Do you find it hard to apologise even when you know you're wrong?

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#1 DigitalExile
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Two topics from DigitalExile in one day? I'm surprised too.

Anyway, I was just thinking that I always feel weird for apologising, usually because I never do anything with the intention to hurt someone/break something (or whatever the case may be), or maybe I'm just an ass that feels no remorse.

What about you?

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#2 deactivated-5a79221380856
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If they're hard to get along with about being right.

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#3 WiiMan21
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Two topics from DigitalExile in one day? I'm surprised too.

Anyway, I was just thinking that I always feel weird for apologising, usually because I never do anything with the intention to hurt someone/break something (or whatever the case may be), or maybe I'm just an ass that feels no remorse.

What about you?

DigitalExile

Sometimes, often I have to apologise for be sarcastic or something along the lines of joking.

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#4 ufcfan17
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Nope,I always apologise when I'm wrong and I don't find it hard.In contrary I find it pretty easy

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#5 megagene
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Yep. I never apologise ever. I'm sorry but that's just the way I am.
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#6 Murj
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I'll apologise if I'm wrong willingly. I hate people who have a pride so big they can't admit when they're wrong.

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#7 Scarface_tm431
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I used to find it really hard but not now, especially when I'm wrong. The thing I hated was when you were in school and they'd make you apologize for stuff you weren't sorry for, I actually thought a lot less of apologies because of that. Now that I'm not in school though and no one 'makes' me apologize I find them sincer and easy to do
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#8 corwinn01
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If I am wrong I apologize.

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#9 jimmyjammer69
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It depends. I had an ex who did something very wrong and apologised for it constantly for the following few weeks. As soon as she'd bring the subject up, I'd feel my blood begin to boil. I learnt from her that it's much more important to show you're sorry than to say it.
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#10 cyberdarkkid
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No, I feel relieved when I apologize to someone knowing that it was my fault.
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#11 deactivated-5a79221380856
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No, I feel relieved when I apologize to someone knowing that it was my fault.cyberdarkkid
I don't know how you can feel relieved for something you did wrong. I would feel bad until I fixed whatever it was that I did wrong.
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#12 samuraiguns
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Whenever I am wrong, I apologize.

I even do it on GS.

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#13 Flame_Blade88
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I always apologize when I'm wrong.
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#14 dodgerblue13
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No. I'm very apologetic. If I'm wrong, I have no problem apologizing. Then again, I'm not the type to force my opinion down someone's throat and demand that I'm right. I'd actually have a harder time not apologizing because I'd feel guilty and rude for not doing so.
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#15 DarknessLion
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If im proven wrong I will keep arguing until my "Opponent" gives up and say "whatever forget." So I dont apologise the most I ever do is say "Whoops, Okay"
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#16 Silverbond
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That completely depends on how the person I'm apologizing to acts.

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#17 theone86
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I'll tell you if I'm ever in a situation where I'm wrong.

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#18 cyberdarkkid
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[QUOTE="cyberdarkkid"]No, I feel relieved when I apologize to someone knowing that it was my fault.Genetic_Code
I don't know how you can feel relieved for something you did wrong. I would feel bad until I fixed whatever it was that I did wrong.

Apologizing is part of fixing whatever I did wrong though, people's feelings have a big value too :?
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#19 SegaGenesisfan
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Me, sure, my mom............. Totally different story, but there was one time she called to apologize, unfortunately that was the one time in her 50+ year life.

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#20 deactivated-5a79221380856
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Apologizing is part of fixing whatever I did wrong though, people's feelings have a big value too :?cyberdarkkid
I feel like I'm blowing the person off when I apologize. It's as though I'm saying, "I can't fix it, so this will have to do." Which isn't true most of the time. You're right though about it being a part of fixing the problem. People's feelings matter.