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#1 pygmahia5
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why do you play with guys feelings? there must be several reasons, but id like to know them. im sick and tired of going out with girls for that very reason. im on the edge of abstaining from dates.

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#2 LovePotionNo9
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You have to really love her to be willing to put up with all her crap. She's trying to weed you out.

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#3 SirWander
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You're far from Kansas, man.

what I mean is: an overwhelming majority of people who post are male, so I don't think you'll get the answers you want here.

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#4 theone86
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why do you play with guys feelings? there must be several reasons, but id like to know them. im sick and tired of going out with girls for that very reason. im on the edge of abstaining from dates.

pygmahia5

I encourage your abstinence, it betters my dating odds. Also, perhaps they're not screwing with you, perhaps that's just your own perception.

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#5 pygmahia5
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im thinking i just need to be single for a few years or something. girls carry way too many probs.
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#6 Setsa
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Because some girls just want some boy toys. Some women, though, want real relationships.
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#7 Setsa
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im thinking i just need to be single for a few years or something. girls carry way too many probs. pygmahia5
Are you in university/college yet? The whole dating scene changes as you approach/enter your twenties, and for a lot of people, relationships and sex in general is just a game.
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#8 CaptainAhab13
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Many people view dating as a game of sorts. Sex, for many, is more about getting racy physical pleasure than anything meaningful, and the mate is simply a cute, kind toy. In the end, it depends on the person.
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#9 tryagainlater
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Was just thinking about this myself. A girl totally played with my feelings over the last few days and I don't know what I did to be treated so cruelly. Off to listen to some getting over women music now :P

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#10 Fightingfan
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some girls just want some boy toys. .Setsa
Where can I find these?
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#11 pygmahia5
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[QUOTE="pygmahia5"]im thinking i just need to be single for a few years or something. girls carry way too many probs. Setsa
Are you in university/college yet? The whole dating scene changes as you approach/enter your twenties, and for a lot of people, relationships and sex in general is just a game.

well im at a uni in New Zealand but this is hardly a uni. im going to be going to college this January in the States though.
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#12 pygmahia5
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Was just thinking about this myself. A girl totally played with my feelings over the last few days and I don't know what I did to be treated so cruelly. Off to listen to some getting over women music now :P

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im with you brother.
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wrong place to ask bro
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#14 Setsa
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[QUOTE="Fightingfan"][QUOTE="Setsa"] Why, your local bars and clubs and college campuses of course! Seriously, if you have even a decent face and attitude, it's surprising how a specific niche of people would go on a date (and more) with you :/
[QUOTE="Setsa"][QUOTE="pygmahia5"]im thinking i just need to be single for a few years or something. girls carry way too many probs. pygmahia5
Are you in university/college yet? The whole dating scene changes as you approach/enter your twenties, and for a lot of people, relationships and sex in general is just a game.

well im at a uni in New Zealand but this is hardly a uni. im going to be going to college this January in the States though.

Ehh, that's gonna be tough because you won't really know a lot of people there :/ Is it going to be a college-college or a university-college (America is different than Canada in that respect)? If it's going to be a college college, you'll definitely meet a lot of girls that'll easily give you a date or two, but it might be hard to find one with the maturity some people need from a relationship in order for it to be considered fruitful. The best thing I can suggest is, get involved in activities where you'll likely meet people with like-minded or desirable attributes. For instance, if you like sports a lot and are looking for an ambitious girl with a toned body, joining a gym/exercise group/ casual sports team or even just going to the campus's gym with some friends can be a good way to meet someone with that stature.
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#15 pygmahia5
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[QUOTE="Setsa"][QUOTE="Fightingfan"][QUOTE="Setsa"] Are you in university/college yet? The whole dating scene changes as you approach/enter your twenties, and for a lot of people, relationships and sex in general is just a game.

well im at a uni in New Zealand but this is hardly a uni. im going to be going to college this January in the States though.

Ehh, that's gonna be tough because you won't really know a lot of people there :/ Is it going to be a college-college or a university-college (America is different than Canada in that respect)? If it's going to be a college college, you'll definitely meet a lot of girls that'll easily give you a date or two, but it might be hard to find one with the maturity some people need from a relationship in order for it to be considered fruitful. The best thing I can suggest is, get involved in activities where you'll likely meet people with like-minded or desirable attributes. For instance, if you like sports a lot and are looking for an ambitious girl with a toned body, joining a gym/exercise group/ casual sports team or even just going to the campus's gym with some friends can be a good way to meet someone with that stature.

first 2 years im going to a comm college and then transfer out. yea i already know what to do. im already thinking of joining clubs and all that. a job, the gym. also...YOGA. im just sick of all these games, ya know? its so tiring. and it puts me off.
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#16 Fightingfan
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^^ Will your credits transfer from New Zealand to America?
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#17 XilePrincess
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Guys, why do you just want sex? Why do you not care about our feelings and just want to get laid? Oh wait, that's a ridiculous generalization. Girls as a whole don't play with guys' feelings. Just some do, not because they're girls, but because they're not good people. Also, half of the time when a person, male or female, complains of somebody playing with their feelings, the case is honestly just that the person who is being 'played with' is completely unable to realize that the person they want does not want them as a bf/gf, they're just a close friend. AKA Friendzoned.
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#18 pygmahia5
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[QUOTE="Fightingfan"]^^ Will your credits transfer from New Zealand to America?

actually bro, they probably could have, but me and my fam moved over here and we're movin back cuz its super expensive. I had the choice of either waiting till February, getting my residence then going to school in August (only about 2 classes would transfer) . OR, move in with my aunt and start at a comm college in Jan. i chose the latter. super happy about my decision. and wow, this thread just got REAL :lol:
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#19 Setsa
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[QUOTE="pygmahia5"][QUOTE="Setsa"][QUOTE="Fightingfan"] well im at a uni in New Zealand but this is hardly a uni. im going to be going to college this January in the States though.

Ehh, that's gonna be tough because you won't really know a lot of people there :/ Is it going to be a college-college or a university-college (America is different than Canada in that respect)? If it's going to be a college college, you'll definitely meet a lot of girls that'll easily give you a date or two, but it might be hard to find one with the maturity some people need from a relationship in order for it to be considered fruitful. The best thing I can suggest is, get involved in activities where you'll likely meet people with like-minded or desirable attributes. For instance, if you like sports a lot and are looking for an ambitious girl with a toned body, joining a gym/exercise group/ casual sports team or even just going to the campus's gym with some friends can be a good way to meet someone with that stature.

first 2 years im going to a comm college and then transfer out. yea i already know what to do. im already thinking of joining clubs and all that. a job, the gym. also...YOGA. im just sick of all these games, ya know? its so tiring. and it puts me off.

Yoga.... is actually quite effective lol I know what you mean though man, a few years back I was frustrated with the same things :/
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#20 pygmahia5
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[QUOTE="XilePrincess"]Guys, why do you just want sex? Why do you not care about our feelings and just want to get laid? Oh wait, that's a ridiculous generalization. Girls as a whole don't play with guys' feelings. Just some do, not because they're girls, but because they're not good people. Also, half of the time when a person, male or female, complains of somebody playing with their feelings, the case is honestly just that the person who is being 'played with' is completely unable to realize that the person they want does not want them as a bf/gf, they're just a close friend. AKA Friendzoned.

generalizations ftw!! i can't count how many girls ive encountered that assume ALL guys want is just sex. good answer though. thats probably what it is. why don't they just speak their mind then? girls are freakin complicated. no offense. i love yall, but i cant stand you lol. love/hate.
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#21 Fightingfan
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Job, gym, school is pretty much me as well.

I need to gain some weight in the thigh area and I want bigger boobs(Pectorals).

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#22 Setsa
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[QUOTE="XilePrincess"]Guys, why do you just want sex? Why do you not care about our feelings and just want to get laid? Oh wait, that's a ridiculous generalization. Girls as a whole don't play with guys' feelings. Just some do, not because they're girls, but because they're not good people. Also, half of the time when a person, male or female, complains of somebody playing with their feelings, the case is honestly just that the person who is being 'played with' is completely unable to realize that the person they want does not want them as a bf/gf, they're just a close friend. AKA Friendzoned.

There's different degrees of that "friendzoned" status though. Especially with high-schoolers or young adults that are unaware of what a stable relationship is, people will often act overly flirtatious as a means of garnering attention. Of course, I'm not lumping all the ladies into this group, I'm merely stating that there are girls out there that will "friend-zone" a guy, yet still flirt him up and keep him on his toes. The same can be said for some men though, except they usually want sex as well.
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#23 pygmahia5
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Job, gym, school is pretty much me as well.

I need to gain some weight in the thigh area and I want bigger boobs(Pectorals).

Fightingfan
lol that was more random than that kungfu user guys posts.
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#24 zeldaluff
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This is definitely not a girl specific problem considering all the crap I've dealt with the last month.

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#25 Fightingfan
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[QUOTE="Fightingfan"]

Job, gym, school is pretty much me as well.

I need to gain some weight in the thigh area and I want bigger boobs(Pectorals).

pygmahia5
lol that was more random than that kungfu user guys posts.

I honestly dont know why I even said that..., I must of been posting on multiple threads via tabs and put that here on accident.
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#26 pygmahia5
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This is definitely not a girl specific problem considering all the crap I've dealt with the last month.

zeldaluff
please share. this is the "Relationship (or Lack thereof) Therapy" thread.
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#27 deactivated-590595a6292ce
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You need to stop dating girls and start dating women.

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#28 uncledeath2005
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Stop whining take stock of it and move on. Also boys are no better than gurls or vice versa. Emotions and relationships are far more complex than most people think.

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#29 wis3boi
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because

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B)

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#30 freek666
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******s and whores man.

******s and whores.

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#31 pygmahia5
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******s and whores man.

******s and whores.

freek666
yea this is what i've concluded years ago, wish i would have listened to myself lol.
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#32 MissLibrarian
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Some of us try not to but it still just kinda happens.

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#33 sAndroid17
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Job, gym, school is pretty much me as well.

I need to gain some weight in the thigh area and I want bigger boobs(Pectorals).

Fightingfan
what the.....
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#34 sAndroid17
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******s and whores man.

******s and whores.

freek666
pretty much
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#35 supa_badman
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I don't know TC, why don't you just stop getting regulated? >__>

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#36 mAArdman
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You've had bad experiences. I understand why you would be tempted to generalize. It however is not the proper way to go. You have to understand why you let them use you, and understand yourself better in order to learn how to get over those past experiences and get something positive out of them.
That, I think is the best way to make those past experiences bring you something worthwhile so that you won't feel like you have wasted your time.
You have to understand that each time you fall you can learn a new way to get back up, provided you don't make the same mistakes over and over.
Don't generalize. Understand the failures and use that knowledge to help yourself progress in life.

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#37 foxhound_fox
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You just haven't found a good woman yet.
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#38 soulless4now
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Not all of us play with guys feelings. Thanks for the wonderful generalization.

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#39 Suzy_Q_Kazoo
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Please don't generalize all girls. There's plenty of people being screwed over from both sexes.

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#40 Bloodseeker23
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I feel you on this one man...
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#41 wis3boi
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I feel you on this one man...Bloodseeker23
stop feeling people on the internet D:
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#42 soulless4now
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[QUOTE="Bloodseeker23"]I feel you on this one man...wis3boi
stop feeling people on the internet D:

Everyone needs love. :P
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[QUOTE="wis3boi"][QUOTE="Bloodseeker23"]I feel you on this one man...soulless4now
stop feeling people on the internet D:

Everyone needs love. :P

I'm calling Chris Hansen
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#44 Fightingfan
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[QUOTE="soulless4now"][QUOTE="wis3boi"] stop feeling people on the internet D:wis3boi
Everyone needs love. :P

I'm calling Chris Hansen

Maybe you should call batman instead.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=0wv_2efHvx4

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#45 VaguelyTagged
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i'm a girl and i play with everything but the feelings.

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#46 soulless4now
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[QUOTE="wis3boi"][QUOTE="soulless4now"]Everyone needs love. :P Fightingfan

I'm calling Chris Hansen

Maybe you should call batman instead.

:lol: That was funnier than the previous one I saw. :lol:

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#47 freek666
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[QUOTE="freek666"]

******s and whores man.

******s and whores.

sAndroid17

pretty much

whoooa dude what's up?

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#48 Sunsha
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LMAO Oh OT...such fantastically ridiculous things you come up with. Become a monk. Train in the temples until you are ready young one.
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#49 MrsSolidSnake
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I can honestly ask boys the same question. It's the person you're going after. Not the whole gender.

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#50 deactivated-5b19214ec908b
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I don't know about girls but I've noticed that bisexual guys tend to toy with youa lot, but that's just from my experience.