can you help a guy out ??

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#1 gubrushadow
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poor guy , he spend his life in the house and when he went to society , he didnt know how to talk to people , he just say hi and how are you , and the problem gets worse with girls , well its kinda stupid topic but any ideas how to argue with people ??

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#2 Agent-Zero
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what?
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#3 Lab392
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Go outside some more. You'll learn eventually.

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#4 Shrapnel99
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Hi, how are you?

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#5 Acemaster27
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Tell him to ask a girl if he can get with her.
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#6 smc91352
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you want to teach this guy to argue?
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#7 KidCudi37
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This topic is full of fails. On-topic Google "How To Debate With People".
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#8 taj7575
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TC..I really have no clue what you are talking about man..:?

If it's about arguing, do you mean like debating?

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#9 Dylan_11
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Seriously, what?

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#10 GTA_dude
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Wait, you want to argue with people?
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#11 Lab392
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Alright, guys. TC isolated himself from society for a long time, and so he has problems talking with people; more specifically, girls. He also would like to have the inner strength and verbal know-how necessary to carry an argument with someone. Can someone give him some advice on how to rid himself of his social awkwardness?

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#12 gubrushadow
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who said i was talking about me ??
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#13 gubrushadow
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Alright, guys. TC isolated himself from society for a long time, and so he has problems talking with people; more specifically, girls. He also would like to have the inner strength and verbal know-how necessary to carry an argument with someone. Can someone give him some advice on how to rid himself of his social awkwardness?

Lab392
thank you thats the best advice till now :P
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#14 Dylan_11
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who said i was talking about me ??gubrushadow
What are you talking about? Is the real question.
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#15 Dylan_11
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[QUOTE="Lab392"]

Alright, guys. TC isolated himself from society for a long time, and so he has problems talking with people; more specifically, girls. He also would like to have the inner strength and verbal know-how necessary to carry an argument with someone. Can someone give him some advice on how to rid himself of his social awkwardness?

gubrushadow
thank you thats the best advice till now :P

So you are talking about yourself?
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#16 gubrushadow
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[QUOTE="gubrushadow"][QUOTE="Lab392"]

Alright, guys. TC isolated himself from society for a long time, and so he has problems talking with people; more specifically, girls. He also would like to have the inner strength and verbal know-how necessary to carry an argument with someone. Can someone give him some advice on how to rid himself of his social awkwardness?

Dylan_11
thank you thats the best advice till now :P

So you are talking about yourself?

read the comments i wrote.
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#17 Dylan_11
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[QUOTE="gubrushadow"][QUOTE="Dylan_11"][QUOTE="gubrushadow"] thank you thats the best advice till now :P

So you are talking about yourself?

read the comments i wrote.

OK, now what?
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#18 Animatronic64
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Educate yourself, and argue only when you know for a fact that the other person is wrong.

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#19 GTA_dude
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Watch alot of teen movies (American Pie, Cant Hardly Wait, ect.)
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#20 muller39
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I don't get what you are asking. You want to talk to girls and argue with them?

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#21 optiow
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Go outside some more. You'll learn eventually.

Lab392
I agree with this here.
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#22 Martel100
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[QUOTE="taj7575"]

TC..I really have no clue what you are talking about man..:?

I also am confused, but I don't care. The trick to arguing is practice. You gotta start arguing with everyone, over things that no one in their right mind would even care about, like whether or not amount of salt in the salt shacker is hazardous. Then, when you get in an argument that actually matters you'll already be a natural. The only downside is that you lose all your friends, but since you (or whoever this guy is, Tarzan, George of the Jungle, Mowgli) doesn't seem to have any, not a problem!!!
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#23 elchiquilin
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I think he refers to actual talking, well u should capitalize opportunites, for example: you and a girl are waiting for the bus and its raining, so u say to her: awful weather, isnt it? (or something like that) and you take it from there. In short take a situation and turn it into an opportunity, it works, the example i set you is how i actually met my current GF lol
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#24 xhellcatx
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I can teach you how to argue with girls... its easy! All ya gotta do is say, "Hey, baby doll, go make me some muffins." Either you A. Get muffins or B. Start argument. Its that easy!
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#25 gubrushadow
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I can teach you how to argue with girls... its easy! All ya gotta do is say, "Hey, baby doll, go make me some muffins." Either you A. Get muffins or B. Start argument. Its that easy!xhellcatx
hey , that actually can work !
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#26 GrandJury
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Go outside some more. You'll learn eventually.

Lab392
Since I don't have a damn clue what you are talking about, I will just go with this.
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#27 leonhead
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Argue with people? Don't you learn that in english. I practiced the art of arguing (better known as debating) with my parents.

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#28 KlepticGrooves
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To get rid of social awkwardness I advise you get a job in a shop, maybe as a cashier. I took up a job as a cashier to pay for college, and it improved my ability to talk to strangers.

Or try and take part in a local debating club, if there is one. They also teach debating in many colleges.

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#29 jimy1475
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oh wow so much depresed people here, just talk to a friend about it