Bad way to ask a girl out?

There's a girl in one of my classes at university and I'm starting to develop a crush on her. I find her super attractive and fun to talk to, so I want to make a move somewhat soon.

She's really good at ice hockey (got a scholarship for it, and I'm in Vancouver so that's impressive) and even works to help kids skate and play. I love hockey and play all types, but I have always sucked at skating so I haven't been great at ice hockey. I'm thinking of working that into a conversation, and seeing if she would want to hit the rink with me and help me get better at it. I'm just skeptical of doing that because it's a bit of a gender role reversal, usually the guy is supposed to be the confident one and so maybe she will be turned off by that. Although we are sociology majors so that may factor into it :P . Also, I'm going to see if shes taking any summer classes and ask her if she wants to take one together (I need to in order to graduate on time, might as kill 2 birds with 1 stone lol).

Side note - she has a boyfriend but I'm starting to like her to the point where I don't care about that.

i don't think it's a bad way. I play ice hockey and my girlfriend figure skates but she's much better at skating than i am she's taught me a few moves so i don't really think it's gender reversal

Edit: Whoah she has a boyfriend? Stay away from that!

[QUOTE="v13_KiiLtz"]lmao she has a boyfriend. "Hey, this guns loaded but I'm going to try shoot my foot anyway."Trinexxx

You are dommed. Im 100% positive you will NEVER have a chance with her, never even a a kiss. Better work that imagination for satisfaction

She has a freaking boyfriend!!Who is likely cooler, with proper balance, more handsome and dont resort on gamespot for woman advice

Hey TC, can you imagine her having her ways with her man RIGHT NOW? He probably got some action with that fiiiine lady tonight

[QUOTE="Trinexxx"][QUOTE="v13_KiiLtz"]lmao she has a boyfriend. "Hey, this guns loaded but I'm going to try shoot my foot anyway."Adrianstalker

You are dommed. Im 100% positive you will NEVER have a chance with her, never even a a kiss. Better work that imagination for satisfaction

She has a freaking boyfriend!!Who is likely cooler, with proper balance, more handsome and dont resort on gamespot for woman advice

If she breaks up with him to go out with you, she may also break up with you later and go out with someone else. Once a snake, always a snake, now there's a role reversal.

How not to do it: Smell this rag and get in the vandarkspineslayer

You can always use the "pillow fight" lol :P

Btw never use the "Hi I'm a lvl 20 paladin, will you go out with me" routine....

If she breaks up with him to go out with you, she may also break up with you later and go out with someone else. Once a snake, always a snake, now there's a role reversal.

LovePotionNo9

How not to do it: Smell this rag and get in the vandarkspineslayer

trying to steal another dude's girl=lamemems_1224

[QUOTE="Adrianstalker"]

[QUOTE="Trinexxx"] Boyfriends are just speed bumps. Trinexxx

You are dommed. Im 100% positive you will NEVER have a chance with her, never even a a kiss. Better work that imagination for satisfaction

She has a freaking boyfriend!!Who is likely cooler, with proper balance, more handsome and dont resort on gamespot for woman advice

Im still sure you will never get her. And I do believe you may look nice and that you are smart and all, but that is not what isstopping you

[QUOTE="mems_1224"]trying to steal another dude's girl=lameTrinexxx

You can't mess with this situation dude. She has a boyfriend. Leave them be. If they break up on their own terms, then go for it. Otherwise don't be that guy. -Tish-

[QUOTE="-Tish-"]You can't mess with this situation dude. She has a boyfriend. Leave them be. If they break up on their own terms, then go for it. Otherwise don't be that guy. Trinexxx

the only bad thing about the whole thing is that she won't assume it as a date due to having a boyfriend already.

I know a good way.

Buy a wii and play We Dare with her.

She has a boyfriend - she's off limits.

But it can't be too bad. My boyfriend and I had a mutual agreement. There was no asking out. Just a "Can we go out already?" from me.

[QUOTE="Trinexxx"][QUOTE="v13_KiiLtz"]lmao she has a boyfriend. "Hey, this guns loaded but I'm going to try shoot my foot anyway."Adrianstalker

You are dommed. Im 100% positive you will NEVER have a chance with her, never even a a kiss. Better work that imagination for satisfaction

She has a freaking boyfriend!!Who is likely cooler, with proper balance, more handsome and dont resort on gamespot for woman advice

I'd keep hitting on her even if she has a boyfriend. Although if she tells you to stop, then you should.

She has a boyfriend, shes off limits, back off. However, if they break up on their own terms, go for it.

I'd keep hitting on her even if she has a boyfriend. Although if she tells you to stop, then you should.

LieutenantFeist

If all else fails, there's always rohypnol.

You aren't grasping the fact that I'm in my early 20s and it's fairly rare for a couple to stay together for a long time. If they do, good on them and I'll move on and find a new prospect, but I'll remain cautiously optimistic for now. Trinexxx

Yeah sure but if you caused the break-up that would be vary uncool.

I bet if she said "let's just stay friends" even when she's single; you wouldn't want to be her friend. You're only after one thing.

Side note - she has a boyfriend but I'm starting to like her to the point where I don't care about that.

Trinexxx

I always like being reminded that there's scum in the world.

Girls who play hockey seriously always have a little butch side, and I've never met a female hockey player with a wimpy boyfriend. They're almost always involved in some kind of sport themselves. You will get punched in the mouth. Stop.XilePrincess

This

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AwJHmynADM0

0:45-1:15

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