Confession - I have issues with resolving matters in an acceptable time frame

Yeah, even urgent matters. I'm too complacent and so far, I haven't suffered from any severe, or even minor, consequences from putting important things off. But that's just it, I'm worried that this is gonna bite me in the ass one day. I feel I can barely be responsible for myself, let alone other people and I don't think that it's acceptable at 23 years old when I'm living away from my parents. I don't know what to do about this.

What in the hell are you talking about :?

I'm saying that I'm not quick enough to solve even urgent matters because of my complacency and because of this, I don't feel very responsible.

Sounds like you're just lazy. Everyday that doesn't bite you in the ass is a lucky day. You need to make it a point to solve your problems right now. NOW. The problem is that you give real problems low priorities. Solving your problems should be right up there with taking a shower but it's not and so you will continue to procrastinate. This will probably continue until:

A) You make a conscious effort to solve problems and give them high priority

B) Life smacks you in the face and you wish you considered A.

You don't want B to happen.

Write things down, follow those goals. Dont think, just do it, as Nike ad would say.

A) You make a conscious effort to solve problems and give them high priorityanthonycg

Reward yourself, like if you focus on getting one thing done later on you'll do something you enjoy

Other than that, nothing to it but to do it. Just force yourself into it, because if you get it done you'll be much happier in the long run

Sounds like you just need to learn to grow up and get your priorities straight.