How do I go about it!? Every once in a while you will get the one guy who does the little things to make life tougher than it needs to be.
First it starts with a control factor such as "Hey, can you get me some napkins" while we are both sitting at a table equal distance away from the napkins (a red flag goes up) sure I will get him some napkins but I have already given him the control.
Next it goes like this he will ask if I want to read a book he has as a cop-out nice way of going about it "I decline" but he insists and insists and forces his will upon me to pick the book up.
Finally when visiting friends of mine and general people he doesn't know he will make a comment like "Hey will you go bring that dish of brownies over here?" I ignore it and slightly say "no" "He continues on saying "that wasn't really a question, it ended with a period." A friend of mine went to get some brownies and offered him one and he simply said "I didn't want a brownie."
I know "some" like to think all of the above is part of being a man but please people have some manners.
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