Can I ask a girl about a party?

Ok, so there is this super hot, but nice chick. She knows me for a couple of reasons. I've only actually talked to her once, and it was a disaster. It was 3 years ago and I was still pretty fat back when she approached me and my two friends. She was just trying to makeconversation. But I was too nervous back then and the conversation went nowhere. My sister's boyfriend is friends with this girl. I know from facebook that she goes to college parties. Should I ask this girl on facebook whether or not I can go to one of her parties? I'll tell her that I can get certain stuff if she wants. I'm in dire need of a party right now. I haven't been to a good one since my friend left for college. Maybe ask my sisters boyfriend what he knows and maybe he can get into the party for himself and take me along. But I don't think my sister would approve. I really just want to talk to this chick. I know its a long shot because shes so hot, but maybe we could hit it off and I could get her number or something and we could do stuff later. I'd kill to talk to her again. She was so damn nice and beautiful and I'm not really good looking. I still have some weight to lose before I'll be at my peak. Can OT can give me any real world advice? I know most of you are experienced daters. I just dont want to make a gaffe and then look stupid. All I wanna do is party and talk to this babe. Thanks guys.

EDITED: I have no way to talk to her in real life. She's a sophomore in college and I'm a freshman at a different college. Well, I dropped out from the original college and now I am going elsewhere to college next fall. Thats what I mean when I said I can't talk to her in person. I'm looking for any advice on what to do in the situation. I'm just really tired so sorry if none of that made any sense at all.

Had a really hard time understanding your story, but I'll try and help out

1) Ask her, plain and simple. There's no reason to get nervous, have confidence in yourself.

2) If anything, be a real man and take her somewhere else other than a party.

Should I ask this girl on facebook whether or not I can go to one of her parties? I'll tell her that I can get certain stuff if she wants. I'm in dire need of a party right now.TonyDanzaFan

I wouldn't ask her to get you into the party, I'd see if somebody else can get you in. That way you can just bump into her and do the whole "heyyyyy I haven't seen you in a long time" then play a little catch up and see where you can take it from there. If you just come out of the blue and ask her to take you there after 3 years of not talking to her she might just assume that you want some.

[QUOTE="TonyDanzaFan"]Should I ask this girl on facebook whether or not I can go to one of her parties? I'll tell her that I can get certain stuff if she wants. I'm in dire need of a party right now.cheese_game619

also, make sure you use lots of smiley faces. b*tches love smiley faces

EDITED: I have no way to talk to her in real life. She's a sophomore in college and I'm a freshman at a different college. Well, I dropped out from the original college and now I am going elsewhere to college next fall. Thats what I mean when I said I can't talk to her in person. I'm looking for any advice on what to do in the situation. I'm just really tired so sorry if none of that made any sense at all. And guys, come on. Don't ridicule me. I'm merely looking for suggestions. So that was stupid, I take it? I'm just in dire need of this type of help. I've never really been in a situation like this where I know the girl but I can't ever see her.TonyDanzaFan

I wouldn't ask her to get you into the party, I'd see if somebody else can get you in. That way you can just bump into her and do the whole "heyyyyy I haven't seen you in a long time" then play a little catch up and see where you can take it from there. If you just come out of the blue and ask her to take you there after 3 years of not talking to her she might just assume that you want some.

NamelessJay

[QUOTE="TonyDanzaFan"]EDITED: I have no way to talk to her in real life. She's a sophomore in college and I'm a freshman at a different college. Well, I dropped out from the original college and now I am going elsewhere to college next fall. Thats what I mean when I said I can't talk to her in person. I'm looking for any advice on what to do in the situation. I'm just really tired so sorry if none of that made any sense at all. And guys, come on. Don't ridicule me. I'm merely looking for suggestions. So that was stupid, I take it? I'm just in dire need of this type of help. I've never really been in a situation like this where I know the girl but I can't ever see her.needled24-7

Ok, so there is this super hot, but nice chick. She knows me for a couple of reasons. I've only actually talked to her once, and it was a disaster. It was 3 years ago and I was still pretty fat back when she approached me and my two friends. She was just trying to makeconversation. But I was too nervous back then and the conversation went nowhere. My sister's boyfriend is friends with this girl. I know from facebook that she goes to college parties. Should I ask this girl on facebook whether or not I can go to one of her parties? I'll tell her that I can get certain stuff if she wants. I'm in dire need of a party right now. I haven't been to a good one since my friend left for college. Maybe ask my sisters boyfriend what he knows and maybe he can get into the party for himself and take me along. But I don't think my sister would approve. I really just want to talk to this chick. I know its a long shot because shes so hot, but maybe we could hit it off and I could get her number or something and we could do stuff later. I'd kill to talk to her again. She was so damn nice and beautiful and I'm not really good looking. I still have some weight to lose before I'll be at my peak. Can OT can give me any real world advice? I know most of you are experienced daters. I just dont want to make a gaffe and then look stupid. All I wanna do is party and talk to this babe. Thanks guys.

EDITED: I have no way to talk to her in real life. She's a sophomore in college and I'm a freshman at a different college. Well, I dropped out from the original college and now I am going elsewhere to college next fall. Thats what I mean when I said I can't talk to her in person. I'm looking for any advice on what to do in the situation. I'm just really tired so sorry if none of that made any sense at all.

TonyDanzaFan

i'm not sure you'd want her to see you that desperate to be in her party.just try to make an acquaintance somewhere else and then you'll be invited to the damn parties.

Should I ask my sisters boyfriend about the situation? Like what would he do? Maybe he'll try and set something up. He won prom king, so the girl knows him fairly well.

Can OT can give me any real world advice? I know most of you are experienced daters

TonyDanzaFan

:lol:

Yes. You have come to the right place.

Sooo first you need to get your sisters boyfriend to get into the party. Then he can take ur sister and you to the party so that your sister would approve. At the party you seek out your target and go and talk to her casually. If things go well try to get her number and hangout another time. If it doesnt go well there are always hotter girls at the party.

Don't try to invite yourself to a party with her, just ask if she wants to hang out and let her make the plans.spazzx625