do women get rejected if they cant have children?

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#1 mahlasor
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I am not asking for your personal opinion, but does anyone know if that happens?

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#2 vidplayer8
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It can happen yeah. It can be a hard thing to work through. But there's always adoption.

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#3 iAtrocious
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I see it as a bonus.

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#4 CreasianDevaili
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I'd say yes. However I'd say it has more to do with how they see themselves if they see it as a unrecoverable "broke" aspect of their being. Women do that all the time however, so just another reason to punish themselves.
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#5 ayanami_rei
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Most likely yes. If there's people who leave the woman because she can't have kids, then there's people who will reject a woman because she can't have kids.
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#6 rockinplanes
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Are you kidding me, they're the most wanted!!!!
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#7 binpink
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I'm sure it happens though I've never seen it.

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#8 deactivated-6016e81e8e30f
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If that's what other person is interested in, yeah. Would say that they could just all be given to rawsavon, but considering he fixed that potential problem himself, I guess they'll go into the unsorted pile. >:
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#9 WhiteKnight77
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Yes, it happens.

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#10 kidsmelly
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If I knew from the beginning a female won't be able to have kids I won't even bother dating her. If I found out further along the relationship that would be different.

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#11 AutoPilotOn
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My GF doesnt know yet if she will be able to have kids or not. I have a friend whos wife cant have kids. They are trying to adopt now but with their record of ditching bills and not ever holding down a job or more than a few weeks at a time I donno how that will go.
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#12 jeremiah06
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Not if she is unaware of the fact. Also there are guys who don't want kids... Basically there's somebody for everybody... But her being rejected isn't impossible I wouldn't marry woman like that but for dating that would be ideal(I dated a woman who had her tubes tied it was awesome but I always felt she was cheating(she also had 3 kids already)).
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#13 rockinplanes
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My GF doesnt know yet if she will be able to have kids or not. I have a friend whos wife cant have kids. They are trying to adopt now but with their record of ditching bills and not ever holding down a job or more than a few weeks at a time I donno how that will go.AutoPilotOn
You're the luckiest guy I know.
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#14 binpink
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(I dated a woman who had her tubes tied it was awesome but I always felt she was cheating(she also had 3 kids already)).jeremiah06

Cheating how?

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#15 XilePrincess
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By some people, maybe. I'm sure there are a lot of boyfriends or husbands who would stick around through something like that, simply because they loved the woman, but of course there are those who will move on. Being told you can't have children is a difficult thing for both the hopeful mother and hopeful father, but I would hope that the guy wouldn't dump a woman and move on immediately just because she couldn't carry a child, I have heard of many situations where low sperm count is the issue in conception, and the woman has stayed with the man in every one of the situations I've personally known about.
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My GF doesnt know yet if she will be able to have kids or not. I have a friend whos wife cant have kids. They are trying to adopt now but with their record of ditching bills and not ever holding down a job or more than a few weeks at a time I donno how that will go.AutoPilotOn


Keep trying until a kid happens.

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well i dont want kids now but i still want the option.. who knows what i'll be into in 20yrs
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#18 AutoPilotOn
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[QUOTE="AutoPilotOn"]My GF doesnt know yet if she will be able to have kids or not. I have a friend whos wife cant have kids. They are trying to adopt now but with their record of ditching bills and not ever holding down a job or more than a few weeks at a time I donno how that will go.ThePerro



Keep trying until a kid happens.

No thanks lol. I dont mean biologically I mean phyically. She has cerebral palsey and is in a wheelchair she is tiny(size 12 in girls) and has had surgery on her hip. A kid would probably kill her.

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#19 jeremiah06
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[QUOTE="jeremiah06"](I dated a woman who had her tubes tied it was awesome but I always felt she was cheating(she also had 3 kids already)).binpink

Cheating how?

Sleeping with other guys... It was probably just me being insecure but the very reason I wanted her was why I couldn't trust her.
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#20 binpink
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[QUOTE="binpink"]

[QUOTE="jeremiah06"](I dated a woman who had her tubes tied it was awesome but I always felt she was cheating(she also had 3 kids already)).jeremiah06

Cheating how?

Sleeping with other guys... It was probably just me being insecure but the very reason I wanted her was why I couldn't trust her.

OH gotcha. I thought you meant something weird like cheating cuz she got her tubes tied after already having kids...?? Which makes no sense. It's a shame you had those suspicions though. Takes a toll after a while I imagine.

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#21 -Big_Red-
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I see it as a bonus.

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Yeah, I kind of do aswell. I don't really want kids. But if my wife ends up wanting them, then I have no problem with complying. And it odes happen, but I imagine it to be rare. And you could of made this topic gender neutral. Women need man juices to have babies.
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#22 jeremiah06
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[QUOTE="jeremiah06"][QUOTE="binpink"]

Cheating how?

binpink

Sleeping with other guys... It was probably just me being insecure but the very reason I wanted her was why I couldn't trust her.

OH gotcha. I thought you meant something weird like cheating cuz she got her tubes tied after already having kids...?? Which makes no sense. It's a shame you had those suspicions though. Takes a toll after a while I imagine.

lol Oh I dated her because of that(well I wanted her before I knew). Our relationship ended on a good note though(I was to much of a wimp to break it off without any evidence) She decided to move to Arizona to better raise her kids.
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#23 -Big_Red-
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[QUOTE="jeremiah06"][QUOTE="binpink"]

Sleeping with other guys... It was probably just me being insecure but the very reason I wanted her was why I couldn't trust her.jeremiah06

OH gotcha. I thought you meant something weird like cheating cuz she got her tubes tied after already having kids...?? Which makes no sense. It's a shame you had those suspicions though. Takes a toll after a while I imagine.

lol Oh I dated her because of that(well I wanted her before I knew). Our relationship ended on a good note though(I was to much of a wimp to break it off without any evidence) She decided to move to Arizona to better raise her kids.

How old are you Jerimiah, if you don't mid me asking. You always struck me to be 17-19. Doesn't sound like it at this point though.
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#24 msmjokerr
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Obviously it happens but I look at it as a good thing.
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#25 jeremiah06
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[QUOTE="jeremiah06"][QUOTE="binpink"]

OH gotcha. I thought you meant something weird like cheating cuz she got her tubes tied after already having kids...?? Which makes no sense. It's a shame you had those suspicions though. Takes a toll after a while I imagine.

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lol Oh I dated her because of that(well I wanted her before I knew). Our relationship ended on a good note though(I was to much of a wimp to break it off without any evidence) She decided to move to Arizona to better raise her kids.

How old are you Jerimiah, if you don't mid me asking. You always struck me to be 17-19. Doesn't sound like it at this point though.

"Jeremiah" I always nitpick about my names spelling... I just turned 23(Dec. 4th). However, I always liked older women. The first woman I was ever attracted to was 30(I was in 3rd grade)... She permanently shaped my taste in woman... I dated a 37 year old woman when I was 21... My current GF is 31.

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#26 supergoat777
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I am not asking for your personal opinion, but does anyone know if that happens?

mahlasor

I would marry a women who can't have children, I would just adopt them.

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#27 sonofsmeagle
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[QUOTE="-Big_Red-"][QUOTE="jeremiah06"] lol Oh I dated her because of that(well I wanted her before I knew). Our relationship ended on a good note though(I was to much of a wimp to break it off without any evidence) She decided to move to Arizona to better raise her kids. jeremiah06

How old are you Jerimiah, if you don't mid me asking. You always struck me to be 17-19. Doesn't sound like it at this point though.

"Jeremiah" I always nitpick about my names spelling... I just turned 23(Dec. 4th). However, I always liked older women. The first woman I was ever attracted to was 30(I was in 3rd grade)... She permanently shaped my taste in woman... I dated a 37 year old woman when I was 21... My current GF is 31.

wow i've always been atracted to older women too especially after watching american Pie and having an extremely hot math teacher in high school
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#28 markop2003
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No, they may be left later on for that reason but they will not be rejected for it due to the simple fact that it is not something that is likely to come up before you ask someone out.
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#29 jeremiah06
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[QUOTE="jeremiah06"]

[QUOTE="-Big_Red-"] How old are you Jerimiah, if you don't mid me asking. You always struck me to be 17-19. Doesn't sound like it at this point though.sonofsmeagle

"Jeremiah" I always nitpick about my names spelling... I just turned 23(Dec. 4th). However, I always liked older women. The first woman I was ever attracted to was 30(I was in 3rd grade)... She permanently shaped my taste in woman... I dated a 37 year old woman when I was 21... My current GF is 31.

wow i've always been atracted to older women too especially after watching american Pie and having an extremely hot math teacher in high school

lol Every time I picture the perfect woman I picture her... Our interaction was funny too. I Saw her daughter(who had a crush on me but I was in 3rd grade I didn't like girls) and I went over to say hi. She told her mom my name... When I saw her mom... My mind was blown... She was perfect. She was trying to put a dollar into the candy machine and it wouldn't go in so I(as smooth as a 9 year old could be) slid my dollar into the machine and told her it was "on the house". She said "No wonder my daughter likes you".