Could you live happily without a significant other the rest of your life?

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#1 deactivated-5d693385560c3
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For me, I think I would be fine being single my whole life but I'm not 100 percent sure.

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#2 GazaAli
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No you must be young to believe so. As you grow up you realize the extreme importance of your significant other.
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#3 The_Gaming_Baby
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I'm not sure. I do like being alone, but there comes a time when you need someone to take care of you

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#4 kriggy
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I need someone by my side. Life is hard if you have to deal with everything yourself all of the time.
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#5 tryagainlater
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I do really like my privacy and being alone but as I get older, maybe things will change.

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#6 deactivated-5b78379493e12
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I could not imagine my life without my wife and son.

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#7 StrifeDelivery
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No you must be young to believe so. As you grow up you realize the extreme importance of your significant other.GazaAli

Kind of a narrow viewpoint, isn't it?

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#8 Netherscourge
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Nope. I could survive, but I'd be miserable and feel like a loser. The idea of dating horrifies me now too. lol I don't want to go through that nonsense all over again.
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#9 Jaysonguy
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Humans are a social animal, it'a a scientific fact.

Anyone who could live alone for the rest of their life is broken, something went wrong that made them different from how the rest of their kind is supposed to act.

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#10 TwistedShade
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No I think I would go insane, if  I couldn't have a wife and settle with some kids. I'm not really sure what someone single what do their whole life.

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#11 GazaAli
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[QUOTE="GazaAli"]No you must be young to believe so. As you grow up you realize the extreme importance of your significant other.StrifeDelivery

Kind of a narrow viewpoint, isn't it?

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#12 AdamPA1006
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No, I really want a wife and family at somep point in my life.

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#13 one_plum
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Not sure. Ask nuns, monks and priests if they're living happily.

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#14 deactivated-5a9b3f32ef4e9
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I have done up to now and haven't really had any problems. 

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#15 GazaAli
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Not sure. Ask nuns, monks and priests if they're living happily.

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seeing how they're fondling kids all day, I say no they're not.
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#16 marcheegsr
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It may be fine when your younger but when your older you don't want to be alone.

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#17 Michael0134567
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Not for the rest of my life, I couldn't.

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#18 indzman
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Not for the rest of my life, I couldn't.

Michael0134567

i can :|

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#19 Michael0134567
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[QUOTE="Michael0134567"]

Not for the rest of my life, I couldn't.

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i can :|

That's good for you. I couldn't live happily.
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#20 Gargus
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I spent 37 years of my life pretty much alone. I grew up on my grand parents farm and was alone, never had many friends and only 1 in my whole life I consider a true friend, never dated much, and so on. I was prepared and comfortable being alone the rest of my life.

But I met a girl a almost 2 years ago and she has become a big part of my life and I am glad she is in it. We fit together perfectly so Im pretty sure we will be together for a very long time and I like it. I dont think Id want to spend the rest of my life without her.

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#21 indzman
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[QUOTE="indzman"]

[QUOTE="Michael0134567"]

Not for the rest of my life, I couldn't.

Michael0134567

i can :|

That's good for you. I couldn't live happily.

mhm

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#22 Michael0134567
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[QUOTE="Michael0134567"][QUOTE="indzman"]

i can :|

indzman

That's good for you. I couldn't live happily.

mhm

Well, alright. Geez.
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#23 indzman
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[QUOTE="indzman"]

[QUOTE="Michael0134567"] That's good for you. I couldn't live happily.Michael0134567

mhm

Well, alright. Geez.

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#24 VaguelyTagged
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i'd say it's possible but it's highly dependant on a few factors; first off, you need money. second, you need to be able to keep yourself occupied all the time and of course you should never fall in love. once you fell in love with someone and lost them there is no turning back, it's possible to get over that person but there is absolutely no way one can get over that feeling they once felt with that person.

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#25 deactivated-5c74ba2955026
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Yes I can. I've been alone most of my life anyway, so it's something I'm used to. I don't have to worry about anything else or anybody else. I'm content with it and I don't mind if I am the rest of my life. I do hope I find "the one" some day, but being alone isn't a bad thing at all
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#26 zenogandia
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Sure. Having sex with friends is a great. I think eventually I'd like to settle down, but when I'm like 37-40. 

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#27 Jimn_tonic
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you definitely need intimate companionship to live a happy life.

happiness wont last long without someone to spontaneously reinforce it.

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#28 EmpCom
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Could I yes but would I want too no
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#29 call_of_duty_10
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I think I will go insane if someone else starts living in my house.

Plus,I don't want to share my hard earned money.I would rather crawl naked over glass shards,than give a single penny to someone without taking anything in return.

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#30 Jimn_tonic
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I think I will go insane if someone else starts living in my house.

Plus,I don't want to share my hard earned money.I would rather crawl naked over glass shards,than give a single penny to someone without taking anything in return.

call_of_duty_10

Lai?

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#31 Lord_Omikron666
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Yes, and I'd like to keep it that way.

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#32 PiscesChick93
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Nope, it would be pretty lonely.

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#33 ROD
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For me, I think I would be fine being single my whole life but I'm not 100 percent sure.

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Would *I* be? For sure. Sadly though society is kind of designed to make you look like a loser or sad person if you are single, though. Maybe not on purpose, but that's how it is, though.
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#34 ROD
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I spent 37 years of my life pretty much alone. I grew up on my grand parents farm and was alone, never had many friends and only 1 in my whole life I consider a true friend, never dated much, and so on. I was prepared and comfortable being alone the rest of my life.

But I met a girl a almost 2 years ago and she has become a big part of my life and I am glad she is in it. We fit together perfectly so Im pretty sure we will be together for a very long time and I like it. I dont think Id want to spend the rest of my life without her.

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How did you end meeting someone at 37, especially with not many friends? It's quite a story, considering most people are doom& gloom if they finish college without a girlfriend...
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#35 call_of_duty_10
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[QUOTE="call_of_duty_10"]

I think I will go insane if someone else starts living in my house.

Plus,I don't want to share my hard earned money.I would rather crawl naked over glass shards,than give a single penny to someone without taking anything in return.

Jimn_tonic

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#36 Teenaged
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I dont think so.

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#37 ghoklebutter
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Not at all. I'm prone to feeling very lonely, and while I appreciate friends and family, companionship is important to me as well.
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#38 firefluff3
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I think i'd be content with not having a partner for the rest of my life. All I really want for the future is a small place to live with lots of money left over for travelling, electronics, concerts/festivals and a decent social life. then again i'm 16 and what i want will probably change.

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#39 Gargus
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[QUOTE="Gargus"]

I spent 37 years of my life pretty much alone. I grew up on my grand parents farm and was alone, never had many friends and only 1 in my whole life I consider a true friend, never dated much, and so on. I was prepared and comfortable being alone the rest of my life.

But I met a girl a almost 2 years ago and she has become a big part of my life and I am glad she is in it. We fit together perfectly so Im pretty sure we will be together for a very long time and I like it. I dont think Id want to spend the rest of my life without her.

ROD

How did you end meeting someone at 37, especially with not many friends? It's quite a story, considering most people are doom& gloom if they finish college without a girlfriend...

Online dating.

Insanely enough it was on craigslist of all places. But it was free to post an ad there so was I copying/pasting my profile from okcupid for a bit and she answered and we hit it right off first time we met.

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#40 Davulao
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No you must be young to believe so. As you grow up you realize the extreme importance of your significant other.GazaAli
This^
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#41 Tessellation
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i've been in several relationships and once married.. i realized that i can go on alone and i don't enjoy being emotionally attached to a person,I also enjoy my freedom and have fun with different women,some day i might find someone to spend the rest of my life with but if not i am totally ok with it.
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#42 whipassmt
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I think I could possibly. To be honest though I have a hard time seeing myself in the future beyond my present state in life (i.e. living with my parents).

That being said not having a "significant other" does not necessarily equate to being lonely, there are other relationships like family and friends.

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#43 whipassmt
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[QUOTE="one_plum"]

Not sure. Ask nuns, monks and priests if they're living happily.

GazaAli

seeing how they're fondling kids all day, I say no they're not.

they aren't though. In fact the rates of child abuse are actually lower among priests, nuns and monks are lower than that of the general population, rabbis and protestant minister. The majority of child molesters are married or in other relatioships.

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#44 Fightingfan
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I don't need to get married.
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#45 megagene
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By "significant other", do you mean a spouse or exclusive committed partner? Because assuming I can still have intimate encounters and friendships with as many women as I want, I don't see why I wouldn't be able to still lead a happy life. I don't particularly care whether or not I end up having children. Not having a government certificate or official Facebook relationship status (not including "complicated") wouldn't really impact my emotional state of being too much one way or the other.
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#46 deactivated-5d693385560c3
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By "significant other", do you mean a spouse or exclusive committed partner? megagene
I meant either.

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#47 worlock77
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Yes, I could.

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#48 ROD
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[QUOTE="ROD"][QUOTE="Gargus"]

I spent 37 years of my life pretty much alone. I grew up on my grand parents farm and was alone, never had many friends and only 1 in my whole life I consider a true friend, never dated much, and so on. I was prepared and comfortable being alone the rest of my life.

But I met a girl a almost 2 years ago and she has become a big part of my life and I am glad she is in it. We fit together perfectly so Im pretty sure we will be together for a very long time and I like it. I dont think Id want to spend the rest of my life without her.

Gargus

How did you end meeting someone at 37, especially with not many friends? It's quite a story, considering most people are doom& gloom if they finish college without a girlfriend...

Online dating.

Insanely enough it was on craigslist of all places. But it was free to post an ad there so was I copying/pasting my profile from okcupid for a bit and she answered and we hit it right off first time we met.

Happy story, congrats! Funny how good 'ol craigslist worked better than a specialized site.
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#49 ROD
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I think I could possibly. To be honest though I have a hard time seeing myself in the future beyond my present state in life (i.e. living with my parents).

That being said not having a "significant other" does not necessarily equate to being lonely, there are other relationships like family and friends.

whipassmt
1) How old are you? 2) How so? (Not being able to see yourself in the future beyond your present state of life).
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#50 certifieddata
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At this point in my life I say yes, that may change at some point, but who knows.