Arguing is, like, almost always stupid.

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#1 PotatoSandWitch
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Half of the time you are arguing about a definition. Example off the top of my head: whether a certain piece can be considered "art."

Then you're just arguing what the word "art" means, and that's pointless (me thinkso).

Other times you argue whether something is "better" than another thing. Like games. In almost any situation, personal taste comes into the choice you make. In the case of games, different people like different kinds of them. I freaking hate single player games. Maybe you hate multiplayer games. There is no "better" here. Unless you try to create a system in which you rate games based on whatever, and then calculate betterness that way. I think that's kind of stupid. (that's what GameSpot does, one rating each game)

The only situation I can think of atm where an argument would be worthwhile would be when a decision absolutely had to be made with no in betweens and a debate took place to see which side was better (if there were people on each side of the issue). I'm sure there are times when arguing is necessary though. Opinions about serious things can be leaning to the wrong side heavily enough sometimes that we feel they should be pulled back if it's someone we care about.

Not that I never get into arguments. It's only natural that we get emotions built inside sometimes and can't stop ourselves.

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#2 linkthewindow
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Welcome to the Internet.
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#3 194197844077667059316682358889
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No it's not!!!!!!
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#4 domatron23
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No it's not!!!!!!xaos

I disagree with you.

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#6 zero9167
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[QUOTE="xaos"]No it's not!!!!!!domatron23

I disagree with you.

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#7 Talldude80
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i don't like to argue, but people are just stupid or just wrong sometimes. my EXgf got mad at me cuz i always corrected her . "Why am i always wrong?" she said. then i would say " I dunno, i just disagree with what you say alot"

and some people have strong opinions. and theres nothing wrong with disagreement.

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#8 Ilived
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[QUOTE="xaos"]No it's not!!!!!!domatron23

I disagree with you.

At first I disagreed with you, but now I re-agree with you.

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#9 killerfist
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[QUOTE="xaos"]No it's not!!!!!!domatron23

I disagree with you.

I disagree

:P

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#10 194197844077667059316682358889
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[QUOTE="xaos"]No it's not!!!!!!domatron23

I disagree with you.

I support your right to your patently incorrect belief
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#11 linkthewindow
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Wow, this has gone off topic :|.
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#12 zero9167
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"You can't argue with opinion!!!?!!?11"

ahh i love that one :lol:

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#13 PotatoSandWitch
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Welcome to the Internet.linkthewindow
It's really not the internetz I'm thinking about. Internet forum arguing is probably usually for the entertainment/time-killing. You don't know the people you talk to, you don't end up getting angry (hopefully) so it's not a big deal. But people get worked up arguing about things that dont' need to be argued about a lot.
Prove it.luccaface
I can't prove an opinion. I suppose the way I worded the poll was a little bit "this is fact"-ish but that's not so.
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#14 RationalAtheist
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[QUOTE="xaos"]No it's not!!!!!!domatron23

I disagree with you.

That's not an argument, that's just contradiction!

Anyone not seen the Monty Python sketch?

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#15 PotatoSandWitch
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[QUOTE="domatron23"]

[QUOTE="xaos"]No it's not!!!!!!Ilived

I disagree with you.

At first I disagreed with you, but now I re-agree with you.

i loled. if you read that out loud and imagine your avatar saying it it's funny
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#16 domatron23
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[QUOTE="domatron23"]

[QUOTE="xaos"]No it's not!!!!!!RationalAtheist

I disagree with you.

That's not an argument, that's just contradiction!

Anyone not seen the Monty Python sketch?

No it isn't.

I love that sketch.

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#17 linkthewindow
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[QUOTE="linkthewindow"]Welcome to the Internet.PotatoSandWitch
It's really not the internetz I'm thinking about. Internet forum arguing is probably usually for the entertainment/time-killing. You don't know the people you talk to, you don't end up getting angry (hopefully) so it's not a big deal. But people get worked up arguing about things that dont' need to be argued about a lot.

Thats true.
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#18 quadraleap
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I prefer to discuss things, not argue about them.

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#19 PotatoSandWitch
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indeed. realizing that the other people might think differently from you ftw.

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#20 RationalAtheist
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I prefer to discuss things, not argue about them.

quadraleap

Can't you present an argument within a discussion?

To argue does not mean to shout or get mad - It means to present reasoning for or against a point of view.

I don't want any disagreement over that definition.

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#21 PotatoSandWitch
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"You can't argue with opinion!!!?!!?11"

ahh i love that one :lol:

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well, you could argue, but you wouldn't really get anywhere. Well, you'd get somewhere, but that somewhere isn't a place I would consider progress. You might consider it progress. Like you had fun arguing. Or you're happy that you made the other person feel uneasy about their opinion (not saying that you are like that).
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#22 123625
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But arguing is fun.
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#23 PotatoSandWitch
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[QUOTE="quadraleap"]

I prefer to discuss things, not argue about them.

RationalAtheist

Can't you present an argument within a discussion?

To argue does not mean to shout or get mad - It means to present reasoning for or against a point of view.

I don't want any disagreement over that definition.

No, arguing means.... lololololol jaaast kedding... So I guess the definition of arguing is to tell people why you think a certain way about something, huh?

You know what I mean though... Like when people argue and try to put down the other person's opinion and reasons for having that opinion. The type of argument that can lead to unnecessary emotions. I think when he said "discussion" he meant none of the hostility/wanting to change opinion.

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#24 PotatoSandWitch
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But arguing is fun. 123625
no it isn't you rotting piece of **** :)

that be one of the poll choices yo

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#25 SempiternalFett
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Art has always been open to debate and I encourage it.
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#26 PotatoSandWitch
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Art has always been open to debate and I encourage it. SempiternalFett
For the end results or for the fun of debating?

going to sleep actually cyaz

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#27 KG86
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Arguing is what separates us from the animals.
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#28 RationalAtheist
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[QUOTE="RationalAtheist"][QUOTE="quadraleap"]

I prefer to discuss things, not argue about them.

PotatoSandWitch

Can't you present an argument within a discussion?

To argue does not mean to shout or get mad - It means to present reasoning for or against a point of view.

I don't want any disagreement over that definition.

No, arguing means.... lololololol. So I guess the definition of arguing is to tell people why you think a certain way about something, huh?

You know what I mean though... Like when people argue and try to put down the other person's opinion and reasons for having that opinion. The type of argument that can lead to unnecessary emotions.

I think arguing is a skill that is learned.

Many people do get frustrated and feel personally insulted if their views are challenged. It is a human response to get defensive and emotional mechanisms - insults, deflections, demeaning or offensive comments and reactions often kick in. This is the point where the debate gets lost and makes for a poor argument.

It's a good idea for people to learn this important craft, and forums are a good place to do it. Being able to assert your view is really valuable in the real world. As an oldie, I feel that debating is skill that young people today seem increasingly to lack.

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#29 SempiternalFett
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[QUOTE="SempiternalFett"]Art has always been open to debate and I encourage it. PotatoSandWitch

For the end results or for the fun of debating?

going to sleep actually cyaz



It really depends on who's involved. Sometimes it's for the intellectual stimulation on the part of both parties. Sometimes it is for the end results.
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#30 quadraleap
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[QUOTE="quadraleap"]

I prefer to discuss things, not argue about them.

RationalAtheist

To argue does not mean to shout or get mad - It means to present reasoning for or against a point of view.

Most arguments I have been exposed to have involved shouting and being mad. Didn't mean to imply that is the definition, it just comes with the territory in some cases.

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[QUOTE="RationalAtheist"][QUOTE="domatron23"]

[QUOTE="xaos"]No it's not!!!!!!domatron23

I disagree with you.

That's not an argument, that's just contradiction!

Anyone not seen the Monty Python sketch?

No it isn't.

I love that sketch.

no that sketch is horrible!

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#32 Licazinha
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[QUOTE="RationalAtheist"][QUOTE="domatron23"]

[QUOTE="xaos"]No it's not!!!!!!domatron23

I disagree with you.

That's not an argument, that's just contradiction!

Anyone not seen the Monty Python sketch?

No it isn't.

I love that sketch.

An argument isn't just saying no it isn't!

(love that sketch too)

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#33 tofu-lion91
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Where's the 'just blog it' option on the poll?

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#34 linkthewindow
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Where's the 'just blog it' option on the poll?

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Lol. He shouldn't have. These arguments are lol worthy.
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until we find out how to slap people through the internet it's the best we got.
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#37 WSGRandomPerson
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Arguing is pointless. Thats why I try to avoid it.
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#38 linkthewindow
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Arguing is pointless. Thats why I try to avoid it.WSGRandomPerson
No it's not :P.
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#39 -Wicked_Sick-
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Arguing is necessary to relationships. It clears the air.
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#40 teh_destroyer
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I like to start an arguement with my girlfriend to see how long it takes her to realise its pointless to continue arguing about it :P.
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#41 Assassinslay
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Welcome to the Internet.linkthewindow
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