Couple of questions about sex (Hope this is allowed here)

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#1 lol_haha_dead
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Like I asked in the title, I hope this is apropiate and we can all be mature about this. I mean all of us are either 13 or older right?

My first question is how can someone be "bad in bed?" I thought there was no such thing as a bad experience in sex. Could'nt you just position the woman how you want her and have your way with him/her? Correct me if I'm wrong but I thought sex was GREAT no matter what:| My main question is how can a woman be bad in bed since I'm a dude. (I think any woman would be able to satisfy me)

My second is, what's the deal with most women moaning and groaning in bed? I mean, what's the point? Do they do this becuase it adds to the experince or are they just copying off what the see in porn? I have no clue, that's why I'm asking these questions.

Again, I hope mods don't lock this I don't think I broke any ToS rules, then again I'm new here, but if it gets locked whatever. Answers please:D

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Okay, let's go to the extreme case scenario here: if the woman is comatose, she's going to be bad in bed. For your second question, many women can't even help but moan.
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#3 lol_haha_dead
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Okay, let's go to the extreme case scenario here: if the woman is comatose, she's going to be bad in bed. For your second question, many women can't even help but moan. Luncbox1
What do you mean by "comatose"?
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#4 Avistann
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1. It is possible to be bad in bed. If you don't show "emotion" with it, it would become kind of a turn off. Also, if you are fumbling around all the time then that could lead to that. Also sorry to break it to you but sex isn't the feeling like you died and went to heaven. People expect too much out of sex. Don't get me wrong, it is VERY enjoyable. It is just not like the movies. 2. Moaning is a turn on for some guys.
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[QUOTE="Luncbox1"]Okay, let's go to the extreme case scenario here: if the woman is comatose, she's going to be bad in bed. For your second question, many women can't even help but moan. lol_haha_dead
What do you mean by "comatose"?

unconscious. That's an extreme example, though. If she just doesn't care, then it wouldn't be fun. Who would want to do a girl who's just reading a book and doesn't care about what you're doing? That would suck.
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Oh. My. God. Pleasepleaseplease don't be a troll, this is too funny.
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#7 Soul-Doctor
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Women moan involuntarily.
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The moaning and groaning..see..In videogames when you get hit,your character moans or groans too..It's the immersion..Like for real.

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#9 ferrari2001
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Here is the answer to both questions Orgasm Either present or lack of one.
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#10 Ace_WondersX
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Here is the answer to both questions Orgasm Either present or lack of one. ferrari2001

you killed the thread pretty quickly.
this covers both questions.

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theres a lot of magic involved with sex.
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#12 lol_haha_dead
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I thought it was rather easy to achieve an orgasm from the male's perspective. The male inserts his penis intil ejaculation right? Ejaculation is the orgasm right?

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People who are usually considered "bad in bed" are those that 1) can only satisfy themselves, 2) take to little or too much time to get satisfied, 3) do not communicate with their partner what is "good" for them and 4) someone who isn't willing to give more than they take.

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I thought it was rather easy to achieve an orgasm from the male's perspective. The male inserts his penis intil ejaculation right? Ejaculation is the orgasm right?

lol_haha_dead
yes, but the girl has to reach orgasm too, or it's "bad sex" for her.
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#15 ferrari2001
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[QUOTE="ferrari2001"]Here is the answer to both questions Orgasm Either present or lack of one. Ace_WondersX

you killed the thread pretty quickly.
this covers both questions.

Sorry I can't hold my thread ending awesomeness back.

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yes, but the girl has to reach orgasm too, or it's "bad sex" for her.Ace_WondersX

Not exactly. Many women (say they) just enjoy the physical intimacy regardless of orgasm. But I personally think they are lying.

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#17 Avistann
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[QUOTE="Ace_WondersX"]yes, but the girl has to reach orgasm too, or it's "bad sex" for her.foxhound_fox


Not exactly. Many women (say they) just enjoy the physical intimacy regardless of orgasm. But I personally think they are lying.

:lol: Agreed. It is better to let the girl get an orgasm before you finish.

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#18 Luncbox1
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[QUOTE="foxhound_fox"]

[QUOTE="Ace_WondersX"]yes, but the girl has to reach orgasm too, or it's "bad sex" for her.Avistann


Not exactly. Many women (say they) just enjoy the physical intimacy regardless of orgasm. But I personally think they are lying.

:lol: Agreed. It is better to let the girl get an orgasm before you finish.

:P that way you can fall asleep immediately without feeling guilty

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#19 JeM760soCAL
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"Bad in bed" means that you were to fast. You need to at least have the girl finish...

Wow, Dude are you serious? To hear a girl moan is great! Pure satisfaction and you know you weren't bad.

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#20 binpink
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If it takes 2 seconds; if neither party ends up satisfied; if your partner is boring = it's bad. But it's different for everyone so what's bad to one person might be good to another.

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#21 Optical_Order
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theres a lot of magic involved with sex.savetehhaloz

Very true. Always bring your wand when entering intercourse related actions.

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#22 FastNorwegian
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I thought it was rather easy to achieve an orgasm from the male's perspective. The male inserts his penis intil ejaculation right? Ejaculation is the orgasm right?

lol_haha_dead
I am so sorry bud, but I cannot stop thinking about Borat talking about...nevermind, I'm married and still too immature for this thread :lol:.
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#23 foxhound_fox
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:lol: Agreed. It is better to let the girl get an orgasm before you finish.

Avistann


Or just have fast recovery.

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#24 XilePrincess
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1. If they're selfish, they don't try to cater to the other person at all and just care about getting themselves off or just basically forget the other person's there. That's terrible. But from a guy's point of view I guess it would be a girl who shows zero interest and just really lies there half asleep for the entire thing just waiting for him to be done.(edit: I didn't even think about female's perspective of a guy finishing too fast because my s/o makes sure im done at least twice before he is. it takes a god to do that, I have never ever heard of somebody else being able to do that to a girl.)

2. Porn. This is where it's learned. It's expected by males because most learn everything from it, and this is passed on to females who then do it extremely over-exaggeratedly in order to sound like that. Or for some, it actually is just an involuntary natural thing because theyre enjoying themselves.

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#25 lol_haha_dead
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Now you guys are getting me all worried. How long should the average guy be able to last in bed? Is 20-30 minutes ideal? I hope I can last long when I have my first time with a special girl.
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A person that is bad in bed is someone who doesnt put their heart into it. Whether or not love is a factor, you should at least like the person enough to want to put in a good effort, and that effort should be returned...thus leading to good sex. Trust me, so long as you try to please your partner, and theyre a good person, the sex will be good. Just dont lay there, and dont be afraid to ask what he/she likes (but dont sound too desperate to please).

As for moaning, Idunno...Im not female. I imagine they moan because it feels good lol. I love it when a woman moans, music to my ears.

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Now you guys are getting me all worried. How long should the average guy be able to last in bed? Is 20-30 minutes ideal? I hope I can last long when I have my first time with a special girl.lol_haha_dead

It depends on the girl. My ex didnt take long at all. 30 mins should do it.

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Now you guys are getting me all worried. How long should the average guy be able to last in bed? Is 20-30 minutes ideal? I hope I can last long when I have my first time with a special girl.lol_haha_dead
I've heard people's first ranging from 2 minutes to an hour. don't worry too much, if you get too ahead of yourself just stop for a minute, and I'm sure if she's 'special' she won't mind if you're kind of sucky with self control. Just make it up to her after.
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[QUOTE="lol_haha_dead"]Now you guys are getting me all worried. How long should the average guy be able to last in bed? Is 20-30 minutes ideal? I hope I can last long when I have my first time with a special girl.XilePrincess
I've heard people's first ranging from 2 minutes to an hour. don't worry too much, if you get too ahead of yourself just stop for a minute, and I'm sure if she's 'special' she won't mind if you're kind of sucky with self control. Just make it up to her after.

Yeah, go for round 2.

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it takes a god to do that, I have never ever heard of somebody else being able to do that to a girl.)XilePrincess

In one session with my girlfriend, I got off thrice and her 12 times. She kind of lost count though, since they were all just one after another.

Now you guys are getting me all worried. How long should the average guy be able to last in bed? Is 20-30 minutes ideal? I hope I can last long when I have my first time with a special girl.lol_haha_dead

Learn foreplay and how to use other parts of your body and how long you last won't matter.

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#31 lol_haha_dead
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Thanks guys, you all are a really big help! One last question though... Does sex feel the same with a condom on vs a condom off?
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#32 jasperrussell
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actually having sex should answer most of your questions.

But recently a friend (female) said her ex was bad in bed - He just lay there and expected her to do everything.

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#33 jasperrussell
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Thanks guys, you all are a really big help! One last question though... Does sex feel the same with a condom on vs a condom off?lol_haha_dead
There's not a great deal of difference. I'm suspecting that you would be happy either way ;)

edit: NOT having an unplanned baby is a great feeling!

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#34 FastNorwegian
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Thanks guys, you all are a really big help! One last question though... Does sex feel the same with a condom on vs a condom off?lol_haha_dead
Nope, just for the love of God, don't take it off! Now go get em' tiger!
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#35 Avistann
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[QUOTE="XilePrincess"]it takes a god to do that, I have never ever heard of somebody else being able to do that to a girl.)foxhound_fox


In one session with my girlfriend, I got off thrice and her 12 times. She kind of lost count though, since they were all just one after another.



Yeah it is not impossible at all. It just depends on the girl. My girlfriend is really easy to get off. After about ten minutes, I can get her off at least 5 times. Some girls can not even reach an orgasm.
Thanks guys, you all are a really big help! One last question though... Does sex feel the same with a condom on vs a condom off?lol_haha_dead
Condoms lower the pleasure a lot but still use them no matter what until you are ready to settle with kids. Make sure you pull out even with condoms as well. Safety first. :)

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#36 JeM760soCAL
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Thanks guys, you all are a really big help! One last question though... Does sex feel the same with a condom on vs a condom off?lol_haha_dead

N, it doesnt feel the same. Use your commend sense, there definitely is a difference. This is funny, one day your gonna remember asking everybody at GameSpot about sex. By that time your gonna be a pro.

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#37 JeM760soCAL
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Remember, when your girl asks you how you became so good; tell her GAMESPOT!!!!

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Remember, when your girl asks you how you became so good; tell her GAMESPOT!!!!

JeM760soCAL
lol i sure will
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Premature.
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Thanks guys, you all are a really big help! One last question though... Does sex feel the same with a condom on vs a condom off?lol_haha_dead

better off, but Aids feels better off too. So be careful there, bro.

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What determines your "stamina" in bed for men? Just how powerful and fit you are or some other criteria?
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This thread is too funny, its interesting to here everyone talk like they are some sex guru :lol: Just have sex for yourself, the first time is always bad.

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What determines your "stamina" in bed for men? Just how powerful and fit you are or some other criteria?PC_Gamer_7
how long you can last both physically and sexually.
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[QUOTE="foxhound_fox"]

[QUOTE="Ace_WondersX"]yes, but the girl has to reach orgasm too, or it's "bad sex" for her.Avistann


Not exactly. Many women (say they) just enjoy the physical intimacy regardless of orgasm. But I personally think they are lying.

:lol: Agreed. It is better to let the girl get an orgasm before you finish.

That's right, ladies first.

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What's this! foxhound_fox having sex! with his girlfriend! Madness.
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[QUOTE="lol_haha_dead"]

Like I asked in the title, I hope this is apropiate and we can all be mature about this. I mean all of us are either 13 or older right?

My first question is how can someone be "bad in bed?" I thought there was no such thing as a bad experience in sex. Could'nt you just position the woman how you want her and have your way with him/her? Correct me if I'm wrong but I thought sex was GREAT no matter what:| My main question is how can a woman be bad in bed since I'm a dude. (I think any woman would be able to satisfy me)

My second is, what's the deal with most women moaning and groaning in bed? I mean, what's the point? Do they do this becuase it adds to the experince or are they just copying off what the see in porn? I have no clue, that's why I'm asking these questions.

Again, I hope mods don't lock this I don't think I broke any ToS rules, then again I'm new here, but if it gets locked whatever. Answers please:D

1- Bad in bed means they have no idea what they are doing 2- They guy usually leads, chooses postion , etc. 3- Moaning is because they like it... if she is moaning loud.. she LOVES IT ...if shes quiet....then she is usually bored
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#47 XilePrincess
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3- Moaning is because they like it... if she is moaning loud.. she LOVES IT ...if shes quiet....then she is usually boredhardyfan8
I must disagree, more often than not if a girl is quiet it's because she's not at ease with the situation, either because she's newly with that person (on a sexual level), because she's self conscious, or she just is not sure if the guy would enjoy her making noise. Most 'bored' girls over-exaggerate and that's when the unnatural rubber duckie porn moans come in. That just means get it over with.
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[QUOTE="hardyfan8"]3- Moaning is because they like it... if she is moaning loud.. she LOVES IT ...if shes quiet....then she is usually boredXilePrincess
I must disagree, more often than not if a girl is quiet it's because she's not at ease with the situation, either because she's newly with that person (on a sexual level), because she's self conscious, or she just is not sure if the guy would enjoy her making noise. Most 'bored' girls over-exaggerate and that's when the unnatural rubber duckie porn moans come in. That just means get it over with.

i'd say body language speaks more about if she's enjoying herself or not. Some girls are just quiet.
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Last question: sex feels best with a sandpaper condom.

Dude come on. It's common sense.

Nice joke thread.

(you should wear condoms by the way) be safe.

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#50 _en1gma_
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What's this! foxhound_fox having sex! with his girlfriend! Madness.domatron23

:O you don't say!