Can't decide between two girls I like...

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#1 BananaNuts
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There are two girls at school i like, Girl A and Girl B to make it easy.

Girl A is a pure crush and is really pretty and i liked her first though quite a few other guys (my friends) like her as well and even though shes always flirting with me the most i'm not sure whether she actually likes me or is just flirting for fun.
She has a brilliant cute personality and we have loads of laughs though i can't talk too deep to her and open up.

Girl B is my best friend and in a sense i do love her but its not entirely in the same way as the Girl A.

Girl B is really pretty as well but shes not my type for some reason and i don't find as much natural attraction.

Saying that though she has one of the greatest personalities ever and we are completely open with each other and she is the only person who i can let into my heart fully (She knows i Like Girl A and even helps me loads with my love life as well as being one of my best advisers)
Well Girl B confessed her love for me recently which came as a shock since i tell her who i like and she even helps me with Girl A sacrificing possibly her own happiness.

Anyways this has sort of made me change my whole perspective on her and i guess i like her more but i think it may just be because of her confession and i would still like Girl A.

I am still not sure which one i should go for and i shouldn't go for Girl B based on possibly friendly love of me wanting to make her happy.

Thanks in advance for all those who spend there time helping me!

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#2 sAndroid17
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well i would be finding out if "either" girl likes you though first mate;)

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#3 BumFluff122
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I think you should try for girl B. There is more there than just a physical relationship because you find her cute.

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#4 K-E316
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i demand pictures...

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#5 BumFluff122
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well i would be finding out if "either" girl likes you though first mate;)

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In the post he stated that girl B has already told him she loves him.

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#6 Pittfan666
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Pics or I can't decide. Ask girl A out first then if she laughs at you at least you have a fall-back option with girl B.
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#7 pvtdonut54
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go B

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#8 Citrus25
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Have two girlfriends then....
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#9 sAndroid17
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[QUOTE="BumFluff122"]

[QUOTE="sAndroid17"]

well i would be finding out if "either" girl likes you though first mate;)

In the post he stated that girl B has already told him she loves him.

ah yes, for some reason i skipped that paragraph.. hm, how strange:P
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#10 clembo1990
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Go for attraction, if you aren't attracted to her there is no use in persuing and possibly hurting someone's feelings :?
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#11 BumFluff122
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ah yes, for some reason i skipped that paragraph.. hm, how strange:PsAndroid17
Admit it. You skipped the whole post.

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#12 Im_single
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I don't know the whole story, but from what you've written you'd be a moron (No offense) not to go with Girl B, seriously, a sure bet with somebody you already know you're capable of loving, someone who you get along with, versus a prettier girl whom might or might not like you (Probably not). Go with Girl B, you'll thank me when your happy with you're BF/GF (My GF is my BF and I wouldn't change a thing) almost guaranteed (Seen it happen on many occasions) if you go with girl A you'll date for a little while, eventually break up, then you'll realize you love girl B, but she's already moved on and is with another guy, you will be miserable and making another post on GS about how you missed out on the love of you're life. Looks have to be sacrificed sometimes, it's inevitable, but in the long run it's sooo worth it.
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#13 sAndroid17
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[QUOTE="sAndroid17"]ah yes, for some reason i skipped that paragraph.. hm, how strange:PBumFluff122

Admit it. You skipped the whole post.

nah its really strange, i thought i read it all. im kinda weirded out right now...:o

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#14 TechGuru89
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Bang 'em both?

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#15 Mr47fitter
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Sounds like every chick flick ever.

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#16 BananaNuts
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Have two girlfriends then....Citrus25
Wish it was possible lol
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#17 Citrus25
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[QUOTE="Citrus25"]Have two girlfriends then....BananaNuts
Wish it was possible lol

Believe it!

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#18 awesomeray
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girl B ;)

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#19 scorch-62
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I would say girl B.
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#20 thriteenthmonke
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Have them fight and date the winner [spoiler] Girl B [/spoiler]
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#21 kemar7856
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both

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#22 Ringx55
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B all the way... But I need pictures before I make my final decision, I'm sure they have myspace or facebook :P
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#23 thekeylocky
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i say girl b because if u have a good relationship as a friend then u should have a good relationship as a couple

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#24 BananaNuts
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i say girl b because if u have a good relationship as a friend then u should have a good relationship as a couple

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i understand what people say about how if me and Girl B break up it could destroy our friendship personally i think we could recover it even if ti would be awkward for the first few weeks after the break up.
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#25 hikari33
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Girl A

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#26 SSBFan12
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Girl A dude.

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#27 musicaz70
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[QUOTE="thekeylocky"]

i say girl b because if u have a good relationship as a friend then u should have a good relationship as a couple

BananaNuts
i understand what people say about how if me and Girl B break up it could destroy our friendship personally i think we could recover it even if ti would be awkward for the first few weeks after the break up.

Yeah something similar happened to me and a very good friend of mine. After a few weeks we became social again, although there were weird moments where she would obviously be flirting with me and such and it was kind of awkward. I don't talk to her anymore though because of other reasons.
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#29 scorch-62
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i understand what people say about how if me and Girl B break up it could destroy our friendship personally i think we could recover it even if ti would be awkward for the first few weeks after the break up.BananaNuts
If Girl B is as good a friend as you say she is, it shouldn't destroy your friendship. Things after the break-up might be awkward at first, yes, but they will get back to normal, especially if you aren't a total douchebag about the break-up.
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#30 FalcoLX
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Be happy you have 1 option.

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#31 Jekken6
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Girl A. You don't want to potentially ruin a great friendship, unless you think it is a risk worth taking

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#32 -Panjera-
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Neither! A sounds like a player and if you aren't really attracted to B, then what's the point? You can still have a great relationship as friends, but you don't wanna go out with her and still have a crush on chick A :P

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#33 Oblivionfan10
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Girl B B-cause, she is your best friend
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#34 Ghost_702
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Just ask 'em out. What's the worst that could happen?
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#35 XilePrincess
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From experience, date the best friend. It will be the best relationship you'll ever have, and MOST of the time, unless somebody cheats, best friend relationships that end still result in both people being exactly the same around each other, no loss of friendship. Besides that, there's no use in dating somebody and not being yourself around them. that goes nowhere.
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#36 remmbermytitans
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Flip a coin. Girl A is heads. Girl B is tails. Whichever you don't want, be sure to send her my way. :D
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#37 nimatoad2000
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you pretty much answered your own question in your first post, you like girl A, but you kind of like girl B but she's not your type really.. so go with girl A. not rocket science. you couldve asked your mom.
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#38 foxhound_fox
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Girl B shows a directed interest in your romantically and you have feelings for her. To choose otherwise is to choose wrongly.

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#39 RearNakedChoke
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Who said you need to choose..
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#40 ClassicPlayer
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This is just pathetic, choose neither, simple as that.

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#41 Parandrus
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I'd go with Girl B. It's rare to be so open with a girl, usually, so take advantage of that. You might not have the same thing with Girl A.
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#42 TheOddQuantum
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Ask them if it is ok with them to share one male with another person.

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#43 Dark-Sithious
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Hmm, girl A sounds hotter

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#44 double_decker
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Well if you can't open up or talk deep to girl A then odds are that wouldn't work, if it was me I would try and find another possibility rather than risk the friendship with girl B, but if you are attracted to girl B and think it's worth the risk to see if your feelings deepen when you try dating her then I'd say go for it. She sounds like she'd be a good fit for you and you already care for her alot and are close to her so that sounds like a better start to a relationship than most begin.
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#45 gingefails
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Choose the one with the DD.

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#46 KOTORkicker
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Girl B.. Girl B sounds like something that happened recently between me and a girl. She told me that.. Then I found out that she had lied. I like her alot and I told her, which led to her saying she loved me. But then I figured out it was a lie. And that hurt. Like nothing else.. Me and her were best friends by every definition of the word.. Now we can't look one another in the eye. It's heartbreaking - for me at the very least. So if you know that Girl B really does mean what she says, then yes, go along with her. It's what I was going to do...
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#47 aRE-you-AFraid
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Girl B!!!!! Always go for the girl that will be willing to humble herself for your well-being.
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Girl B.. Girl B sounds like something that happened recently between me and a girl. She told me that.. Then I found out that she had lied. I like her alot and I told her, which led to her saying she loved me. But then I figured out it was a lie. And that hurt. Like nothing else.. Me and her were best friends by every definition of the word.. Now we can't look one another in the eye. It's heartbreaking - for me at the very least. So if you know that Girl B really does mean what she says, then yes, go along with her. It's what I was going to do...KOTORkicker

Bah, why would she do that?

Well, I kind of know the answer to that question, attention. Once you learn that attention is what women crave the most, everything will fall in place, trust me.

If you ever wonder why a girl or woman acts the way she does, in 9/10 or even more, it can be explained through the attention phenomena. Let me illustrate with this perfectly simple example, let's say your girlfriend gets a new haircut, and you don't notice. She gets mad about it, and you're like wtf?

But then if you use the secret kept by wise men for centuries, you'll know why. You didn't give her the required attention, therefor she is mad.

Some girls are able to break free from this painfully childish behavior, but they are few, and far between.

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#49 XDXDXDXDXDXDXD
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Girl B.

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#50 deactivated-5a078b8de7122
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Girl A because if you blow it with Girl B you lose a friend.