Delayed Text message.....two days? (Pissed at this girl)

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#1 lonewolf604
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I texted AND called her on Monday because she said she wanted to hang out or watch a movie before she goes to Indonesia for a few weeks.

I call and text her no answer.

Then tonight she tells me she just got my message......seriously?

It doesn't add up because, sure there might have been a delay in the text message but I called her too....she should have seen a missed call....

Has anyone experienced a text message delay that ****ing long?

I'm calling BS on her excuse. I think something came up and she avoided me.

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#2 Aft3rBurn3r
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You're probably right. If it bothers you that much though don't bother with her. Calling BS on her isn't going to help matters thats for sure.
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#3 kidsmelly
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I'm calling BS on her excuse.

lonewolf604

It might take BS 2 days to get back to you on your call. Just giving you a heads up so you don't get mad.

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#4 ssc0n
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Actually, its possible. Its happened between me and my girlfriend. I think it was about a day or two as well.
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#5 XilePrincess
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I hear people whining that they don't receive texts or calls on their phones on facebook all the time. Ask again to make plans, if she blows it off again then you can assume she's avoiding you.
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#6 mrbojangles25  Online
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oh yea, I have AT&T and I have recieved text messages as late as like four days lol.

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#7 Avistann
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Yes I have had late text messages. My work called me one time and the call never showed up on my phone. It happens man.
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#8 cybrcatter
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I wouldn't sweat it mate. It was just a couple of days. There's plenty of other things to get worked up about.
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#9 senses_fail_06
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I think someone can't take a hint...no offense.
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#10 ssc0n
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I think someone can't take a hint...no offense.senses_fail_06
Well, TC says "she said she wanted to hang out". It was her idea.
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#11 lamprey263
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yeah, sounds like she flaked out, don't bother calling her out on it in case you're wrong, but if she cares to hang out with you she'll call you
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[QUOTE="senses_fail_06"]I think someone can't take a hint...no offense.ssc0n
Well, TC says "she said she wanted to hang out". It was her idea.

not to be a manpig (or, in my case, a manbearpig), but women say a lot of things...

does not mean they mean it, though

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#13 Hexagon_777
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I have had such text message delays happen to me, both when sending and receiving. The missed call is fishy, though.
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#14 Nerd_Man
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The fact that she got back to you at all should probably be a relief.
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#15 ssc0n
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[QUOTE="ssc0n"][QUOTE="senses_fail_06"]I think someone can't take a hint...no offense.mrbojangles25

Well, TC says "she said she wanted to hang out". It was her idea.

not to be a manpig (or, in my case, a manbearpig), but women say a lot of things...

does not mean they mean it, though

Oh, I know. I know. I'm just giving her benefit of the doubt. @Topic Creator: Trust that it was just a mistake. No need to overreact or call her out on her "BS" until you're sure of it.
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[QUOTE="ssc0n"][QUOTE="senses_fail_06"]I think someone can't take a hint...no offense.mrbojangles25

Well, TC says "she said she wanted to hang out". It was her idea.

not to be a manpig (or, in my case, a manbearpig), but women say a lot of things...

does not mean they mean it, though

Women lead men on? No way :o
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[QUOTE="mrbojangles25"]

[QUOTE="ssc0n"] Well, TC says "she said she wanted to hang out". It was her idea.senses_fail_06

not to be a manpig (or, in my case, a manbearpig), but women say a lot of things...

does not mean they mean it, though

Women lead men on? No way :o

I know, right? Like I take this girl out who says she is a freak when she drinks and she is confident in it, and we go out and drink, and once she gets drunk she is like "What you 'tink I am, boy? Some sort of freak?" and *sigh* that is the end of Mr. Bo's night.

*btw that quotation in not intended to be a generaliztion, the dumbeezy actually spoke that way

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I know, right? Like I take this girl out who says she is a freak when she drinks and she is confident in it, and we go out and drink, and once she gets drunk she is like "What you 'tink I am, boy? Some sort of freak?" and *sigh* that is the end of Mr. Bo's night.

*btw that quotation in not intended to be a generaliztion, the dumbeezy actually spoke that way

mrbojangles25

She promised freakiness but never delivered. This is a blow to all of MANkind.

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#19 lonewolf604
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[QUOTE="ssc0n"][QUOTE="senses_fail_06"]I think someone can't take a hint...no offense.mrbojangles25

Well, TC says "she said she wanted to hang out". It was her idea.

not to be a manpig (or, in my case, a manbearpig), but women say a lot of things...

does not mean they mean it, though

I was in the Philippines (she was here in Vancouver BC) and on MSN she said "I'm leaving for Indonesia on Aug 5 for a few weeks, we should hang out. Call me when you get back." So I do, then she says, lets hang out or see a movie on Monday. She didn't just say it, I know her, but I'm kind of pissed that this happened now. But I have no clue what happened.....GAAAAH

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#20 Safetynetss
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Be more attractive.

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#21 daqua_99
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It is possible for it to happen. I had some messages send or arrive to me up to two weeks late when I was with Vodafone, with most of my messages taking 15 minutes to go through when I was at my university.

Don't know about the missed call though

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#22 Suzy_Q_Kazoo
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I've used that excuse before. I wouldn't call her out on it, but I probably wouldn't believe it.

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#23 X360PS3AMD05
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Never happened to me, plus they never bothered to contact you, i'd just forget them.
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It's possible. My girlfriend uses Verizon and sometimes she doesn't get my texts.
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#25 Ceraby
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[QUOTE="mrbojangles25"]

[QUOTE="ssc0n"] Well, TC says "she said she wanted to hang out". It was her idea.lonewolf604

not to be a manpig (or, in my case, a manbearpig), but women say a lot of things...

does not mean they mean it, though

I was in the Philippines (she was here in Vancouver BC) and on MSN she said "I'm leaving for Indonesia on Aug 5 for a few weeks, we should hang out. Call me when you get back." So I do, then she says, lets hang out or see a movie on Monday. She didn't just say it, I know her, but I'm kind of pissed that this happened now. But I have no clue what happened.....GAAAAH

Wait so she's in Indonesia and you're in Vancouver and you're wondering why it takes 2 days for her to get a text or a call or something? In that case, having a text message delay happens. Sometimes the text doesn't arrive at all.

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#26 Rekunta
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Reminds me of an old thread:

"Respond please."

That's what you should txt her if she doesn't get back to you within a few minutes. Anybody else remember that? Hilarious.

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#27 lonewolf604
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[QUOTE="lonewolf604"]

[QUOTE="mrbojangles25"]

not to be a manpig (or, in my case, a manbearpig), but women say a lot of things...

does not mean they mean it, though

Ceraby

I was in the Philippines (she was here in Vancouver BC) and on MSN she said "I'm leaving for Indonesia on Aug 5 for a few weeks, we should hang out. Call me when you get back." So I do, then she says, lets hang out or see a movie on Monday. She didn't just say it, I know her, but I'm kind of pissed that this happened now. But I have no clue what happened.....GAAAAH

Wait so she's in Indonesia and you're in Vancouver and you're wondering why it takes 2 days for her to get a text or a call or something? In that case, having a text message delay happens. Sometimes the text doesn't arrive at all.

no.....she doesn't leave till tomorrow. I was in the Philippines the whole July but came back several days ago. When I was in the Philippines was the time when let me know that she wanted to hang out before she leaves on the 5th of august, and said to call her when I get back.

So several days ago, I get back, I call her. Then she said lets hang out on Monday, or a movie or w.e. I call monday evening and text her, no answer, until Wednesday night.

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#28 mrbojangles25  Online
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It has been my experience that, unless said text implies you are going to hang out immediately, you cannot take the text seriously at all.

"lets hang out in two days" is the equivelent of simply saying "hello" lol

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#29 kipohippo021
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I have gotten a text message delay over a week. but you did call her. so shes lying to you.

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#30 lonewolf604
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It has been my experience that, unless said text implies you are going to hang out immediately, you cannot take the text seriously at all.

"lets hang out in two days" is the equivelent of simply saying "hello" lol

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Um she said call back when you get back to Vancouver so we can hang out.....then on said Monday she texted in the afternoon asking to see a movie at 7. But when I called and texted her in the evening no answer....