Did you ever embarrass yourself when dancing with the opposite sex?

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#1 JIT93
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This weekend I was dancing with some girl, dubbing or grinding or w/e, but the fact is, I couldn't grind, and I made a fool of myself and she left after a while, and I still feel embarrased/sad

Did you ever embarass yourself like that or similar to that?

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#2 runker
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you're not supposed to be sober

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#3 Bloodaxe726
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Can't say I have, most likely do to the lack of dancing with any females except at school dances in junior high.
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#4 GTA_dude
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Nope. Its pretty easy, watch other people dance first, then just do the same thing to the music thats playing, move at the same speed as the girl (Which is basically the same speed the musics going). Grinding is actually very easy....its like the easiest thing to dance, other then slow dancing.....
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#5 MrLions
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Not really. >_> It's pretty easy to dance, it hardly takes any effort.
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#6 ZeldaMaster32
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Nope.

It's intimadating at first but you get the feel for flow in a matter of time.

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#7 3eyedrazorback
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Considering the fact that white people can't dance, and me being a white person...you can put 2 and 2 together.
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#8 runker
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OP must listen to good music if he can't dance.

Everything in clubs today is soulja boy crap, and lean back, lean back, type nonsense.

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#9 Lonelynight
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I've never dance with a girl.
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#10 JIT93
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OP must listen to good music if he can't dance.

Everything in clubs today is soulja boy crap, and lean back, lean back, type nonsense.

runker
Actually one of the music was this And I find it really easy to slow dance, but hard to dub, maybe I'm slow :(
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#11 runker
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[QUOTE="runker"]

OP must listen to good music if he can't dance.

Everything in clubs today is soulja boy crap, and lean back, lean back, type nonsense.

JIT93

Actually one of the music was this And I find it really easy to slow dance, but hard to dub, maybe I'm slow :(

lol, I think you need lightsticks for that one. Unless you just wanna thrust her ass, there is no robot anymore :(

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#12 JIT93
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lol, I think you need lightsticks for that one. Unless you just wanna thrust her ass, there is no robot anymore :(

runker
And the rest were Rap/Raggaeton stuff, and I danced on one of them, and kind of made myself look stupid :(
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#13 deactivated-6016f2513d412
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I hate dancing, so I've only danced with the opposite sex a couple of times...and only one of those times was sober, and I didn't do anything embarrassing. I'd rather not recall the drunk dancing, though...
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#14 runker
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[QUOTE="runker"]

lol, I think you need lightsticks for that one. Unless you just wanna thrust her ass, there is no robot anymore :(

JIT93

And the rest were Rap/Raggaeton stuff, and I danced on one of them, and kind of made myself look stupid :(

One thing that helped me let go, was Flea from the Red Hot Chili Peppers. That guy dances crazy and everyone loves him for it because he doesn't care. If you let go of your dignity, you can do anything. That's why people streak

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#15 Montaya
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You could take a couple dancing lessons.
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#16 JIT93
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[QUOTE="JIT93"][QUOTE="runker"]

lol, I think you need lightsticks for that one. Unless you just wanna thrust her ass, there is no robot anymore :(

runker

And the rest were Rap/Raggaeton stuff, and I danced on one of them, and kind of made myself look stupid :(

One thing that helped me let go, was Flea from the Red Hot Chili Peppers. That guy dances crazy and everyone loves him for it because he doesn't care. If you let go of your dignity, you can do anything. That's why people streak

One thing I wonder is why I'm worrying about this so much because It was some senior chick from another school(sophomore here) and I'll probably never see her again
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#17 runker
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[QUOTE="runker"][QUOTE="JIT93"] And the rest were Rap/Raggaeton stuff, and I danced on one of them, and kind of made myself look stupid :(JIT93

One thing that helped me let go, was Flea from the Red Hot Chili Peppers. That guy dances crazy and everyone loves him for it because he doesn't care. If you let go of your dignity, you can do anything. That's why people streak

One thing I wonder is why I'm worrying about this so much because It was some senior chick from another school(sophomore here) and I'll probably never see her again

If you see her again, just say "You can't dance", and walk away. Reverse psycology wins

You can't take this too seriously. Just think of her taking a huge dump or farting, you will feel better.

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#19 bigblunt537
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I never dance, because I have a huge mental block and I think its my most major flaw with the ladies. I think I do everything fine except dancing and i just cant do it.I went to one club once and felt so out of place I just couldn't do **** Never again now I'm terrified. I'll just stick to what I'm good at.
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#20 freek666
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Yep, and now my photo is all around the internet.

:cry:

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#21 BiancaDK
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maybe my dance partners have felt embarassed, but i havent, i just enjoy it

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#22 crazymaghie123
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dude of course but don't over analyse it...I go clubbin and I just do what I want..If I don't impress her then I move to the next girl...nothing to it...

GRINDIN ain't easy fool but most girls just like the junk on them they aren't thinking about whether you're smooth or whatever

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Nope... To drunk to notice :P
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#24 Nerd_Man
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I think way when I very first danced with my first girl I felt weird about it, because she danced better than me, and I felt weird cause I didn't do good.
Can't say it embarrassed me. We got a couple laughs about it and she helped me out with the moves. So it was all good for me in the end. Now dancing with another girl is just something you do, like I don't put much thought into how the steps go anymore... It just happens.. lol
So basically I went from mediocre, to having girls say I was really good, and enjoyed having me as their partner.

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#25 69ANT69
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I do some pretty embarrassing stuff on the dance floor, but its funny, so I usually don't get embarrassed.
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#26 kayn83
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I've been told I'm good at "grinding" but I think dancing is so ridiculously stupid I only do when I'm inebriated.
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#27 mexicangordo
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OP must listen to good music if he can't dance.

Everything in clubs today is soulja boy crap, and lean back, lean back, type nonsense.

runker

Im going to take a guess that you have not been to many clubs.... :P


*on topic* Yes, about 2 weeks ago, I went to my favorite club and they played "Blue Monday" so this girl asked me to dance with her (of course i did) but i was a little drunk and triped on the way to the dance floor, i tried grabbing on to something and i accidentaly grabbed the back of her shirt and pulled it down with me.:?

It didn't come off but it was badly riped from behind and i felt very very sorry for her.

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#28 Epak_
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I, DON'T, dance... :| So no problem there ;)
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#29 thequietguy
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I can only say I'm sorry.

I don't have much to say except I'm sorry.

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#30 biggest_loser
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At least you got someone to dance with you:

Whenever I go to a club, one of several things happens:

Either the girl is busy dancing with one of her female friends and they don't notice you.

You ask and they say they are just dancing with their friends.

You ask and they say no and just laugh.

They are already with another guy.

lol, you know what the worst excuse I heard from a girl was? "Ohh my wrist is sore." Thats the worst excuse I've ever heard lady. Then she says "I'm 23".

Which is worse! You decide!!

Girls do not like me!!

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#31 DigitalExile
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I don't dance, and if I did I would... not. I just wouldn't. O_O
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#32 JIT93
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At least you got someone to dance with you:

Whenever I go to a club, one of several things happens:

Either the girl is busy dancing with one of her female friends and they don't notice you.

You ask and they say they are just dancing with their friends.

You ask and they say no and just laugh.

They are already with another guy.

lol, you know what the worst excuse I heard from a girl was? "Ohh my wrist is sore." Thats the worst excuse I've ever heard lady. Then she says "I'm 23".

Which is worse! You decide!!

Girls do not like me!!

biggest_loser
One of those happened with another girl
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#33 FragStains
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I just let my limbs feel the beat and survey the aftermath later. I've been told that I look like a 18 month old try to walk with a turd in its diaper when I dance.
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#34 Dark_Knight6
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Not really. >_> It's pretty easy to dance, it hardly takes any effort.MrLions

Agreed. I mean, all you have to do is like rub up against each other.

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#35 not_wanted
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Well it could have been worse. At least you didn't **** in your pants.
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#36 Witchsight
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I refuse to ever dance, and so, problem solved!
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#37 morpheusnj
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wow I feel like crap after reading the posts here. I've never danced w/ a girl before mainly cause I'm afraid I'll embarrass myself and that ends up w/ me being just shy. so anyone got any advice on how to feel not shy and just dancing in general? damn I think I'll gonna look RELALY dumb first time I go dance w/ a girl. :P