Being single blows.

Seriously. It does. It just hits me at the worst time.

But it can also be very nice to be able to do whatever you want and have your alone time.

How do you people deal with it?

It works for me and I still see the ladies.

I don't really dwell on it. Maybe that's easier for me because it rarely bothers me. Only every so often when I am single does the fact that I am single bother me...and then I just move on and think about other things.t3hrubikscube

This. The companionship would be nice but as it stands, I don't make a big fuss over it. It will happen when it happens.

Your going to be married for at least 30-40 years. Why are you rushing? And depending on your age if your below 25 relationships mean nothing anyway. Enjoy it...cause once your in a relationship or married your gonna miss your single life.

how do i deal with it? ask my computer's internet history.

Being single is awesome.

I'm fine with it. I watch tv, play videogames, browse the internet and use my hand for pleasure.

/forever alone

I can relate to that feeling, but I have no intention of seeking a girlfriend because I already have my eye on one. It's better for me to be single than to be in a little fling that only lasts a few weeks. I fell for being a rebound once and it won't happen again.

Like I said, for the most part I'm fine with it. But every now and then it just hits me. And I end up feeling like crap. I guess its mostly because a lot of my close friends are in relationships or talk constantly about who they're with. And I just feel left behind. Or like a third wheel.

But I'm only 20. I guess I shouldn't be rushing. I'm not saying I wish I was married. But sometimes it would be nice to have a companion.

how do i deal with it? ask my computer's internet history.

needled24-7

I was married for two years, now adjusting back to the single life. So far its been a bumpy road, just trying not to drink too much :-P

I hate being single. It's like a lot of people around me are taken, but I'm alone.XiaolinPrincess

It's better to have this feeling of loneliness when you're single rather than when you're in a relationship.

Yes. I spend all day working and playing on my PC.

I was married for two years, now adjusting back to the single life. So far its been a bumpy road, just trying not to drink too much :-P

Darthmatt

I hate being single. It's like a lot of people around me are taken, but I'm alone.XiaolinPrincess

Like I said, for the most part I'm fine with it. But every now and then it just hits me. And I end up feeling like crap. I guess its mostly because a lot of my close friends are in relationships or talk constantly about who they're with. And I just feel left behind. Or like a third wheel.

But I'm only 20. I guess I shouldn't be rushing. I'm not saying I wish I was married. But sometimes it would be nice to have a companion.

BilliePopK

I use love it, you can do what you want then have fun trying to getbabes with your single friends had some good times lol but now i hate it because all my friends girl friends and i meet a girl i could settle down with but i think she feel same :(.

Seriously. It does. It just hits me at the worst time.

But it can also be very nice to be able to do whatever you want and have your alone time.

How do you people deal with it?

BilliePopK

Being in a relationship has its issues as well. Being single doesn't blow. Being alone may, but that's why you got to keep some good friends around, even if you are in a relationship.

Enjoy your freedom.

i'm going to get up the courage and say singularity is infact a form of social anomie.

Ehh, on one hand I am so sick of being single and really want nothing more than to actually experience a real relationship, but on the other I really don't have anyone to chase after (I have a tendency to want what I can't have...) so it is just the way things have to be for now. I am keeping control despite being sio incredibly sick of my reputation as the 22 year old virgin who is never going to get laid...

At the moment it has alloted me time to consistently pick up overtime at work and I am making a killing compared to what I used to make (actually just managed to cash in the biggest check I have ever earned). Video games and a new hobby (playing bass guitar for me) have helped as well.

I do think this cracked article fits this topic well though.:P:

http://www.cracked.com/article_17063_5-reasons-being-single-sucks-even-more-than-you-thought.html

Being single is awesome.

entropyecho

Oh yeah!8)

You got total freedom. You could do anything without your bf/gf complaining about it

No need to rush, man. One day, you'll find the one

Ehh, on one hand I am so sick of being single and really want nothing more than to actually experience a real relationship, but on the other I really don't have anyone to chase after (I have a tendency to want what I can't have...) so it is just the way things have to be for now. I am keeping control despite being sio incredibly sick of my reputation as the 22 year old virgin who is never going to get laid...

At the moment it has alloted me time to consistently pick up overtime at work and I am making a killing compared to what I used to make (actually just managed to cash in the biggest check I have ever earned). Video games and a new hobby (playing bass guitar for me) have helped as well.

I do think this cracked article fits this topic well though.:P:

http://www.cracked.com/article_17063_5-reasons-being-single-sucks-even-more-than-you-thought.html

Single is fine. I love it. Hope to get married and start a family soon though. It's just about that time for me.

The biggest advantage of being single is that you run your day on your schedule.

How can anyone get a gf these days? Standards are so high. i wonder what it is like to balance multiple girls at once. Is there anyone who actually does that for real? One is difficult enough to get. If you have 1 thing wrong with you then forget it. They wont have any interest.

Its like a time I heard a girl talking about someone she said: I used to think he was really attractive but then I heard him laugh.

:(

How can anyone get a gf these days? Standards are so high. i wonder what it is like to balance multiple girls at once. Is there anyone who actually does that for real? One is difficult enough to get. biggest_loser

[QUOTE="entropyecho"]

Being single is awesome.

Oh yeah!8)

You got total freedom. You could do anything without your bf/gf complaining about it

No need to rush, man. One day, you'll find the one

I have absolutely no problem with it. I'm 16, for what that's worth.

How can anyone get a gf these days? Standards are so high. i wonder what it is like to balance multiple girls at once. Is there anyone who actually does that for real? One is difficult enough to get. If you have 1 thing wrong with you then forget it. They wont have any interest.

Its like a time I heard a girl talking about someone she said: I used to think he was really attractive but then I heard him laugh.

:(

biggest_loser

Younger people are like this yes. Standards are conversely related to age. The older women get, the more realistic they get. I should know. I'm a straight up computer nerd, but women treat me like I am freakin' Brad Pitt anymore. And every year that passes I keep looking like a better and better prospect to women, as they realize that perhaps the average/decent looking, financially stable guy is a better wager than the hot guy that works at Kinkos.

ehh It dosen't bother me I just go to partiesand hook up with girls.

[QUOTE="biggest_loser"]

How can anyone get a gf these days? Standards are so high. i wonder what it is like to balance multiple girls at once. Is there anyone who actually does that for real? One is difficult enough to get. If you have 1 thing wrong with you then forget it. They wont have any interest.

Its like a time I heard a girl talking about someone she said: I used to think he was really attractive but then I heard him laugh.

:(

UltimoIce

Younger people are like this yes. Standards are conversely related to age. The older women get, the more realistic they get. I should know. I'm a straight up computer nerd, but women treat me like I am freakin' Brad Pitt anymore. And every year that passes I keep looking like a better and better prospect to women, as they realize that perhaps the average/decent looking, financially stable guy is a better wager than the hot guy that works at Kinkos.

[QUOTE="UltimoIce"]

[QUOTE="biggest_loser"]

How can anyone get a gf these days? Standards are so high. i wonder what it is like to balance multiple girls at once. Is there anyone who actually does that for real? One is difficult enough to get. If you have 1 thing wrong with you then forget it. They wont have any interest.

Its like a time I heard a girl talking about someone she said: I used to think he was really attractive but then I heard him laugh.

:(

biggest_loser

Younger people are like this yes. Standards are conversely related to age. The older women get, the more realistic they get. I should know. I'm a straight up computer nerd, but women treat me like I am freakin' Brad Pitt anymore. And every year that passes I keep looking like a better and better prospect to women, as they realize that perhaps the average/decent looking, financially stable guy is a better wager than the hot guy that works at Kinkos.

Possibly I suppose. Although I didn't gain a crazy amount of confidence until women started liking me (at least not in that area of my life). So, which comes first, the chicken or the egg?

[QUOTE="UltimoIce"]

[QUOTE="biggest_loser"]

How can anyone get a gf these days? Standards are so high. i wonder what it is like to balance multiple girls at once. Is there anyone who actually does that for real? One is difficult enough to get. If you have 1 thing wrong with you then forget it. They wont have any interest.

Its like a time I heard a girl talking about someone she said: I used to think he was really attractive but then I heard him laugh.

:(

biggest_loser

Younger people are like this yes. Standards are conversely related to age. The older women get, the more realistic they get. I should know. I'm a straight up computer nerd, but women treat me like I am freakin' Brad Pitt anymore. And every year that passes I keep looking like a better and better prospect to women, as they realize that perhaps the average/decent looking, financially stable guy is a better wager than the hot guy that works at Kinkos.

Money/confidence are pretty dang inter-related.

Enjoy your single time while you can. That's all I have to say.Engrish_Major

It works for me and I still see the ladies.

Lto_thaG

I couldn't have said it any better.