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#1 outbreak201
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well first off let me that ive been best buds with my friends since 4th grade ( im 19 now ) and he has this girlfriend that is friends with me also...well hes been dating her a for a year now...and like theyre relationship is kind of breaking apart...cause my friend  cheated on her...and they are both like yah.....well they still love each but its kinda like....dont leave me kind of a thing...and lately shes been texting me on my cell phone like tell me any secret u want to know...and when we hang out ( me, my buds, and my friend's girlfriend) she always finds a way to touch me like grab my head and whisper something in to my ear or even like slide her finger against my ass...and look at me like if shes wants to have sex with me....well anyways...i dont want to get involved with any of this cause 1. ive been friends with this guy since 4th grade...and 2. hes becoming a UFC fighter and is really buff and stuff....so ya....sorry that i didnt put this in paragraphs...oh and today she invited me to her house to whatch the departed but i refused.......should i tell my friend or should i just ignore his girlfriend...or just give in?
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#2 Fortier
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The most confusing part of that...how could your friend accidentally cheat on her?
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well first off let me that ive been best buds with my friends since 4th grade ( im 19 now ) and he has this girlfriend that is friends with me also...well hes been dating her a for a year now...and like theyre relationship is kind of breaking apart...cause my friend accidentaly cheated on her...and they are both like yah.....well they still love each but its kinda like....dont leave me kind of a thing...and lately shes been texting me on my cell phone like tell me any secret u want to know...and when we hang out ( me, my buds, and my friend's girlfriend) she always finds a way to touch me like grab my head and whisper something in to my ear or even like slide her finger against my ass...and look at me like if shes wants to have sex with me....well anyways...i dont want to get involved with any of this cause 1. ive been friends with this guy since 4th grade...and 2. hes becoming a UFC fighter and is really buff and stuff....so ya....sorry that i didnt put this in paragraphs...oh and today she invited me to her house to whatch the departed but i refused.......should i tell my friend or should i just ignore his girlfriend...or just give in?
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The most confusing part of that...how could your friend accidentally cheat on her?Fortier
Yeah I stopped reading once that part came up. How does that work? He tripped and his penis entered this random girl?
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The most confusing part of that...how could your friend accidentally cheat on her?Fortier

get drunk and do some girl idk...this is just what i heard...
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Give in
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#7 Fortier
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[QUOTE="Fortier"]The most confusing part of that...how could your friend accidentally cheat on her?outbreak201

get drunk and do some girl idk...this is just what i heard...

Yeah...that's not quite accidental though...

Anyway...damn I had something to say, but  I forgot. I'll just edit this post later.

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well first off let me that ive been best buds with my friends since 4th grade ( im 19 now ) and he has this girlfriend that is friends with me also...well hes been dating her a for a year now...and like theyre relationship is kind of breaking apart...cause my friend cheated on her...and they are both like yah.....well they still love each but its kinda like....dont leave me kind of a thing...and lately shes been texting me on my cell phone like tell me any secret u want to know...and when we hang out ( me, my buds, and my friend's girlfriend) she always finds a way to touch me like grab my head and whisper something in to my ear or even like slide her finger against my ass...and look at me like if shes wants to have sex with me....well anyways...i dont want to get involved with any of this cause 1. ive been friends with this guy since 4th grade...and 2. hes becoming a UFC fighter and is really buff and stuff....so ya....sorry that i didnt put this in paragraphs...oh and today she invited me to her house to whatch the departed but i refused.......should i tell my friend or should i just ignore his girlfriend...or just give in?
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Tell him, the same sort of situation happened to me, only i wwanted to give in so bad but i didnt, which was fine but i never told him and she made it look like i did, and me and him stopped talking for like 8 months, and were like brothers so thats a long as time and was painful as hell and even though we made up now its not the same anymore, so just be truthful man this is a case where honesty is definately the best policy and sex is definately not worth it.
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#9 outbreak201
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oh snap...i think its safe to make my move...my one friend said they BROKE UP!!!! lol let the ownage turn in to boneage
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#10 LiL_PiNo
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Damn fool... Just yell... Get off me whore!
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#11 Hallenbeck77  Moderator
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You knew your boy since 4th grade, then the rule should be simple:  Bros befores hos. Granted, he cheated on her, but how does that justify you tapping her?  And who's to say that if you do go through with this, she won't dime you out to him if she feels guilty afterwards? You don't need to catch an @$$ whupping over that, especially if he's  training for the UFC.  If you can't tell him that she's hitting on you, let him know that something's not right between the both of them.  And stay away from her.  The beating you prevent WILL be your own.

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#12 longhorn7
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oh snap...i think its safe to make my move...my one friend said they BROKE UP!!!! lol let the ownage turn in to boneageoutbreak201
if he loves her at all its a bad idea bro, believe me bros first
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#13 outbreak201
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yah i think i figured it out....the reason y she wanted me to come over today is cause she broke up with my friend  probably the day before.....dam.....
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bros before ______... Just ignore it man, may be hard to expecially if shes an attractive girl but bros come first and if he is really your friend and has been for such along amount of time dont mess with his girl whether he cheated or not. She may be trying to make him jealous also fyi.
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You're 19, learn proper English.
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#16 jrhawk42
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I think the official man rule is "you have to ask your friend for permission to date his ex, and he has to grant that permission",  I think the same rule applies for sisters and moms.

One thing to help your buddy is get him a new GF, cause he's probably gotten to the point where he's use to having a girl around and now there's a void.  If he doesn't pick up a new chick then he's likely to want to rekindle interest with his ex.
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#17 Hallenbeck77  Moderator
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oh snap...i think its safe to make my move...my one friend said they BROKE UP!!!! lol let the ownage turn in to boneageoutbreak201
Don't even do that. It's bad enought your friend broke up with her, but you taking sloppy seconds and him having to be reminded is just F'd up.
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#18 outbreak201
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You're 19, learn proper English.-Karayan-
sorry, i forgot that i was on video game forum...
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Uh she sounds like a slut..all up in your person like that...and especially after she just broke up with your friend. On the rebound maybe? I'm not sure. Anyways like other posters have said don't give in and don't do this. She could turn and twist this anyway she wants if you do sleep with her...and there goes a very good friendship. In closing I'll say this "Sex lasts but a moment. Friendships (can) last forever". Think about it.
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#20 -Karayan-
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[QUOTE="-Karayan-"]You're 19, learn proper English.outbreak201
sorry, i forgot that i was on video game forum...

If you write like that too often, you'll get used to it.
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#21 outbreak201
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[QUOTE="outbreak201"]oh snap...i think its safe to make my move...my one friend said they BROKE UP!!!! lol let the ownage turn in to boneageHallenbeck77
Don't even do that. It's bad enought your friend broke up with her, but you taking sloppy seconds and him having to be reminded is just F'd up.

lol i have more than 1 friend that told me tho ...and if anything i would be taking sloppy two million six thousand and five ...but she is sooooo effin hawt tho lol....if i had a pic u would be like ....dam go for it
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#22 -Karayan-
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[QUOTE="Hallenbeck77"][QUOTE="outbreak201"]oh snap...i think its safe to make my move...my one friend said they BROKE UP!!!! lol let the ownage turn in to boneageoutbreak201
Don't even do that. It's bad enought your friend broke up with her, but you taking sloppy seconds and him having to be reminded is just F'd up.

lol i have more than 1 friend that told me tho ...and if anything i would be taking sloppy two million six thousand and five ...but she is sooooo effin hawt tho lol....if i had a pic u would be like ....dam go for it

So, what you're saying is, that she is a whore?
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#23 -supercharged-
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Well if you are really good friends with the guy I suggest staying away from the chick if I was you. You don't wanna ruin your friendship over a piece of ***.
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#24 Rabid_Moogle
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Give in? Dude, thats not even an option, wtf.
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#25 XGamer360
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If she's hot give it to her. Then after tell your friend. You can tell him you had sex with his GF too, just explain to him that it was an accident. He apparently should understand. :wink:
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#26 zeldafan00013
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wow real mature guys. Seriously man Bros before _____ u fill in the blank. Dont betray a friendship that you have had foreva you wont get it back. To many girls out there to give up your close friends for one.
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[QUOTE="Hallenbeck77"][QUOTE="outbreak201"]oh snap...i think its safe to make my move...my one friend said they BROKE UP!!!! lol let the ownage turn in to boneageoutbreak201
Don't even do that. It's bad enought your friend broke up with her, but you taking sloppy seconds and him having to be reminded is just F'd up.

lol i have more than 1 friend that told me tho ...and if anything i would be taking sloppy two million six thousand and five ...but she is sooooo effin hawt tho lol....if i had a pic u would be like ....dam go for it

Another reason not to do it: what if the lovin' isn't that good? I'm not condoning what your friend did but there might be a reason he cheated. Besides, Why drive a car that's already been wrecked?
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#28 -supercharged-
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If she's hot give it to her. Then after tell your friend. You can tell him you had sex with his GF too, just explain to him that it was an accident. He apparently should understand. :wink:XGamer360
The guy has been with her for over a year.. I dont see things looking to well for the tc if he does have sex with her. A piece of *** can cause alot of problems. But if his friend is cool with it then so be it.... **** her all night long.
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[QUOTE="outbreak201"]well first off let me that ive been best buds with my friends since 4th grade ( im 19 now ) and he has this girlfriend that is friends with me also...well hes been dating her a for a year now...and like theyre relationship is kind of breaking apart...cause my friend accidentaly cheated on her...and they are both like yah.....well they still love each but its kinda like....dont leave me kind of a thing...and lately shes been texting me on my cell phone like tell me any secret u want to know...and when we hang out ( me, my buds, and my friend's girlfriend) she always finds a way to touch me like grab my head and whisper something in to my ear or even like slide her finger against my ass...and look at me like if shes wants to have sex with me....well anyways...i dont want to get involved with any of this cause 1. ive been friends with this guy since 4th grade...and 2. hes becoming a UFC fighter and is really buff and stuff....so ya....sorry that i didnt put this in paragraphs...oh and today she invited me to her house to whatch the departed but i refused.......should i tell my friend or should i just ignore his girlfriend...or just give in?
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Yes, it is much better here.  Besides, your friend is no one to feel sorry for, he cheated on her.  Anyway, hang out with her and let her make the first move.  Then call her on it and tell her she has to break up with the guy first.  Then you can use your passion and reach new found power.
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#30 krystians
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The most confusing part of that...how could your friend accidentally cheat on her?Fortier
Yeah you cannot "accidentally" cheat on anyone. But that is besides the point. I think you should ignore the girl, and not ruin the relationship you have with your friend since grade 4.
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wow real mature guys. Seriously man Bros before _____ u fill in the blank. Dont betray a friendship that you have had foreva you wont get it back. To many girls out there to give up your close friends for one.zeldafan00013

Yeah,but when it comes down to it..Do you think a guy would say no?I dont think so

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If you do end up hooking up with her, i hope your friend DOES kick ur ass. lawls, but no, dont do it. That's stupid.
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#33 longhorn7
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i think that was sarcasm...well at least i hope it was, but p**** aint worth losing your bro man for real dont matter how fine she is like i said ive been there it is not fun he was still in love with her right after they broke up and she was just probly trying to get me to **** her to hurt him while he was down because she knew i had feelings for her. Like I said i didnt do it but she still made it look like we did and that made us stop talking for almost a year and the only reason were friends again is because he found out she was lyin man trust me BAD IDEA
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[QUOTE="Fortier"]The most confusing part of that...how could your friend accidentally cheat on her?krystians
Yeah you cannot "accidentally" cheat on anyone. But that is besides the point. I think you should ignore the girl, and not ruin the relationship you have with your friend since grade 4.

Well guys can get taken advantaged of too so in that case it could be a accident, Now whether he should have put himself in that position of not would be a different story.
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[QUOTE="zeldafan00013"]wow real mature guys. Seriously man Bros before _____ u fill in the blank. Dont betray a friendship that you have had foreva you wont get it back. To many girls out there to give up your close friends for one.mattmaul5488

Yeah,but when it comes down to it..Do you think a guy would say no?I dont think so


I dunno, WOULD we? I think everyone here is a guy, so u should ask urself that.
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#36 longhorn7
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[QUOTE="zeldafan00013"]wow real mature guys. Seriously man Bros before _____ u fill in the blank. Dont betray a friendship that you have had foreva you wont get it back. To many girls out there to give up your close friends for one.mattmaul5488

Yeah,but when it comes down to it..Do you think a guy would say no?I dont think so

Any guy with slf respect can , yes. Believe me its easy.
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[QUOTE="mattmaul5488"]

[QUOTE="zeldafan00013"]wow real mature guys. Seriously man Bros before _____ u fill in the blank. Dont betray a friendship that you have had foreva you wont get it back. To many girls out there to give up your close friends for one.Rabid_Moogle

Yeah,but when it comes down to it..Do you think a guy would say no?I don't think so


I dunno, WOULD we? I think everyone here is a guy, so u should ask urself that.

I have a few select friends who fall under the category of "don't do that to his ex-gf"...It depends on how much I like the friend..>_> is that bad?

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#38 krystians
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[QUOTE="krystians"][QUOTE="Fortier"]The most confusing part of that...how could your friend accidentally cheat on her?-supercharged-
Yeah you cannot "accidentally" cheat on anyone. But that is besides the point. I think you should ignore the girl, and not ruin the relationship you have with your friend since grade 4.

Well guys can get taken advantaged of too so in that case it could be a accident, Now whether he should have put himself in that position of not would be a different story.

Yes you are right, but we all know guys are idiots :P
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#39 The_PirateKing
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~-~Just don't. I can tell by the way you're typing that you just want to screw her. It's not worth ruining a friendship no matter how much he deserves it. The only reason you would take a friend's gf/ex-gf is if you really think you would have a real relationship with her. Like you've talked with her a lot and really feel on the same page with her. Because IMO, life long relationships are more important than any friendship. See, I admit, if I really liked my friends gf and she really liked me I'd ask her out. So trust me when I say don't do it. It's for all the wrong reasons.~-~
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How do you know she won't use you to make him jealous? Which I understand is not always a bad thing but he's your best friend? Come on.
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Break up your sentences every once in awhile.