do you feel like marriage is a blessing, or a nuesence?

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#1 youngmurk911
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#2 sune_Gem
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I feel like it's a rather unnecessary procedure. I mean you can live happily in the EXACT same way without having the same last name, and if things go sour you can simply just leave and that's that. It's just become the social norm now for most people to get married.

It's nice to have reason to celebrate, but what's to stop you celebrating anyway?

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#3 Mikey132
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Depends, if you get married when you are 20 these days you've created a nuesence.  (with the exception of a small percentage)  If you do it when you're 40 now it should be a blessing.  Life was simpler 50 years ago, you got a job then a gal and had kids....  These days money rules, she may love ya but if you don't got coin it won't mean crap to her if you get up and go to work everyday to support you two.    

 

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#4 deactivated-5b78379493e12
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A blessing. And since the TC didn't offer any useful wisdom to this thread, neither will I.

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#5 dave123321
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A blessing. And since the TC didn't offer any useful wisdom to this thread, neither will I.

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#6 dave123321
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I don't have anything against marriage. It's what you make of it I guess. Some don't take it seriously, but that is more of a people problem
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#7 osirisx3
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can be both really but who wants to die alone? I see my 83 year old aunty and she has no one left but her sisters kids.

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#8 ShadowsDemon
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It can be both, but primary I think it's a blessing. :)
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I believe it is a divinely given institution between a man and a woman. Jesus said in Mark 10,

6) But from the beginning of creation, God made them male and female.7) Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife,8) and the two shall become one flesh. So they are no longer two but one flesh.9 What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.

So obviously, I believe it is a blessing. Anything outside the bounds of God's definition is open rebellion against the created order.

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#11 deactivated-5b78379493e12
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[QUOTE="jimkabrhel"]

A blessing. And since the TC didn't offer any useful wisdom to this thread, neither will I.

dave123321

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Does anyone's posting meet your approval, Dave?

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I believe it is a divinely given institution between a man and a woman. Jesus said in Mark 10,

6) But from the beginning of creation, God made them male and female.7) Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife,8) and the two shall become one flesh. So they are no longer two but one flesh.9 What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.

 

So obviously, I believe it is a blessing. Anything outside the bounds of God's definition is open rebellion against the created order.

maheo30

And what Jesus said I replaced with "What a man was 2000 years ago, means nothing at all to me today!"   Oppps!!!!!!!!!!!!

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#13 Crushmaster
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I believe it is a divinely given institution between a man and a woman. Jesus said in Mark 10,

6) But from the beginning of creation, God made them male and female.7) Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife,8) and the two shall become one flesh. So they are no longer two but one flesh.9 What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.

So obviously, I believe it is a blessing. Anything outside the bounds of God's definition is open rebellion against the created order. maheo30

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I believe it is a divinely given institution between a man and a woman. Jesus said in Mark 10,

6) But from the beginning of creation, God made them male and female.7) Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife,8) and the two shall become one flesh. So they are no longer two but one flesh.9 What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.

So obviously, I believe it is a blessing. Anything outside the bounds of God's definition is open rebellion against the created order.

maheo30

Don't forget the dowry in which two patriachal heads of family make a deal for their children to marry for economic and political gain.. Afterall we are talking about traditional marriage right?

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[QUOTE="dave123321"][QUOTE="jimkabrhel"]

A blessing. And since the TC didn't offer any useful wisdom to this thread, neither will I.

jimkabrhel

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Does anyone's posting meet your approval, Dave?

mhm
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#16 Mikey132
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[QUOTE="jimkabrhel"]

[QUOTE="dave123321"] vicious cycle dave123321

Does anyone's posting meet your approval, Dave?

mhm

It never will...............HE IS BETTER THAN ALL OF US!

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#17 deactivated-5acfa3a8bc51d
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Since we throwing bible verses around: 1 Corinthians 7:8 - "Im telling those who are single and widows that its good for them to stay single like me." Marriage is good but don't feel pressured to marry.
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[QUOTE="jimkabrhel"]

[QUOTE="dave123321"] vicious cycle dave123321

Does anyone's posting meet your approval, Dave?

mhm

It's Laihendi isn't it. 

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[QUOTE="dave123321"][QUOTE="jimkabrhel"]

Does anyone's posting meet your approval, Dave?

jimkabrhel

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It's Laihendi isn't it. 

Time and time again I have complimented you as a poster
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I believe it is a divinely given institution between a man and a woman. Jesus said in Mark 10,

6) But from the beginning of creation, God made them male and female.7) Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife,8) and the two shall become one flesh. So they are no longer two but one flesh.9 What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.

So obviously, I believe it is a blessing. Anything outside the bounds of God's definition is open rebellion against the created order.

maheo30
For Jesus to say that, it seems pretty odd that he was a 34 year old Bachelor then doesn't it?
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#21 -TheSecondSign-
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I feel like it's not for everybody.

That said, neither is being single for your whole life.

I think a lot of people who should never marry and are better off on their own try the whole family thing and then divorce, but only after having a kid or starting some serious financial commitment. 

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#22 deactivated-5b78379493e12
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[QUOTE="jimkabrhel"]

[QUOTE="dave123321"] mhmdave123321

It's Laihendi isn't it. 

Time and time again I have complimented you as a poster

You don't do it enough. I don't feel appreciated. :cry:

[spoiler] just kidding, I know, and I appreciate it. [/spoiler]

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#23 konvikt_17
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*nuisance

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[QUOTE="jimkabrhel"]

[QUOTE="dave123321"] vicious cycle dave123321

Does anyone's posting meet your approval, Dave?

mhm

And do you ever offer any useful wisdom to any thread?

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#26 XilePrincess
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I don't feel like marriage is being tied down, so I see it as a positive thing and not a ball and chain.
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#27 Sweetbackhair
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I think it's more of a nuesence because I'm seeing people get married as soon as they're done with school, or some girls I graduated with are apparently getting married to guys in the army at the age from 18-21 anymore.
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#28 worlock77
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I think it's more of a nuesence because I'm seeing people get married as soon as they're done with school, or some girls I graduated with are apparently getting married to guys in the army at the age from 18-21 anymore.Sweetbackhair

You speak as if that's a new trend.

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[QUOTE="dave123321"][QUOTE="jimkabrhel"]

Does anyone's posting meet your approval, Dave?

worlock77

mhm

And do you ever offer any useful wisdom to any thread?

I offer ontopic comments frequenty. I rarely engage further then that though.,
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[QUOTE="dave123321"][QUOTE="jimkabrhel"]

It's Laihendi isn't it. 

Mikey132

Time and time again I have complimented you as a poster

So who cares....  You woulda cut my throat in public last year....  You think he cares what you think..... like I said, the sun is the yellow thing in the sky..... don't look at it directly, it's as harmful as posting on the net thinking people will give a ****!

You are weird
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#31 nomsayin
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[QUOTE="worlock77"]

[QUOTE="dave123321"] mhmdave123321

And do you ever offer any useful wisdom to any thread?

Yes. Pay attention

Dave man up
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#32 dave123321
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[QUOTE="dave123321"][QUOTE="worlock77"]

And do you ever offer any useful wisdom to any thread?

nomsayin
Yes. Pay attention

Dave man up

Man up how
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#34 nomsayin
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[QUOTE="dave123321"][QUOTE="nomsayin"][QUOTE="dave123321"] Yes. Pay attention

Dave man up

Man up how

worlock just badmouthed you..don't just sit there man. refute his assertion.
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#35 dave123321
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[QUOTE="nomsayin"][QUOTE="dave123321"][QUOTE="nomsayin"] Dave man up

Man up how

worlock just badmouthed you..don't just sit there man. refute his assertion.

worlock made a valid point. There is no need to push things further then that other then to say that I do offer some ontopic posts
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#36 nomsayin
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[QUOTE="dave123321"] worlock made a valid point. There is no need to push things further then that other then to say that I do offer some ontopic posts

so you're saying that rubbish spews out of your mouth?
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[QUOTE="nomsayin"][QUOTE="dave123321"] worlock made a valid point. There is no need to push things further then that other then to say that I do offer some ontopic posts

so you're saying that rubbish spews out of your mouth?

If that is how you want to define it, yes
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#38 nomsayin
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[QUOTE="dave123321"] If that is how you want to define it, yes

My advice remains the same then: Man up. Don't dehumanize yourself. You're better than that. You're not a little boy anymore. Dave, you're capable of great things. Stop living in the past.
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#39 EmpCom
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Marriage like most things in life is as good or bad as you want it to be
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#40 coolbeans90
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Dave, grow a pair and fight, God damn it.

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#41 nomsayin
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[QUOTE="dave123321"]

When is our friend brucie coming back?
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#42 EmpCom
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Yeah dave reintroduce worlock to his balls
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#43 dave123321
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[QUOTE="nomsayin"][QUOTE="dave123321"]

When is our friend brucie coming back?

I don't know. He is reluctant to just make an alt. maybe I am wrong about him and he has one already.
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#44 nomsayin
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he has one already. dave123321
I don't think so. If he had an alt, i think he'd probably let one of us know.
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#45 dave123321
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Why would I even want to offer any wisdom to this damn cesspool
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Why would I even want to offer any wisdom to this damn cesspool dave123321

So.......................You're above this place?.......................

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#47 dave123321
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[QUOTE="dave123321"]he has one already. nomsayin
I don't think so. If he had an alt, i think he'd probably let one of us know.

Those are my thoughts. But maybe he isn't all that he seems to be at the surface
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Why would I even want to offer any wisdom to this damn cesspool dave123321
It's good to help others
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#49 nomsayin
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[QUOTE="dave123321"]Why would I even want to offer any wisdom to this damn cesspool Chow_Mein_Kampf

So.......................You're above this place?.......................

I wonder where this superiority complex is derived from...
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#50 dave123321
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[QUOTE="dave123321"]Why would I even want to offer any wisdom to this damn cesspool Chow_Mein_Kampf

So.......................You're above this place?.......................

I am saying that some people and topics aren't deserving of people's time and attention. People would be best to not seriously engage with them.