Do you feel the pain of others?

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#1 Acemaster27
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Hard as I might try, I just don't seem to.

When I'm around others I act like I do. I even donate to charities and am a part of a group at school that seeks to end human trafficking and slavery because I know in the logical sense that it is important to help people. But I still don't actually feel their pain. When a friend of my suffers a rough break-up, I put on my best "I care" face because logically, I do. But I still don't really feel any different around them.

How about you?

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#2 Elephant_Couple
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I feel for my wife, my parents, and my brother and sisters. Aside from incidents involving those six people, I really have no emotions at all. I know how you feel.
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#3 wigan_gamer
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Yes I care a lot, its one of the things I am good at :) Although I would happily trade it for other personality traits I lack. This caring helps me in no shape or form.
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#4 DyThanatos
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I act like I feel it but actually in the inside I'm like whatever but I really do care about others pains.
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#5 Artekus
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I don't feel much of anything anymore. My ex killed me inside, lovely woman.
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#6 EMOEVOLUTION
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yes, I feel for anybody that I see suffering.
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#7 z4twenny
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i don't feel their pain really and as much as i joke about the suffering of others i wouldn't actually wish it on people. like laughing at a horrible car wreck, you didn't want it to happen but that camry that got turned into a giant crushed metal box is pretty funny and then you picture the driver bouncing comically across 6 lanes of traffic and a brutal carwreck becomes a little funnier :P

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#8 Gaming-Planet
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Yeah, I can sense their emotions. It's kind of harder doing it on someone you do not know from a distance.

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#9 cpo335
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If someone gets kicked in the nuts, I cringe.
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#10 XanderKage
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I do. But probably not in the way that you mean - I don't feel pain as others are in pain...

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#11 rikkustrife
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well it depends
usually yes though

sometimes people overract though

but if it is someone i care about, I'll care even if they overreact

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#12 cousin_eddy
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I think that I do yes....that is if I can identify with the situation at hand...if not then I don't even kid myself with trying to feel a great level of pain.
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#13 rawsavon
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Every ******* day -people won't shut up about their pain, their problems, their issues...makes my ******* ears hurt -damn people can be so selfish sometimes...keep your bad **** to yourself...burdening others is just plain rude [spoiler] in all actuality, I tend to be very empathetic...despite my desire to be left alone most of the time [/spoiler]
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#14 pygmahia5
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sometimes. if its something i can relate to then yes. a lot of the time i can't because i've never felt it before. ill still be sry and i try to be empathetic but usually its like "that would suck!"
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#16 aerial6790
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Yea,anybody that is hurt,i come to their aid.
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#17 Tiki_Hemp
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kinda, i feel for someone elsesawkwardness more often than i feel their pain. Classic example is like in movies when worst enemies start trying to get along, that ,to me, is an awkward situation and i feel awkward watching it.