Being the Fourth Wheel

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#1 StarFire571
Member since 2009 • 1215 Posts

Heres the situation.

Me- (male)

Person A-Girl I have a crush on

Person B-Friend of Person A (male), who I am somewhat jealous of

Person C-Friend of Person A (female)

Me and Person A used to talk a lot, but I don't see her often so our conversations are mostly over the internet. Me and Person A decided we should hang out over summer break. Today we hung out. Person B and C came along also. While I had a good time, Person A, B and C had a lot of inside jokes I wasn't in on, and I felt very foruth wheel like. I mean I talked to them and stuff but sometimes I was just akwardly standing there laughing at jokes I didn't understand.

Keep in mind I crush on this girl, but she doesn't think I do anymore.. I don't know if she thinks of me as a friend or whatever.

Any advice for how to get closer to her and let her know I have a crush on her?

(my goal for the summer is to make out with her)

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#2 194197844077667059316682358889
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I think you should see other letters
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#3 chAzN93
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I think you should see other lettersxaos
good solution haha just keep hanging out with them..things can change
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#4 Palantas
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Get her to drink more.

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#5 MissLibrarian
Member since 2008 • 9589 Posts

(my goal for the summer is to make out with her)StarFire571

Oh, ffs. Just kiss her you fool!

You need to just lay down the law. When you're arranging to meet up next time just bluntly say 'Let's make it just you and me, OK? I want to spend some quality time together with no-one else.'

Then when you are alone without many people about in a park/car lot/anywhere where there's not a load of people looking just go for it. She'll either kiss you back or she won't.

There. Done. /thread.

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#6 no_more_fayth
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I've heard of third wheels and fifth wheels...

If you are a "fourth wheel," you should give up on dating.

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#7 blackacidevil96
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hahaha. well i mean....you know what. im just going to laugh to myself so i dont get modded

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#8 deactivated-5b31d3729c1fa
Member since 2007 • 11536 Posts

tell her some inside jokes you jnow, if you let her it, she'll let you in :)

[spoiler] yes i know, that's what she said :P :? [/spoiler]

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#9 Maniacc1
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I think you should see other lettersxaos
:lol: Any attempt I had to be witty coming into this thread has just been squelched.
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#10 angrules23
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4th wheel? 5th and 3rd are perfectly understandable but 4th? man up you woman.
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#11 KamuiFei
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I think you should see other lettersxaos

lol. Nice.

TC, just be straightforward with her. You either get it or you don't. Man up! :twisted:

And if you don't get her, I heard Person D is easy :P (sorry I had to)

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#13 MistressMinako
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How do you become a 4th wheel? There are only odd wheels, no evens.
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#15 MistressMinako
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[QUOTE="MistressMinako"]How do you become a 4th wheel? There are only odd wheels, no evens.thegerg
How is that possible? How can there be a third wheel if there isn't a first or second? You seem to be confused. There are even number wheels, but the odd wheel (3rd, 5th, etc.) is the one that's usually left out.

:lol: I meant the other way around. There are only the odd ones that get left out.

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#16 deactivated-5d6bb9cb2ee20
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Wait, there's a 'fourth wheel?' I'd always heard of 'the third wheel,' this is the first I've ever heard of a fourth one, though.
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#17 killerfist
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Being a 4th wheel is not so bad. Just don't become the 3rd or 5th.
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#18 guildclaws
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Ask her out now! :P

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#19 Grey_Eyed_Elf
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I hate these threads... flirt with her be blunt find out and get it over with, if yes HOORAY! if no move on to person C... Life's way to short.
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#20 deactivated-590595a6292ce
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Ask her out already...