Do you even like your opposite sex?

Well actually the question is, have you ever questioned your sexuality before? I'm actually gay and open about it for about 10 years now. Some of you guys and girls out there have thought about it and have decided that you are gay straight or bisexual (best of both worlds I guess). A lot of guys who immediately say "no" followed with a derogatory remark is probably very insecure with themselves more then their insecurities of being around an actual gay person.

Unfortunately I can't activate the poll section so hopefully people will still answer with maturity and own self enthusiasm. I wanted to create a poll to keep some anonymity for those who wish not to disclose their answer. Sorry...

I have questioned my sexuality before, yes.

I concluded that I like women.

I questioned it, ignored it, and then finally came to the conclusion that I'm bisexual.  Although, I haven't had the courage to be open about it, yet.  And the way I see it, I do get the best of both worlds.   :P

I've questioned my sexuality on MANY occasions...

I'm still not positive on what I am...

Yes I like my opposite sex.  I really like the girls that can cook but those are becoming less and less common these days.  Guess i better marry an Amish girl.

Have I ever questioned it.  Yes for about 1.5 seconds.  Some gays have asked me how do I know if I have never tryed it.  Well I have never put my hand in a blender but I know how it would feel.

wow, are all of these posts for real?

dont get me wrong im straight, and i have nothing against bi or gay or anything, but i didnt know it was this common.

yes i have asked myself, but i only get boners from women.

Yes I like my opposite sex.  I really like the girls that can cook but those are becoming less and less common these days.  Guess i better marry an Amish girl.

Have I ever questioned it.  Yes for about 1.5 seconds.  Some gays have asked me how do I know if I have never tryed it.  Well I have never put my hand in a blender but I know how it would feel.

SunofVich

Wow, what a stupid thing for them to say.  If you aren't attracted to others of the same sex, there isn't any reason to try it.  

wow, are all of these posts for real?

dont get me wrong im straight, and i have nothing against bi or gay or anything, but i didnt know it was this common.

yes i have asked myself, but i only get boners from women.

THE_BRUTALIZER

I'm definitely straight, but just barely. If there were a sexuality spectrum, where the left is homo and the right is hetero, I (*) would be on it as such:

gay----------bi-*--------straight

I have always loved women, I never had any doubts about that.

I have also tried looking at men sexually a couple of times in the past thinking "who knows, maybe I'm bi" and the result is always the same: they're absolutely hideous. :P

I've questioned it many times. At one point I was certain i was only attracted to females until I had my first homosexual experience (I ended up liking it) then I thought I was gay When i tried being with nothing but guys, I always felt the need to be with a female so the attraction was still there. I came to the conclusion that I am indeed bisexual.stevenk4k5

I have always loved women, I never had any doubts about that.

I have also tried looking at men sexually a couple of times in the past thinking "who knows, maybe I'm bi" and the result is always the same: they're absolutely hideous. :P

black_cat19

Blasphemy!  :x  You were looking at the wrong guys.  :P

 

wow, are all of these posts for real?

dont get me wrong im straight, and i have nothing against bi or gay or anything, but i didnt know it was this common.

yes i have asked myself, but i only get boners from women.

THE_BRUTALIZER

According to my Psychology textbook, anywhere from 1 in 20 to 1 in 10 people you know are gay So if you think about it it's really not that uncommon... It's a lot more uncommon than being straight, but still not super rare or anything.Aquat1cF1sh

Oh, I didn't know there numbers on it.  I was kind of going by how many people I know who are (two relatives and two other students at school.  I can't stand either of the students!  :x )

[QUOTE="stevenk4k5"]I've questioned it many times. At one point I was certain i was only attracted to females until I had my first homosexual experience (I ended up liking it) then I thought I was gay When i tried being with nothing but guys, I always felt the need to be with a female so the attraction was still there. I came to the conclusion that I am indeed bisexual.THE_BRUTALIZER

[QUOTE="THE_BRUTALIZER"]

 

wow, are all of these posts for real?

dont get me wrong im straight, and i have nothing against bi or gay or anything, but i didnt know it was this common.

yes i have asked myself, but i only get boners from women.

Aquat1cF1sh

[QUOTE="Aquat1cF1sh"] According to my Psychology textbook, anywhere from 1 in 20 to 1 in 10 people you know are gay So if you think about it it's really not that uncommon... It's a lot more uncommon than being straight, but still not super rare or anything.Dark_Knight6

Oh, I didn't know there numbers on it.  I was kind of going by how many people I know who are (two relatives and two other students at school.  I can't stand either of the students!  :x )

[QUOTE="black_cat19"]

I have always loved women, I never had any doubts about that.

I have also tried looking at men sexually a couple of times in the past thinking "who knows, maybe I'm bi" and the result is always the same: they're absolutely hideous. :P

Dark_Knight6

Blasphemy!  :x  You were looking at the wrong guys.  :P

Haha, well I can tell when a guy is good-looking, and it's not so bad, but I could NEVER get sexual with a man, the male "organs" are quite frankly one of the ugliest things I've ever seen, and that's always the same no matter who you're looking at. :P

[QUOTE="THE_BRUTALIZER"][QUOTE="stevenk4k5"]I've questioned it many times. At one point I was certain i was only attracted to females until I had my first homosexual experience (I ended up liking it) then I thought I was gay When i tried being with nothing but guys, I always felt the need to be with a female so the attraction was still there. I came to the conclusion that I am indeed bisexual.stevenk4k5

[QUOTE="Dark_Knight6"][QUOTE="black_cat19"]

I have always loved women, I never had any doubts about that.

I have also tried looking at men sexually a couple of times in the past thinking "who knows, maybe I'm bi" and the result is always the same: they're absolutely hideous. :P

black_cat19

Blasphemy!  :x  You were looking at the wrong guys.  :P

Haha, well I can tell when a guy is good-looking, and it's not so bad, but I could NEVER get sexual with a man, the male "organs" are quite frankly one of the ugliest things I've ever seen, and that's always the same no matter who you're looking at. :P

[QUOTE="Aquat1cF1sh"][QUOTE="THE_BRUTALIZER"]

 

It really isn't common, at all. I'm actually quite surprised at how many people are bi or gay in this thread.

 

THE_BRUTALIZER

especially when you consider as many as a tenth of the american population can't marry.

Yeah, it's a little more common than you think. The thing is just that most people are ashamed to admit it because they are afraid of being ridiculed because of it. I assure you that there are a few more people you know that are bi or gaystevenk4k5

Well, I've suspected a couple people here and there but I can see what you're saying.  I'm just hoping to meet another guy who isn't the creepy feminine type.  

Haha, well I can tell when a guy is good-looking, and it's not so bad, but I could NEVER get sexual with a man, the male "organs" are quite frankly one of the ugliest things I've ever seen, and that's always the same no matter who you're looking at. :P

black_cat19

Yeah, you're right, there.  I don't think anyone could ever like the way it looks.  

[QUOTE="THE_BRUTALIZER"][QUOTE="Aquat1cF1sh"] According to my Psychology textbook, anywhere from 1 in 20 to 1 in 10 people you know are gay So if you think about it it's really not that uncommon... It's a lot more uncommon than being straight, but still not super rare or anything.links136

especially when you consider as many as a tenth of the american population can't marry.

[QUOTE="stevenk4k5"] Yeah, it's a little more common than you think. The thing is just that most people are ashamed to admit it because they are afraid of being ridiculed because of it. I assure you that there are a few more people you know that are bi or gayDark_Knight6

Well, I've suspected a couple people here and there but I can see what you're saying.  I'm just hoping to meet another guy who isn't the creepy feminine type.  

Feminine as in "Ooh, I broke a nail, oppthy!" or feminine as in "I has a sense of styIe"?

'Cause the first kind freak me the hell out.

Yeah, you're right, there.  I don't think anyone could ever like the way it looks.  

 

Dark_Knight6

I like it.:(

Feminine as in "Ooh, I broke a nail, oppthy!" or feminine as in "I has a sense of styIe"?

'Cause the first kind freak me the hell out.

Theokhoth

The first one.  Especially when they acted normal before coming out.  And then people wonder why others like to keep it a secret.  

I've briefly pondered it, but I concluded that I only like women.omfg_its_dally

Wow, this makes me wonder just how many people are gay and just hiding it. This is just a revelation to me, I never ever would of guessed you guys were gay/bi. That's totally cool, I'm glad all of you are out.

Me? I'm straight and have never questioned my sexuality, and besides, I have a girlfriend :oops:

I like it.:(

Theokhoth

Well, I like just about everything else on a guy, a lot.  I'm not disgusted by it by any stretch of the imagination, it's just that it's normally not the first thing I look at.  

[QUOTE="Dark_Knight6"]

[QUOTE="stevenk4k5"] Yeah, it's a little more common than you think. The thing is just that most people are ashamed to admit it because they are afraid of being ridiculed because of it. I assure you that there are a few more people you know that are bi or gayTheokhoth

Well, I've suspected a couple people here and there but I can see what you're saying.  I'm just hoping to meet another guy who isn't the creepy feminine type.  

Feminine as in "Ooh, I broke a nail, oppthy!" or feminine as in "I has a sense of styIe"?

'Cause the first kind freak me the hell out.

Funny, you were precisely the one who came to mind when I read that (I was going to say "Theo?"). :P

ugh....maybe that dude that tries to sit next to me in class is gay.....he gets frightenly close to me when he talks, does all he can to laugh, and seems sad if i try to get him to shut up or go away....oh my God thats......different.....

I mean, please get this straight, i dont want another suspension from gamespot.....gay and bi people are one thousand percent cool with me, just as long as they stay away from trying to hook me.

I've never questioned my sexuality. I've always preferred boys, I love them. :) socked_feet