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#1 Zelda_89
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So theres this guy that works in an anime/game store,

I'm attracted to him but I don't know how to ask him out He seems shy and so am I, whenever i go there he follows me around the store and we'll talk about games etcand healways smiles and holds eye contact. Do guys like it if a girl asks a guy out?

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#2 Murj
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So theres this guy that works in an anime/game store,

I'm attracted to him but I don't know how to ask him out He seems shy and so am I, whenever i go there he follows me around the store and we'll talk about games etcand healways smiles and holds eye contact. Do guys like it if a girl asks a guy out?

Zelda_89

Yes. Guys love an ego boost.

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#3 PernicioEnigma
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I can't imagine a guy giving that much attention to a girl he wasn't at least somewhat attracted to her, so I think you should give it a shot.

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#4 -Big_Red-
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Yes, guys love it when girls ask them out. It shows them that the girl(you) has balls, and guys like a girl with balls:P. Just ask him to the movies or something, and while you guys are watching wrap your arms, around his, or hold his hand.
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#5 Zelda_89
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What can I say without it being awkward "Hey... so wanna go out?"

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#6 pengo93
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Yeah, dudes prefer it if a lady asks him out.

Also, I seem to be noticing an awful lot of these threads today...

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#7 Agent-Zero
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Go for it. Although it might become more of a "this girl likes me and I like that" thing at first, but once he gets to know you more he could like the real you.
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#8 -Big_Red-
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[QUOTE="pengo93"]

Yeah, dudes prefer it if a lady asks him out.

Also, I seem to be noticing an awful lot of these threads today...

Yeah, there are alot, It's The Holidays, love is in the air I guess.
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#9 -Big_Red-
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What can I say without it being awkward "Hey... so wanna go out?"

Zelda_89
Just tell him that you like him, and ask him if he would like to go out. Trust me, he'll be flattered.
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#10 cd_rom
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Let him bo.... nah. I think I'm going to let this one slide.
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#11 PoeticTheory
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Guys like that a lot.
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#12 tepni
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Ask if he wants to hang out, casually.

Does he enjoy playing videogames in his free time? You could have a cute movie/videogame laid back hang out sesh !

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#13 Zelda_89
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Thanks for the advice, I'll just have to bite the bullet and ask :)

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#14 metroidfood
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What can I say without it being awkward "Hey... so wanna go out?"

Zelda_89

"Hey, did you wanna go get coffee/go to a movie/get lunch together later?"

Then swap phone numbers. Bada-bing, bada-boom.

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#15 Ianleet
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So theres this guy that works in an anime/game store,

I'm attracted to him but I don't know how to ask him out He seems shy and so am I, whenever i go there he follows me around the store and we'll talk about games etcand healways smiles and holds eye contact. Do guys like it if a girl asks a guy out?

Zelda_89
Seduce him, always works on me.
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#16 XilePrincess
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Why care if guys like it when girls ask them out? If he didn't like it, he should have had the balls to ask you out before you beat him to it.
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#17 Shottayouth13-
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What can I say without it being awkward "Hey... so wanna go out?"

Zelda_89
Yep. Don't beat around the bush. Just get straight to the point.
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#18 aerial6790
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[QUOTE="-Big_Red-"][QUOTE="pengo93"]

Yeah, dudes prefer it if a lady asks him out.

Also, I seem to be noticing an awful lot of these threads today...

Yeah, there are alot, It's The Holidays, love is in the air I guess.

I thought that was Valentine's Day
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#19 VaguelyTagged
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[QUOTE="Zelda_89"]

What can I say without it being awkward "Hey... so wanna go out?"

-Big_Red-
Just tell him that you like him, and ask him if he would like to go out. Trust me, he'll be flattered.

not necessarily,depends how good TC looks.once an ugly girl came up to me and said hi,i was depressed for the next two weeks.
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#20 carrot-cake
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[QUOTE="Zelda_89"]

What can I say without it being awkward "Hey... so wanna go out?"

metroidfood

"Hey, did you wanna go get coffee/go to a movie/get lunch together later?"

Then swap phone numbers. Bada-bing, bada-boom.


Coffee is the slowest way to go I guess. Most harmless way as well. I mean, even if he wasn't interested, who doesnt like to go for coffee? He sounds like he is though.

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