@Serraph105 said:
@madrocketeer said:
@Serraph105 said:
My sense of pride and accomplishment has kind of been warped. When I was in school sharing notes was considered cheating (not that the teachers could really do much about it, but still it was considered wrong), but now sharing notes and information is actively encouraged.
I mean, if what is considered cheating has fully flipped years later and seen as a good thing why should I consider what is believed to be cheating today as actually bad? What are the odds that it will be seen as good in coming years and the people who followed the rules missed out while the ones who didn't got ahead in life?
Rules change; it's just a fact of life. I believe all you can do is demonstrate good faith by following the rules of the time. Everything else is out of your hands.
I don't know about that, I think that if you see people getting ahead in life by skirting the rules that you should at least consider emulating their behavior. I don't believe that you go break the law or anything, but rules made by school or companies? Perhaps those aren't worth following, but again, consider the consequences and use good judgement.
@MrGeezer said:
Well, a lot of people who "get ahead" by skirting the rules are creating time bombs in their careers that are just waiting to go off at any moment.
And even then, we're talking about just the people who "get ahead". It like, we can look at some drug kingpin and talk all day about how awesome it was that he got successful by breaking the rules. But for every drug kingpin who got successful and never got caught, there are a BUNCH of criminals who NEVER got successful and ended up ruining their lives with a prison sentence and a criminal record.
It's like playing the lottery, if losing the lottery meant that you don't only lose out on the money that you spent on the lottery ticket, but that someone ALSO comes along and steals a bunch more of your money just to penalize you for losing. For every person who actually DOES get ahead by breaking the rules, there are usually a bunch MORE people who tried to get ahead by breaking the rules and ended up F****ing themselves up.
When I was in college I never went to class, always copied stuff from other students, and studied it before the tests. I always passed. This wasn't exactly cheating but I still cheated myself.
I always thought if I got my degree it was going to be the end of my suffering. Sadly it wasn't, it just got worse. Shool and college are not only there for learning, they are also a good measurement of what you can handle. Most jobs don't pay you more money because you have a degree, they just come with more responsiblity, and higher difficulty.
When I was younger I wanted to be a lawyer or an engineer, because it made money, little did I realize I was actually a lazy bastard, no matter my intelligence, you need to have the character to do the work as well. When I worked people always said I could manage difficult problems, but I couldn't get a lot of work done, in the end I became like a crisis engineer, problems that no one else could solve ended up with me, it resulted in a lot stress.
Stress I couldn't handle , when I was in college I just had tests twice a year. Now everyday was a test. Sure, you can get used to your job but higher level jobs tend to change a lot and you need update yourself. Since I wasn't a workhorse and relied on my intelligence completely, i was faced with jobs on a daily basis that didn't involve any routine, but very difficult troubleshooting.
After two nervous breakdowns I realized I had to find another career. Fact is , I couldn't do anything else, and I couldn't even manage to work in burgertent. People may be looking down on some low level jobs, but even those jobs require a certain skillset, a skillset that lot of people with high degrees wouldn't be able to manage. You could say what you want about peole flipping burgers all day but it takes character to do such a thing on a daily basis.
I ended up on disabilty, and that doesn't give me a lot of money, I do some trading whenever I can but even that is hard to manage. I do know one thing, I was healthy when I started my career and now I'm not. When people say do something you like, they are not kidding, if you have to do something everyday that makes you overexert yourself you're not on the right path.
Shool is actually made to help you find the right path, it's not a ticket to a better life. I remember a little story a teacher always used to tell me about student that couldn't even write his own name. He became rich by selling soup, and started of with a big bowl of soup attached to a bike, and drove around selling soup.
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