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#1 Model-007
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Ok,so i was going out with this girl last year,we went out for 3 months and then just drifted apart,it was pretty serious but then we broke up and didnt talk for about 6 months,so she called a couple of months back and weve been talking and now she likes me again and wants to go out again,but im over her and dont like her anymore,now this is where it gets complicated...i talk to her from time to time and ive also been talking to her best friend,2 days back i was hanging out with both of them,and her friend told me she likes me,and im quite interested in her too,should i go out with her ? I dont want to ruin what they have,i really dont know what to do...
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#2 Private_Adam
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Go out, you got nothing to lose.
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#3 foxhound_fox
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Why don't you talk to her about this and express your feelings and how they have changed over time?
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#4 BrendanBox39
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I bet if you go out with her and promise to have a threesome that includes ur ex... ahem. sorry 'bout that
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#5 AS-All-Star
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three-way?
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#6 SolidSnake35
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Well, I was still hoping that we'd get back together...
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#7 xxDustmanxx
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Go out with both of them, that way you can decide which one of the two you prefer.Then you can dump the one you don't like.

*warning:Don't take this advice seriously.*

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#8 deactivated-5e0e425ee91d8
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lucky you buddy, you got a threesom set up for you

but i digress, why not just tell the first chick you don't like her anymore and that your feelings for her have changed over time, leave the part about her friend out and date her in a month or so when the first chick is over you

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#9 Oleg_Huzwog
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There's nothing complicated about the problem. (Misleading title!) The simple and obvious solution is to choose neither, and instead give dudes a try. Do either of these girls have brothers? If so, make your move.

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#10 worthyofnote
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Do what you want, there's no real complication. Just tell your ex how you feel.
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#11 CIoud_S
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you just have to man up and tell her you're not interested and make a move on the friend...ftr....if they really are close freinds.....don't count on dating the friend and expect it to be ugly...
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#12 xhellcatx
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Answer to your problem - Honesty. With all parties included.
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#13 xSIZEMATTER
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This want end well......
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#14 CIoud_S
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Answer to your problem - Honesty. With all parties included.xhellcatx
pfft....that take integrity.....there's very little of that left in the world....
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#16 Lord__Darkstorn
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You better be damn sure that you like the friend, because if you're gonna risk not being able to talk to your ex ever again, it'd better be worth it.
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#17 SkyFlakez
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that is very complicated. you can ruin their relationship as best of friends much better to set them free. i mean find another girl that has no conflicts..
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#18 xSIZEMATTER
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You better be damn sure that you like the friend, because if you're gonna risk not being able to talk to your ex ever again, it'd better be worth it.Lord__Darkstorn

And just think if this girl turned out too be an guy...I mean just sit back and think about that.

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#19 andyboiii
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this reminds me of that seinfeld episode The Switch
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#20 wizard90
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I saw that you had a complicated girl problem and I just HAD to click on your thread....
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#21 clash76-grunger
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um...this is like that damn gossip. Go out with the hotter one. Are you that stupid!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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#22 Serraph105
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shes pregnant its early and your not the father, but she wants to blame it on you so she is pretending to like you so i say no.

btw ive been watching a lot of House lately so im getting into this cold calculating way of thinking so dont take everything i say to heart

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#23 clash76-grunger
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shes pregnant its early and your not the father, but she wants to blame it on you so she is pretending to like you so i say no.

btw ive been watching a lot of House lately so im getting into this cold calculating way of thinking so dont take everything i say to heart

Serraph105

I am reading your symptoms, and you seem to have watched alot of House. You can have to large decisions........

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#24 DOS4dinner
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The truth shall set you free, brother. Be honest. Worst case scenerio, they both get mad, tell their even hotter friends you are an honest guy, and the uber hot chicks will be begging for a date. Really, honesty pays off.
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#25 Serraph105
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[QUOTE="Serraph105"]

shes pregnant its early and your not the father, but she wants to blame it on you so she is pretending to like you so i say no.

btw ive been watching a lot of House lately so im getting into this cold calculating way of thinking so dont take everything i say to heart

clash76-grunger

I am reading your symptoms, and you seem to have watched alot of House. You can have to large decisions........

wouldnt it be great if i ended up being right though?

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#26 ferranisha
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A friend can easily be a gf but hard to switch it back when something happen to the new relationship. Dont make a hasty decision. First move you should be honest with ur Xgf. Tell her how things changed. Make a clean break with her not because her bestfriend waiting for you in the corner. Dont involve her friend in this as it surely create bitter feelings between them. After you are really free...available...single...Then ask ur heart ...u still want her friend? If the answer still yea....Go for it. All best of luck to you in whatever decision you make.
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#28 The_AI
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Ok,so i was going out with this girl last year,we went out for 3 months and then just drifted apart,it was pretty serious but then we broke up and didnt talk for about 6 months,so she called a couple of months back and weve been talking and now she likes me again and wants to go out again,but im over her and dont like her anymore,now this is where it gets complicated...i talk to her from time to time and ive also been talking to her best friend,2 days back i was hanging out with both of them,and her friend told me she likes me,and im quite interested in her too,should i go out with her ? I dont want to ruin what they have,i really dont know what to do...Model-007

That's about as complex as a piece of cheese.

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#29 Krazy_duck
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[QUOTE="Serraph105"]

shes pregnant its early and your not the father, but she wants to blame it on you so she is pretending to like you so i say no.

btw ive been watching a lot of House lately so im getting into this cold calculating way of thinking so dont take everything i say to heart

clash76-grunger

I am reading your symptoms, and you seem to have watched alot of House. You can have to large decisions........

Dam ni just watched yesterdays episode on my DVR. **** dude

icant wait for next week. the end was ****ting awesome

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#30 gameroz
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wtf is up with girls these days
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#31 Dmw09
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three-way?AS-All-Star

YES this guys got it

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#32 ligerz76
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That's like my fantasy, man, nice going.
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#33 ClassicPlayer
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Ok,so i was going out with this girl last year,we went out for 3 months and then just drifted apart,it was pretty serious but then we broke up and didnt talk for about 6 months,so she called a couple of months back and weve been talking and now she likes me again and wants to go out again,but im over her and dont like her anymore,now this is where it gets complicated...i talk to her from time to time and ive also been talking to her best friend,2 days back i was hanging out with both of them,and her friend told me she likes me,and im quite interested in her too,should i go out with her ? I dont want to ruin what they have,i really dont know what to do...Model-007

Tell your ex that you've moved on from her, and then like a week or 2 later ask the other girl out. Hopefully you'll get a good result.

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#34 LJS9502_basic
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Tell girl one you're not interested in her....as for girl two...if she's indeed good friends with girl one then nothing will happen. Honestly since you've invested nothing in a relationship...move on and find a different girl.
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three-way?AS-All-Star

LOL! Awesome :P

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#37 Ontain
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i say go for it. it's the girl that should decide if she wants to confront her friend. not your problem.
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#38 killerkool07
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Go out with both of them, that way you can decide which one of the two you prefer.Then you can dump the one you don't like.

i was wondering are you a professional if ya are please tell me where ya set up great advice

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#39 dragonfly110
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There's nothing complicated about the problem. (Misleading title!) The simple and obvious solution is to choose neither, and instead give dudes a try. Do either of these girls have brothers? If so, make your move.

Oleg_Huzwog

Umm... are you serious, because if you are that's okay but still I think that he was implying that he was not gay...

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#40 Forerunner-117
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I think you should just go for it. It's no concern of yours what happens between her and her friend.
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#41 Boba_Fett_3710
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I already know what's going to happen. You are going to mess everything up and end up alone. Don't flip flop, figure out what you are going to do and do it.
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#42 xhellcatx
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A better question is, are either girls worth the trouble?
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#43 princess1087
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i agree with the threesom ones.

but in all honesty if you've moved on, tell her. then ask out the friend in a few weeks.

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#44 xhellcatx
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i agree with the threesom ones.

but in all honesty if you've moved on, tell her. then ask out the friend in a few weeks.

princess1087
threesome ONLY works if someone makes a move on it and the other parties are willing to participate. If no one talks, its not going to happen. That, and I also think that its most likely not going to happen, no matter how nice it would be.
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#45 jpph
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go for her friend if thats what you want.

im not saying you should be inconsiderate but its awful how people are held back by guilt.

a good few times ive had to restrain myself from going with girls i liked because of other peoples opinions. i really really regret it.

you've no reason not to, no reason to be sorry

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#46 princess1087
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threesome ONLY works if someone makes a move on it and the other parties are willing to participate. If no one talks, its not going to happen. That, and I also think that its most likely not going to happen, no matter how nice it would be. xhellcatx

it was said in pure sarcasm. :|

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Do what you want, there's no real complication. Just tell your ex how you feel.worthyofnote

There's nothing complicated about the problem. (Misleading title!) The simple and obvious solution is to choose neither, and instead give dudes a try. Do either of these girls have brothers? If so, make your move.

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LOLZ!