For me, I think I would be fine being single my whole life but I'm not 100 percent sure.
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I'm not sure. I do like being alone, but there comes a time when you need someone to take care of you
No you must be young to believe so. As you grow up you realize the extreme importance of your significant other.GazaAli
Kind of a narrow viewpoint, isn't it?
No I think I would go insane, if  I couldn't have a wife and settle with some kids. I'm not really sure what someone single what do their whole life.
[QUOTE="Michael0134567"]
Not for the rest of my life, I couldn't.
indzman
i can :|
That's good for you. I couldn't live happily.I spent 37 years of my life pretty much alone. I grew up on my grand parents farm and was alone, never had many friends and only 1 in my whole life I consider a true friend, never dated much, and so on. I was prepared and comfortable being alone the rest of my life.
But I met a girl a almost 2 years ago and she has become a big part of my life and I am glad she is in it. We fit together perfectly so Im pretty sure we will be together for a very long time and I like it. I dont think Id want to spend the rest of my life without her.
That's good for you. I couldn't live happily.[QUOTE="Michael0134567"][QUOTE="indzman"]
i can :|
indzman
mhm
Well, alright. Geez.i'd say it's possible but it's highly dependant on a few factors; first off, you need money. second, you need to be able to keep yourself occupied all the time and of course you should never fall in love. once you fell in love with someone and lost them there is no turning back, it's possible to get over that person but there is absolutely no way one can get over that feeling they once felt with that person.
Sure. Having sex with friends is a great. I think eventually I'd like to settle down, but when I'm like 37-40.Â
you definitely need intimate companionship to live a happy life.
happiness wont last long without someone to spontaneously reinforce it.
I think I will go insane if someone else starts living in my house.
Plus,I don't want to share my hard earned money.I would rather crawl naked over glass shards,than give a single penny to someone without taking anything in return.
I think I will go insane if someone else starts living in my house.
Plus,I don't want to share my hard earned money.I would rather crawl naked over glass shards,than give a single penny to someone without taking anything in return.
call_of_duty_10
Lai?
Would *I* be? For sure. Sadly though society is kind of designed to make you look like a loser or sad person if you are single, though. Maybe not on purpose, but that's how it is, though.For me, I think I would be fine being single my whole life but I'm not 100 percent sure.
Stranger_36
How did you end meeting someone at 37, especially with not many friends? It's quite a story, considering most people are doom& gloom if they finish college without a girlfriend...I spent 37 years of my life pretty much alone. I grew up on my grand parents farm and was alone, never had many friends and only 1 in my whole life I consider a true friend, never dated much, and so on. I was prepared and comfortable being alone the rest of my life.
But I met a girl a almost 2 years ago and she has become a big part of my life and I am glad she is in it. We fit together perfectly so Im pretty sure we will be together for a very long time and I like it. I dont think Id want to spend the rest of my life without her.
Gargus
[QUOTE="call_of_duty_10"]
I think I will go insane if someone else starts living in my house.
Plus,I don't want to share my hard earned money.I would rather crawl naked over glass shards,than give a single penny to someone without taking anything in return.
Jimn_tonic
Lai?
My knowledge regarding the denizens of 'off topic' is minimal,but I do possess some information about the person known as 'Laihandi'. Rest assured that we are not related in any way.I think i'd be content with not having a partner for the rest of my life. All I really want for the future is a small place to live with lots of money left over for travelling, electronics, concerts/festivals and a decent social life. then again i'm 16 and what i want will probably change.
[QUOTE="Gargus"]How did you end meeting someone at 37, especially with not many friends? It's quite a story, considering most people are doom& gloom if they finish college without a girlfriend...I spent 37 years of my life pretty much alone. I grew up on my grand parents farm and was alone, never had many friends and only 1 in my whole life I consider a true friend, never dated much, and so on. I was prepared and comfortable being alone the rest of my life.
But I met a girl a almost 2 years ago and she has become a big part of my life and I am glad she is in it. We fit together perfectly so Im pretty sure we will be together for a very long time and I like it. I dont think Id want to spend the rest of my life without her.
ROD
Online dating.
Insanely enough it was on craigslist of all places. But it was free to post an ad there so was I copying/pasting my profile from okcupid for a bit and she answered and we hit it right off first time we met.
I think I could possibly. To be honest though I have a hard time seeing myself in the future beyond my present state in life (i.e. living with my parents).
That being said not having a "significant other" does not necessarily equate to being lonely, there are other relationships like family and friends.
[QUOTE="one_plum"]seeing how they're fondling kids all day, I say no they're not. they aren't though. In fact the rates of child abuse are actually lower among priests, nuns and monks are lower than that of the general population, rabbis and protestant minister. The majority of child molesters are married or in other relatioships.Not sure. Ask nuns, monks and priests if they're living happily.
GazaAli
By "significant other", do you mean a spouse or exclusive committed partner? megageneI meant either.
How did you end meeting someone at 37, especially with not many friends? It's quite a story, considering most people are doom& gloom if they finish college without a girlfriend...[QUOTE="ROD"][QUOTE="Gargus"]
I spent 37 years of my life pretty much alone. I grew up on my grand parents farm and was alone, never had many friends and only 1 in my whole life I consider a true friend, never dated much, and so on. I was prepared and comfortable being alone the rest of my life.
But I met a girl a almost 2 years ago and she has become a big part of my life and I am glad she is in it. We fit together perfectly so Im pretty sure we will be together for a very long time and I like it. I dont think Id want to spend the rest of my life without her.
Gargus
Online dating.
Insanely enough it was on craigslist of all places. But it was free to post an ad there so was I copying/pasting my profile from okcupid for a bit and she answered and we hit it right off first time we met.
Happy story, congrats! Funny how good 'ol craigslist worked better than a specialized site.1) How old are you? 2) How so? (Not being able to see yourself in the future beyond your present state of life).I think I could possibly. To be honest though I have a hard time seeing myself in the future beyond my present state in life (i.e. living with my parents).
That being said not having a "significant other" does not necessarily equate to being lonely, there are other relationships like family and friends.
whipassmt
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