Bored of having sex with the same person?

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#1 Ilived
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I don't know maybe it's me, but I am totally bored of having sex with my ex. Probably done it with her for like 20 times. Sex is boring with her, not to mention how she always starts to cry at the end and says things like "why can't we be together?" A few days ago I was at a party and had sex with this other girl and man it was so refreshing and new! I'm sure I'd get bored of her too after a few more times. Is anyone else like this? I don't know, my ex makes sex boring and makes me not want to do it anymore.
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#2 GenTom
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sex with your ex eh? Interesting...

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#3 SpootyHead
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Maybe you need to try new techniques or something.
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#4 Ravirr
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I think its more of a guilt. Since she is giving you sex in hopes for a relationship, and you know that won't happen. And you could possibly feel bad for leading her on like that.
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#5 KRYPTONiZE
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Maybe you need to try new techniques or something.SpootyHead

haha yeah...

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#6 Boba_Fett_3710
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Sex with someone you don't like that much is boring. Try finding someone who you like and it'll be brand new all over again.
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#7 D3nnyCrane
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Try working some new things into your routine. A good way to do this is last more than 2 minutes.
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#8 Berzz
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With your EX? Now that's something you don't see everyday, haha.
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#9 ShadySpecimen
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dude, it's only good when ur really into the person. then it never gets boring!
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#10 GenTom
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dude, it's only good when ur really into the person. then it never gets boring!ShadySpecimen

Really into...haha i get it

wait...what

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#12 teh_destroyer
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fantasizing about another person while having sex with your ex is not going to help either.
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#13 tofu-lion91
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Only 20 times? I've lost count of the times I've done it with my partner's but it hasn't got boring yet. You just need to have a play around and find something new if you want to make it exciting again :)
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#14 Mr_sprinkles
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Enjoy![spoiler] http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_sex_positions [/spoiler]
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#15 Boba_Fett_3710
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Only 20 times? I've lost count of the times I've done it with my partner's but it hasn't got boring yet. You just need to have a play around and find something new if you want to make it exciting again :)tofu-lion91

It's beating a dead horse. I'm sure there is a reason she is his ex. Sex at this point is just supplimental for the both of them. He needs someone new. Sex without feelings is, after time, bad sex.

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#16 esb1118
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I don't get bored of sex. Sex gets bored of me.

wut?

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#17 tofu-lion91
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[QUOTE="tofu-lion91"]Only 20 times? I've lost count of the times I've done it with my partner's but it hasn't got boring yet. You just need to have a play around and find something new if you want to make it exciting again :)Boba_Fett_3710

It's beating a dead horse. I'm sure there is a reason she is his ex. Sex at this point is just supplimental for the both of them. He needs someone new. Sex without feelings is, after time, bad sex.

Agreed. I was/still is in love with 3 out of 4 guys I've slept with and I must say it's far better if you care for the person. TC sounds like he's in a confusing situation. I wouldn't advise sleeping with an ex in any circumstance (apart from life threatening of course) :)

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#18 needled24-7
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Try doing it in the style of dogs.
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#19 Boba_Fett_3710
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Agreed. I was/still is in love with 3 out of 4 guys I've slept with and I must say it's far better if you care for the person. TC sounds like he's in a confusing situation. I wouldn't advise sleeping with an ex in any circumstance (apart from life threatening of course) :)

tofu-lion91

Agreed. What do you mean by "life threatening"?

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#20 Mr_sprinkles
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[QUOTE="tofu-lion91"]

Agreed. I was/still is in love with 3 out of 4 guys I've slept with and I must say it's far better if you care for the person. TC sounds like he's in a confusing situation. I wouldn't advise sleeping with an ex in any circumstance (apart from life threatening of course) :)

Boba_Fett_3710

Agreed. What do you mean by "life threatening"?

death by snoo snoo...
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#21 dragon7x2k
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[QUOTE="tofu-lion91"]

Agreed. I was/still is in love with 3 out of 4 guys I've slept with and I must say it's far better if you care for the person. TC sounds like he's in a confusing situation. I wouldn't advise sleeping with an ex in any circumstance (apart from life threatening of course) :)

Boba_Fett_3710

Agreed. What do you mean by "life threatening"?

Maybe something like, "let's have sex or I'll kill you"

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#22 miinnx
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If you get bored, UR DOIN IT RONG.
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#23 Ilived
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[QUOTE="Boba_Fett_3710"][QUOTE="tofu-lion91"]

Agreed. I was/still is in love with 3 out of 4 guys I've slept with and I must say it's far better if you care for the person. TC sounds like he's in a confusing situation. I wouldn't advise sleeping with an ex in any circumstance (apart from life threatening of course) :)

Mr_sprinkles

Agreed. What do you mean by "life threatening"?

death by snoo snoo...

Haha, god I love that episode. Anyway, people in here think I'm bored of sex with my ex because she is my ex, but I don't think that's true since I got bored of her even when we were together and doing it. I'm a person who needs change and freshness, like that girl from the party. I won't go back to her again though because I"m sure I'd be bored from her too.

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#24 Boba_Fett_3710
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Maybe something like, "let's have sex or I'll kill you"

dragon7x2k

Yikes!

I'd choose the sex too :lol:

I don't think anyone has ever been so direct with me.

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#25 deactivated-5f9e3c6a83e51
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That's normal. If you had filet mignon every night for a year, chances are you'd be sick of it. Same with women.
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#26 Ontain
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Haha, god I love that episode. Anyway, people in here think I'm bored of sex with my ex because she is my ex, but I don't think that's true since I got bored of her even when we were together and doing it. I'm a person who needs change and freshness, like that girl from the party. I won't go back to her again though because I"m sure I'd be bored from her too.

Ilived

did you start not liking her before the sex got boring or after?

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#27 Ilived
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[QUOTE="Ilived"]

Haha, god I love that episode. Anyway, people in here think I'm bored of sex with my ex because she is my ex, but I don't think that's true since I got bored of her even when we were together and doing it. I'm a person who needs change and freshness, like that girl from the party. I won't go back to her again though because I"m sure I'd be bored from her too.

Ontain

did you start not liking her before the sex got boring or after?

Well it was after, but that's not why I stopped liking her.

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#28 deactivated-5e836a855beb2
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dude, it's only good when ur really into the person. then it never gets boring!ShadySpecimen
Yeah, it's true. You gotsta care, or it's just like doing it with your hand. Well, with a little extra noise and warmth.
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#29 needled24-7
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[QUOTE="dragon7x2k"]

Maybe something like, "let's have sex or I'll kill you"

Boba_Fett_3710

Yikes!

I'd choose the sex too :lol:

I don't think anyone has ever been so direct with me.

If a girl was that direct with me, it'd probably turn me on. :P.......... :|............ :P
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#30 Boba_Fett_3710
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[QUOTE="ShadySpecimen"]dude, it's only good when ur really into the person. then it never gets boring!Jandurin
Yeah, it's true. You gotsta care, or it's just like doing it with your hand. Well, with a little extra noise and warmth.

...Or in some cases, a little extra attitude :P

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#31 Hungry_bunny
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Wait, are you the guy who complained about his ex stalking him? ...wow.

And sex gets really dull when you stop caring about the person so it's probably just that. Othewise, you could always try adding some "spice" and "variation".

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#32 k_ozz
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Why don u spice it up.. BDSM may be :lol:
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#33 marcus4hire
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Sorry. Never had that problem.

Well, at least not since my ex (caught her actually bored, looking at her fingernails one time).

I NEVER get tired of sex with my GF. We have an amazing connection. It is electric. We've both had our share of partners but there is something that just clicks when we are together.

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#34 shyskillz
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you should go to a sex toy shop and or role play. itz hard for a young man to stay with one girl, especially in his prime years. we have so much luv to give
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#35 Ilived
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Wait, are you the guy who complained about his ex stalking him? ...wow.

And sex gets really dull when you stop caring about the person so it's probably just that. Othewise, you could always try adding some "spice" and "variation".

Hungry_bunny

Not stalking lol. I complained that she would get so insane and paranoid sometimes that it freaked me out. For people wondering why I even left her, well here are the reasons:

1) Whenever we would go to a party, she would talk to all the guys and flirt with them, but when I start to talk to the girls she would then come by and start agruing and start a huge fued which basically making it impossible for me to enjoy the party so we leave.

2) I hate how cocky she gets sometimes and I hate her attitude. Especially how she acts towards my friends and family, just giving everyone an attitude and being a huge pain in the ass.

3) Last but not least, I hate how clingy she gets. When I'm out with my friends, I would get a call from her every 5-10 minutes. "What are you doing?" "Where are you?" "When are you gonna come see me?" "Are you gonna get me anything?"

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#36 buxboy
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I have found that the best way to spice up the sexual relations with the partner is to try new things. Positions, toys, role playing, all of it.
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#37 legend26
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well your not touching her shouolder ofcourse :roll:
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#38 firebreathing
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[QUOTE="Hungry_bunny"]

Wait, are you the guy who complained about his ex stalking him? ...wow.

And sex gets really dull when you stop caring about the person so it's probably just that. Othewise, you could always try adding some "spice" and "variation".

Ilived

Not stalking lol. I complained that she would get so insane and paranoid sometimes that it freaked me out. For people wondering why I even left her, well here are the reasons:

1) Whenever we would go to a party, she would talk to all the guys and flirt with them, but when I start to talk to the girls she would then come by and start agruing and start a huge fued which basically making it impossible for me to enjoy the party so we leave.

2) I hate how cocky she gets sometimes and I hate her attitude. Especially how she acts towards my friends and family, just giving everyone an attitude and being a huge pain in the ass.

3) Last but not least, I hate how clingy she gets. When I'm out with my friends, I would get a call from her every 5-10 minutes. "What are you doing?" "Where are you?" "When are you gonna come see me?" "Are you gonna get me anything?"

i would of told her. "I'm going to give you a kick to the vag if you dont STFU!!"

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#39 xtn702
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Try doing different things?
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#40 Solid_Snake_7
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Bored after doing it just 20 times? Interesting...