Do insults really work on intelligent people?

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#1 AussieePet
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Do anyone with a high IQ allow them selfs to be insulted? Swear words aren't insults nor are animal and sexual related things :)

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#2 Kcube
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You don't have to be smart to not be phased by insults.
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#3 markop2003
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Dosn't take much intelligence to realise that most modern insults aren't really insulting.
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#4 coolbeans90
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Nah - you just have to be a stone-cold mofo. Like, able to kill a man in cold blood and not feel a thing. Feels good, man.

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#5 TheHighWind
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Just insult their intelligence it works every time.

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#6 Genesis-X
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Nah - you just have to be a stone-cold mofo. Like, able to kill a man in cold blood and not feel a thing. Feels good, man.

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That sounds soooo badass. (:

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#7 Hallenbeck77  Moderator
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Nah - you just have to be a stone-cold mofo. Like, able to kill a man in cold blood and not feel a thing. Feels good, man.

coolbeans90
Don't know if I'm that stone cold, but I have used a toilet of someone who was a jerk, and never flushed it...does that count?
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#8 deactivated-5b19214ec908b
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It depends on the insult. Calling a straight person a f****t isn't going to upset him at all. He would probably get mad at you for trying to insult him but the actual insult won't do anything.

Insults have to be personal to be insulting.

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#9 Lto_thaG
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Isn't it the other way around? Like,you're too stupid to insult.
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[QUOTE="coolbeans90"]

Nah - you just have to be a stone-cold mofo. Like, able to kill a man in cold blood and not feel a thing. Feels good, man.

Hallenbeck77
Don't know if I'm that stone cold, but I have used a toilet of someone who was a jerk, and never flushed it...does that count?

You monster. Enjoy your free flight to the Hague... one way.
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#11 coolbeans90
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[QUOTE="coolbeans90"]

Nah - you just have to be a stone-cold mofo. Like, able to kill a man in cold blood and not feel a thing. Feels good, man.

Hallenbeck77

Don't know if I'm that stone cold, but I have used a toilet of someone who was a jerk, and never flushed it...does that count?

Somewhat. Like, you could pretend that insults don't bother you in front of other people and maybe even ignore people calling you names while you walk away.

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#12 deactivated-6127ced9bcba0
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Um, wut?

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#13 Serraph105
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trust me, there is always a soft spot you can land a blow on.

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#14 racing1750
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Depends. Insults like mum jokes are pathetic. Personal insults usually work.
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#15 cybrcatter
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That's more of an emotional endeavor than one of intellect.

I work with this actuary who is one of the smartest fellows I know, yet he has the emotional capacity of a ten year old.

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#16 coolbeans90
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That's more of an emotional endeavor than one of intellect.

I work with this actuary who is one of the smartest fellows I know, yet he has the emotional capacity of a ten year old.

cybrcatter

I am sure he enjoys working with you.

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#17 MissLibrarian
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On the contrary, I think intelligent people might be more inclined to dwell on and overthink some insults that hit particularly close to the bone, whereas insults more often then not roll off of the uncouth like water from a duck's back.

I read it's mostly to do with having some level of perception and empathy and an intelligent, liberal minded person may well have access to such feelings, whereas a unread narrow-minded person is apparently less likely to. However to think that an individual's specific reaction to an insult really has anything to do with said individual's level of intelligence whatsoever is laughable in my humble opinion.

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#18 deactivated-5fc147aeeb0aa
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Its not about intelligence, its more about emotions. I can't remember the last time someone successfully insulted me.

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#20 cybrcatter
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[QUOTE="cybrcatter"]

That's more of an emotional endeavor than one of intellect.

I work with this actuary who is one of the smartest fellows I know, yet he has the emotional capacity of a ten year old.

coolbeans90

I am sure he enjoys working with you.

My IRL trolling is the stuff of legends.

..but I'm nice to the actuaries. They could make my job a living hell if that was their wish.

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#21 Allicrombie
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I've found that a lack of intelligence or an extremely generous blood alcohol level both make a person virtually invulnerable to insults or criticism.
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#22 Teenaged
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It's true. I never feel insulted!

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#24 biohaznerd
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[QUOTE="coolbeans90"]

Nah - you just have to be a stone-cold mofo. Like, able to kill a man in cold blood and not feel a thing. Feels good, man.

Hallenbeck77
Don't know if I'm that stone cold, but I have used a toilet of someone who was a jerk, and never flushed it...does that count?

i've urinated on a public toilet seat and left it for the next guy. one upped.
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[QUOTE="Hallenbeck77"][QUOTE="coolbeans90"]

Nah - you just have to be a stone-cold mofo. Like, able to kill a man in cold blood and not feel a thing. Feels good, man.

biohaznerd
Don't know if I'm that stone cold, but I have used a toilet of someone who was a jerk, and never flushed it...does that count?

i've urinated on a public toilet seat and left it for the next guy. one upped.

I've urinated on a public toilet seat with the lid closed and quickly left the building after I realised what I've done. The power of alcohol!
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[QUOTE="Hallenbeck77"][QUOTE="coolbeans90"]

Nah - you just have to be a stone-cold mofo. Like, able to kill a man in cold blood and not feel a thing. Feels good, man.

biohaznerd
Don't know if I'm that stone cold, but I have used a toilet of someone who was a jerk, and never flushed it...does that count?

i've urinated on a public toilet seat and left it for the next guy. one upped.

Anyone can do that. I'm talking about blocking up the pipes so it can't flush. Something so bad, you need a plumber, FEMA, and a team of exorcists to solve the problem.
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#27 Fightingfan
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I always give the person direct eye contact then look away then don't blink.
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#28 Optical_Order
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Intelligence has zero to do with how they handle insults. I know a few smart people who get really worked up when someone tries pushing their buttons.

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#29 gameguy6700
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Insults are all about context, not content. So everybody is just as susceptible to insults. For the record, I've seen neuroscientists throw insults at each other in journals before. Stuff like "While Dr. X and his lab seem incapable of producing methodologically sound work he nonetheless seems to have no problem criticizing the work of others".
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#30 iHarlequin
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I think it has more to do with temper than intelligence.

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#31 weezyfb
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nothing hurts more than the truth
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#32 cprmauldin
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I often find that no rebuttal is the best insult of all. However, a quick and witty response to shut an insulting person down is fun now and again.

I, however, don't think I have above normal intelligence (as most people do), I just make the choice to use the intelligence I do have.

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#33 cybrcatter
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[QUOTE="biohaznerd"][QUOTE="Hallenbeck77"] Don't know if I'm that stone cold, but I have used a toilet of someone who was a jerk, and never flushed it...does that count?Hallenbeck77
i've urinated on a public toilet seat and left it for the next guy. one upped.

Anyone can do that. I'm talking about blocking up the pipes so it can't flush. Something so bad, you need a plumber, FEMA, and a team of exorcists to solve the problem.

Back in HS, I put Karo syrup on the toilette seats. On unrelated occasions, we placed packets of ketchup with the tips cut off under the toilet seats; when someone sat down, they got a nice serving of tomato on their calves.

Those were good days.

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#34 sal_stinger
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IMO the more smart/intelligent you are the harder insult would hit you (or your pride)
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#35 Frame_Dragger
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Obviously the basic answer is, "it depends", but I'm rather curious about just what it means for an insult to "work". Does it mean that the insult incites anger? Does it mean that the insult causes a feeling of shame or embarresment?

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#36 deactivated-5f9e3c6a83e51
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If anything, they work better on them.

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#37 Frame_Dragger
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If anything, they work better on them.

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That's the thing... if you say to me that I'm an uneducated idiot with the vocabulary of a pre-schooler, I'm not going to be fazed. If you ARE uneducated with a poor vocabulary, that might really sting, smart or stupid. Is it about intelligence, or just about the insult "hitting home"? I'd guess that the big issues that neutralize or inflame insults would be: - Confidence rooted in achievement - Happiness or lack thereof - Emotional security If you're genuinely happy, and know you're of average intelligence I'd think it would be hard for someone to get a rise out of you. If you're brilliant, but miserable, how hard will it be to tweak you just a bit more? If you're a parent of a happy, healthy, and successful kid, and someone calls your kid a piece of "junk"... you may be angry, but you also know that it's patently false. That would then go to your emotional security... how much do you care that person X calls your kid junk? That probably leads to the biggest factor of all: the source of an insult divided by its accuracy probably is the closest measure of its efficacy. At no point does the intelligence of the recipient matter in that equation.
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#38 xdude85
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Insults these days aren't even clever, there's no point in getting mad over something trivial anyway.
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#39 coolbeans90
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srs answer: purely anecdotal, but in my experience, both in reality and on the internet, it is almost always easier to visibly anger less intelligent people than more intelligent people. Might not be a causal relationship, though.

EDIT: I imagine that it's easier for more intelligent people to know whether an insult is unfounded or not, perhaps making it easier for them to ignore.

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#40 Tangmashi
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Nah - you just have to be a stone-cold mofo. Like, able to kill a man in cold blood and not feel a thing. Feels good, man.

coolbeans90

You don't go far enough. You should also kill his entire family and burn his house to the ground.

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#41 cheese_game619
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It's easy to insult smart people. You troll them with things that don't make sense and then act like you're beating them. Even if they have a good comeback you just look back at them with a stupid grin and say something even more preposterous. When they get mad you laugh over the top of anything they have to say.

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#42 arad96
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It's easy to insult smart people. You troll them with things that don't make sense and then act like you're beating them. Even if they have a good comeback you just look back at them with a stupid grin and say something even more preposterous. When they get mad you laugh over the top of anything they have to say.

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Real life trolls. You have to avoid them at all costs!

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[QUOTE="coolbeans90"]

Nah - you just have to be a stone-cold mofo. Like, able to kill a man in cold blood and not feel a thing. Feels good, man.

Tangmashi

You don't go far enough. You should also kill his entire family and burn his house to the ground.

That's it? No breaking their limbs and stringing wire through the wounds to make them living puppets?

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#44 WSGRandomPerson
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You can just not care what people think or say; which I have been doing for years.
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#45 MgamerBD
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Of course. Everyone has a soft spot, something they are weak at or take pride in. If you insult that...you can offend even the most intelligent people.
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#46 bluetadomonk
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ignoring insults is only for beta candyasses. it's all about being alpha as ****
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#47 VodkaFTW
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Or you can be a really stupid person and not understand the insult. Either or.

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#48 Frame_Dragger
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It's easy to insult smart people. You troll them with things that don't make sense and then act like you're beating them. Even if they have a good comeback you just look back at them with a stupid grin and say something even more preposterous. When they get mad you laugh over the top of anything they have to say.

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Yeah... in a situation like that there are two good options: 1.) Get annoyed, then act as though you suddenly understand their point. Begin to really support whatever they say, no matter how odd. 2.) We're talking real life here so... pain. @Tangmashi: Ahhhh... the full Keyser Soze, good stuff! Go even further and send them for the Vlad Tepes and feed them their family members, then impale them! Kidding aside, the best way to deal with insults is to ignore them... most are not exactly well formed. An alternative is to act as though you've been SERIOUSLY hurt, but instead of getting angry pretend to cry or if online become despondant. That can be absolutely hilarious... otherwise, defuse the insult, sling one back, or just move on.
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#49 Frame_Dragger
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Of course. Everyone has a soft spot, something they are weak at or take pride in. If you insult that...you can offend even the most intelligent people.MgamerBD
The thing is, if someone is nailing you in the underbelly, they probably know you relatively well. Insults tend to hurt when they come from someone who's opinion you value, someone you know well, or someone you care about. A random stranger can insult me all they want, insult my family... doesn't matter... the source has to have an "in".
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[QUOTE="MgamerBD"]Of course. Everyone has a soft spot, something they are weak at or take pride in. If you insult that...you can offend even the most intelligent people.Frame_Dragger
The thing is, if someone is nailing you in the underbelly, they probably know you relatively well. Insults tend to hurt when they come from someone who's opinion you value, someone you know well, or someone you care about. A random stranger can insult me all they want, insult my family... doesn't matter... the source has to have an "in".

It also depends on how insecure you are also. If a random cute girls walks up to you and says "Your ugly creep, and disgusting get away from me!" Wouldn't that also take effect? In the end it depends on how comfortable the person is with themselves.