushover and I'm no sucker either. I just like being good to others. And it really does come back around.

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#19 kingkong0124
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Yes

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#20 DoomZaW
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Yes. You will have a hard time getting along with people if you act like a douchebag.

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#21 deactivated-5f9e3c6a83e51
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Depends on the stranger.

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#22 Laihendi
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I treat strangers the way I treat anyone else, except with less explicit familiarity.
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#23 THE_DRUGGIE
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I skip around and tip my bowler to the lovely folks who pass me by.

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#24 Riadon2
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Mama always told me - never talk to strangers.

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#25 applesxc47
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I give everyone a basic level of respect until proven otherwise. Rich3232

Same here.

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#26 Pittfan666
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I do unless the stranger is a jerk.
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#27 Shottayouth13-
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I do. I treat everyone with respect until they do something that makes me lose that respect for them.
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#28 Goyoshi12
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[QUOTE="Rich3232"]I give everyone a basic level of respect until proven otherwise. applesxc47

Same here.

Ditto.

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#29 freek666
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Until I detect rudeness or ignorance, always.

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#30 Fightingfan
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Depends. Slow people annoy me. I hate Florida walmarts; old people are too slow, fat people are too slow, I can never get out of walmart in under 20mins.
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#31 PernicioEnigma
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I don't go out of my way to be nice to them, but when I do come into contact with them I'm nice. For example: A few weeks back when I was on the bus, a (rather attractive) young women was getting on and her bus card declined. I was way at the back of the bus but when I saw nobody else was getting up to help her it was a no-brainer to get up and pay for her bus fare, especially considering it was the last bus for the night and she was alone. I was shocked no one else got up to help her - the bus was packed and I couldn't have been the only one with money.
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#32 gamerguru100
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[QUOTE="BenedictArnold7"]This topic sucks.KiIIyou
Let's pee on it.

LOL
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#33 Canuck3000
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I'd say I am. Most people where I live are though, so it's just natural.
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#34 IdioticIcarus
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I've been told I'm overly polite.

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#35 tocool340
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I show courtesy to strangers, open doors and help out. So I guess I'm polite...
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#36 greenskittles
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Well always but yesterday was a textbook example of why maybe I should be a little more ... I dunno cold? I was in the city walking at a fairly slow pace and some guy bumped heavily into the right side of my chest. I still said sorry just out of courtesy and I was expecting him to apologize also but he just ignored me .... or maybe he did it on purpose. Maybe he's just racist but in hindsight obviously I wouldn't have been the nice guy if I knew he'd be so cold himself.

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#37 MirkoS77
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Depends. If I'm not in a good mood I don't feign politeness simply for the sake of pleasantness. I guess I'd rather be a genuine ass than a phony pretender. That said I'm not a prick I'm just not necessarily friendly, and am cordial unless I feel otherwise.

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#38 Namgis
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Try to be. Most times it proves to be a worthless gesture. So many ingrates loose in society.

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#39 GreekGameManiac
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Yes. You will have a hard time getting along with people if you act like a douchebag.

DoomZaW

Duh.

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#40 Kats_RK
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I'm polite and nice to everyone :D

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#41 Shmiity
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Absolutely. I also am rude as f*ck if I need to.

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#42 travisstaggs
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I give everyone a basic level of respect until proven otherwise. Rich3232
Yeah, this.
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#43 KungfuKitten
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I don't know any strangers.

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#44 Wiimotefan
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Well always but yesterday was a textbook example of why maybe I should be a little more ... I dunno cold? I was in the city walking at a fairly slow pace and some guy bumped heavily into the right side of my chest. I still said sorry just out of courtesy and I was expecting him to apologize also but he just ignored me .... or maybe he did it on purpose. Maybe he's just racist but in hindsight obviously I wouldn't have been the nice guy if I knew he'd be so cold himself.

greenskittles

I know the feeling. One time I was at a bar and it was getting late so of course everyone was wasted. I saw this guy unknowingly drop a bill and when I picked it up it was $100. I'm sure anyone else in the bar would have kept it, but I was kind enough to go hand it to him. He didn't thank me, he didn't even say anything, just gave me a really sh*tty look. I instantly regretted being so honest knowing I could have made a hundred dollars at the expense of a total jerk off.

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#45 soulless4now
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Yes, unless they look like a-wholes then I sorta frown at them.

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#46 PiscesChick93
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Until I detect rudeness or ignorance, always.

freek666

Yup.

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#47 MrGeezer
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Yes.

hold doors open and such.

the other day this lady who was walking in front of me, dropped a pie crust thingy. without hesitation i bent down and picked it up for her. she thanked me and i was on my way.

konvikt_17
While I try to be polite to strangers, picking things up for them is one thing I generally don't do. They don't know me, so for all they know I might be trying to take their stuff. If someone spills lots of stuff (like if they accidentally empty their backpack or purse) then I'll ask if they need help. Or if I see someone drop something and they don't notice, I'll say "hey, you dropped that." But I pretty much never just pick their stuff up for them without them saying it's okay.
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#48 MrGeezer
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[QUOTE="greenskittles"]

Well always but yesterday was a textbook example of why maybe I should be a little more ... I dunno cold? I was in the city walking at a fairly slow pace and some guy bumped heavily into the right side of my chest. I still said sorry just out of courtesy and I was expecting him to apologize also but he just ignored me .... or maybe he did it on purpose. Maybe he's just racist but in hindsight obviously I wouldn't have been the nice guy if I knew he'd be so cold himself.

Wiimotefan

I know the feeling. One time I was at a bar and it was getting late so of course everyone was wasted. I saw this guy unknowingly drop a bill and when I picked it up it was $100. I'm sure anyone else in the bar would have kept it, but I was kind enough to go hand it to him. He didn't thank me, he didn't even say anything, just gave me a really sh*tty look. I instantly regretted being so honest knowing I could have made a hundred dollars at the expense of a total jerk off.

But then you wouldn't have known that he'd be a total jerkoff, and you would have felt bad about taking some nice guy's money. In any case, I think that's why it's good to keep in mind WHY I try to be polite. You can do it in order to get something from someone else, or you can do it because it's rewarding to know that you're not a jackass.
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#49 sexyweapons
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Yes.

hold doors open and such.

the other day this lady who was walking in front of me, dropped a pie crust thingy. without hesitation i bent down and picked it up for her. she thanked me and i was on my way.

konvikt_17

Did she still eat it?

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#50 konvikt_17
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[QUOTE="konvikt_17"]

Yes.

hold doors open and such.

the other day this lady who was walking in front of me, dropped a pie crust thingy. without hesitation i bent down and picked it up for her. she thanked me and i was on my way.

MrGeezer

While I try to be polite to strangers, picking things up for them is one thing I generally don't do. They don't know me, so for all they know I might be trying to take their stuff. If someone spills lots of stuff (like if they accidentally empty their backpack or purse) then I'll ask if they need help. Or if I see someone drop something and they don't notice, I'll say "hey, you dropped that." But I pretty much never just pick their stuff up for them without them saying it's okay.

i can see how there could be mixed messages there.

i didnt really think about it though. saw the item fall, then just almost subconciously bent down and picked it up for her.:P