Do you ever feel like something is missing in life?

I do some of the times. I am 20, but have never had a girlfriend, I have very poor motor skills (athletics, ect), I have severe ADD and can't pay attention, have been turned down by a fraternity (though I wasn't there on the weekends), don't really have any friends at university, and as such am a "loner" much of the time. While I do have a job and a 3.2 GPA, I just feel like something is missing. Does anyone else have this feeling?

I do some of the times. I am 20, but have never had a girlfriend, I have very poor motor skills (athletics, ect), I have severe ADD and can't pay attention, have been turned down by a fraternity (though I wasn't there on the weekends), don't really have any friends at university, and as such am a "loner" much of the time. While I do have a job and a 3.2 GPA, I just feel like something is missing. Does anyone else have this feeling?

the_plan_man

You need some poontang pie. I need some too. Get better grades. 3.2 isn't good enough. BenedictArnold7

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I don't mean to laugh but LOL WTF is "severe ADD"? But yeah I feel like that all the time.22Toothpicks

well thats simple ADD in asever state mean u ca... ooh look a butterfly

Where's my mansion?

I feel like I was lied to.

not really. i have my two best friends by my side. Rich3232

[QUOTE="Rich3232"]not really. i have my two best friends by my side. 22Toothpicks

why does everyone in the board have some type of of mentally disfunction? Every week or so we get one of these threads about some kid that has an awful life but they cant change it cuz they have some type of mental crap. Nengo_Flow

like people that are depressed shouldnt be depressed. all they got to do is wake up and tell themselves they are not depressed and POOF they're not. like if only they were intelligent...

A good amount of days I do indeed.

space travel :(

[QUOTE="Nengo_Flow"]why does everyone in the board have some type of of mentally disfunction? Every week or so we get one of these threads about some kid that has an awful life but they cant change it cuz they have some type of mental crap. dragonmaster64

like people that are depressed shouldnt be depressed. all they got to do is wake up and tell themselves they are not depressed and POOF they're not. like if only they were intelligent...

[QUOTE="BenedictArnold7"]You need some poontang pie. I need some too. Get better grades. 3.2 isn't good enough. ionusX

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Nope.  Life is good enough.

Ferrari and a Super Model wife. Fightingfan

I do some of the times. I am 20, but have never had a girlfriend, I have very poor motor skills (athletics, ect), I have severe ADD and can't pay attention, have been turned down by a fraternity (though I wasn't there on the weekends), don't really have any friends at university, and as such am a "loner" much of the time. While I do have a job and a 3.2 GPA, I just feel like something is missing. Does anyone else have this feeling?

the_plan_man

Everyday when I wake up. I think its called a driving force. There's nothing really pushing me to jump to the next platform. Or more like, there's nothing on that next platform that's enticing me to jump. There's nothing really grabbing my attention and making me say "YES! That's what I want to pursue!". I got the capacity to be a lawyer or psychiatrist but never had any interested to be either. I went to college for computer technology and got a certificate but.....I don't know, it just don't interest me like it use to. I guess I like working with computer on my spare time, not as a career choice....tocool340

Yes, many days I do feel this way.

dunno,

I suppose I need a definition on what a fulfilling life is before I can figure out if anythings is missing in it.

I do some of the times. I am 20, but have never had a girlfriend, I have very poor motor skills (athletics, ect), I have severe ADD and can't pay attention, have been turned down by a fraternity (though I wasn't there on the weekends), don't really have any friends at university, and as such am a "loner" much of the time. While I do have a job and a 3.2 GPA, I just feel like something is missing. Does anyone else have this feeling?

the_plan_man

Hey I'll go out on a limb and suggest to give Jesus a shot. Do something new, check out a church on Sunday morning. Or better yet, try to find one in your area that tailors more towards younger people. I've got a church I go to where there's a big young crowd on Sunday nights (typically sunday nights is when these churches like doing the 'young people' thing).

You may or may not be surpised how many friends or acquaintences you can make on your first try.

about 7 years ago I had no friends after breaking up with my g/f. I found a church, began attending, made lots of contacts, and now have a great group of people I consider life friends who I would have never had before. Not only that, but several groups I have a choice in attending throughout the week. I'm pretty blessed.

If you do, lemme know how it goes (or PM if you'd like further advice/help).

Hey I'll go out on a limb and suggest to give Jesus a shot. Do something new, check out a church on Sunday morning. Or better yet, try to find one in your area that tailors more towards younger people. I've got a church I go to where there's a big young crowd on Sunday nights (typically sunday nights is when these churches like doing the 'young people' thing).

You may or may not be surpised how many friends or acquaintences you can make on your first try.

about 7 years ago I had no friends after breaking up with my g/f. I found a church, began attending, made lots of contacts, and now have a great group of people I consider life friends who I would have never had before. Not only that, but several groups I have a choice in attending throughout the week. I'm pretty blessed.

If you do, lemme know how it goes (or PM if you'd like further advice/help).

metalgrinch

You didn't mention any hobbies, maybe that's what's missing.

I've always known what all is missing in my life.  Problem is I never know how to fix that.

Eh, there's always something missing from life.

All the time.

i dont want any rules or law that forbids me from realizing my dreams of becoming an actor/musician/racing driver/business man! i dont want society tells me to be.

I just feel like something is missing. Does anyone else have this feeling?

the_plan_man

Friends, I guess.Oil_Rope_Bombs

A purpose, my life feels so utterly pointless.

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I do some of the times. I am 20, but have never had a girlfriend, I have very poor motor skills (athletics, ect), I have severe ADD and can't pay attention, have been turned down by a fraternity (though I wasn't there on the weekends), don't really have any friends at university, and as such am a "loner" much of the time. While I do have a job and a 3.2 GPA, I just feel like something is missing. Does anyone else have this feeling?

chrisrooR

my thoughts exactly

Yeah alot actually but you just gotta tough it out 

[QUOTE="metalgrinch"]

Hey I'll go out on a limb and suggest to give Jesus a shot. Do something new, check out a church on Sunday morning. Or better yet, try to find one in your area that tailors more towards younger people. I've got a church I go to where there's a big young crowd on Sunday nights (typically sunday nights is when these churches like doing the 'young people' thing).

You may or may not be surpised how many friends or acquaintences you can make on your first try.

about 7 years ago I had no friends after breaking up with my g/f. I found a church, began attending, made lots of contacts, and now have a great group of people I consider life friends who I would have never had before. Not only that, but several groups I have a choice in attending throughout the week. I'm pretty blessed.

If you do, lemme know how it goes (or PM if you'd like further advice/help).

GameGuy642003

Yea the fact that it's so surprising is def not a great thing. It just sounds like what this guy needs is people. And given that in my experience church has some very caring and thoughtful people (granted, lots aren't, it's complicated), it would seem a good place to start.

Something for all you sad blokes